In today's society, the size and pomp of a wedding are often regarded as an important indicator of the happiness and social status of the couple. Many people are willing to invest a lot of money and time to create a dream wedding as a way to show their success and taste. However, a recent video of a wedding on the Internet has caused widespread controversy, making people start to re-examine the essence of weddings.
The wedding in this video is extraordinarily simple. There are no lavish fleets, no bright lights, not even fancy wedding dresses and suits. The bride and groom simply put on red flowers, the bride held flowers, and the two knelt on the mat covered with mandarin ducks playing in the quilt in their own courtyard, completing the worship ceremony. Despite the simplicity of everything, the faces of the newlyweds were filled with happy smiles.
The simple style of this wedding sparked heated discussions among netizens. Some people think that such a wedding is too simple and even shabby. In their opinion, weddings are important moments in their lives that should be remembered and therefore must be carefully planned and arranged. Others hold the opposite view, arguing that the wedding is a return to traditional weddings by showcasing the simplicity and pragmatism of working people.
In fact, there is no absolute standard for the luxury and simplicity of a wedding. Everyone's definition of happiness is different, so it is natural that expectations and requirements for a wedding will also be different. Some people are looking for pomp and face, hoping to show their social status and wealth through weddings. Some people pay more attention to the inner meaning of the wedding, believing that happiness does not lie in the external show-off, but in the tacit understanding and mutual understanding between two people.
With the progress of society and the change of concepts, more and more people have begun to look at weddings rationally. They no longer blindly pursue luxury and pomp, but pay more attention to the practical meaning and value of weddings. After all, the happiness of marriage is not guaranteed by a luxurious wedding, but more importantly, the mutual support and understanding of two people in their daily lives.
Back to that simple wedding, although it did not have the lavish pomp and exquisite decorations, it made people see the essence of happiness. The smile and the love in the eyes of the couple are more touching than any extravagant decorations. Such a wedding, although unpretentious, is full of sincere emotions and beautiful expectations for the future.
In this age of material abundance, we should learn to cherish those simple and pure happiness. Whether it's a lavish wedding or a simple ceremony, the most important thing is that two people can be heart-to-heart and spend every stage of life together.