Gnawing the old, this word doesn't sound like a good thing, but now that there is a new type of gnawing the old, this thing is even more of a headache. The new type of gnawing on the elderly is not only dependent on their parents' money, but also depends on their living care.
Nowadays, there are many such situations, many young people as soon as they graduate from college and cannot find a satisfactory job, so they hide in their homes in the name of preparing for graduate school or civil service, and continue to spend their parents' money and enjoy their parents' care.
My cousin is like this, after graduation, his job was unsatisfactory, so he went home to prepare for the graduate school entrance examination, stayed for more than a year, and finally failed the graduate school entrance examination, and is still at home, relying on his parents to live.
There are also young people who are married, who are not independent, who live with their parents, and often reach out to their parents for money in the name of their children. Today it is said that the child wants to take an English class, tomorrow it is said that he wants to learn to draw, in short, there are always various reasons to ask his parents for money.
Let's talk about those young people who dream of becoming bosses, who have not worked for a few days and think about starting a business. It is often the parents who have to pay for it, and they start without knowing anything, and if they fail, their parents will bear the consequences.
For example, my neighbor has a child who studied art, and after graduation, he didn't want to work in a training institution, so he had to start his own art tutoring class. invested 800,000 yuan before and after, but it closed in less than a year.
In fact, entrepreneurship should have a certain amount of social experience, have your own savings and experience, and then try to do it, just graduated and took your parents' money to start a business, and few succeeded.
Many people complain that there is a lot of social pressure now, housing prices are high, and the bride price is expensive, and young people can't afford it themselves. Indeed, the cost of living is much higher now than it was in our parents' time. But that doesn't excuse you to gnaw old forever.
Some of today's young people are only children, who have been pampered by their parents since they were young, and it is difficult for them to adapt to society when they grow up. For example, one of my classmates in primary school had good academic performance and was admitted to a key university, but after graduation, because he did not adapt to society, he played games at home all day and was reluctant to go out to find a job.
Many parents dote on their children, which is actually a kind of helplessness. is like Su Mingyu's second brother in the TV series "It's All Good", his parents' pension has been spent on him, and his parents want their children to be by their side, so even if the children are old, they are willing to accept it.
To change this, parents need to set an example. For example, teach children how to manage money and not develop the habit of spending lavishly. A few days ago, a friend complained that the interns in the company knew how to play at work and had no sense of work. This situation is largely caused by the doting and unconditional support of their parents.
Loving children should not be doting without a bottom line. We should help them build an independent personality and let them learn to live independently. In this way, children will be able to cope with life's challenges on their own in the future and will no longer have to rely on their parents. Only in this way can our children gain a foothold in the future society and become the pillars of society.
In today's society, gnawing on the elderly seems to have become the norm, but we cannot abdicate the responsibility of educating children to be independent. As parents, we need to not only provide material support, but more importantly, teach our children how to be self-reliant. This kind of education is really conducive to the growth of children, and it is also a manifestation of social responsibility. I hope that every family can realize this and work together to avoid the occurrence of a new phenomenon of gnawing the old.
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