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I've always felt that my daughter has been kind to me. I did three test tubes with my wife in four years, and I suffered both psychophysially and finally got her. Now four years old, I haven't once been mad at her.
Companionship and care are graces, and as pure providers, there is no grace. Many people have raised their children all their lives and spent time, energy, and money, but they have not penetrated into the emotional communication in their hearts, and their children actually have no feelings for them.
Parents have the grace of nurturing their children, and they can repay them with feedback, but parents, as the medium through which their children come into this world, are not qualified to control their children.
Whether there is grace or not depends on how they treat their children. Therefore, when parents decide on the birth of their child, they are obliged to raise him until he is 18 years old, and they are not eligible to ask for anything in return. But parents give their children love and education, and they are gracious
I saw a sentence that I felt particularly emotional. What the child reciprocates is the parents' share that does not ask for anything in return. Love from the heart can be exchanged for gratitude from the heart
Some parents are unkind≠ your parents are unkind≠ all parents are unkind.
It is not great to be born, but it is great to raise well, because it is not easy to raise well, and raising well means being responsible for the child, which is very great! Most parents can't do it, so how can we talk about it
The theory of parental unkindness is correct, it is your own volition, and it is not the child who forces you, and it is the responsibility of parents that the child is born and raised. She also has to take care of you when you are old, which is also a responsibility, if you didn't give love when you were a child, don't ask for so much when you are old
It depends on whether you are a child or a parent, the two identities are different. Being a child remembers the nurturing grace of their parents, and when they are parents, they should be. If you think about it the other way around, it's boring.
Inertial thinking, children are like blank paper, how you paint, he is what he is. That's what their parents taught.
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