No matter your age or stage of life, remember that you don't have to bring too many people into your life. Sometimes, the smaller the social circle, the better the life.
Overly complicated relationships can take a lot of energy.
You never know if someone else will empathize. It's better to focus on yourself and get through each day without bothering about unstable things.
Some things can not be repeated after understanding, and some people can no longer be entangled in nostalgia after they have an in-depth understanding.
For those who are not worth contacting, regardless of gender, we should keep ourselves sane and sober and avoid any unnecessary communication. It's not a scheming, it's a smart move.
One: If you can't give it to your future lover, it's not worth wasting your feelings
In a relationship, women need to think about future planning, and should not only listen to men's words, but should focus on understanding the man's true inner thoughts.
A man who truly loves you, even if the current living conditions are very tight, will do his best to give you the best life and plan your future with care.
We believe that the love that women yearn for is not only the romance and beauty of the moment, but more importantly, the fact that two people can go through the rest of their lives together, create and enjoy a state of maintaining a stable and happy life.
If a man really loves you, he will take the initiative to take care of your life and show his self-motivation to give you more and better love. It is a manifestation that radiates from the inside out, and if you can experience this kind of love, you will feel happiness and warmth.
When choosing a partner, a woman must choose carefully and keep her eyes open. If you choose a man who lives a messy life, then you are just a pastime in his boring life. And only a man who truly loves you will seriously think about each other's future lives. When deciding on the person you want, be sure to think about it and choose someone who can bring you a bright future.
Two: People who don't know how to respect you don't really love you
In love, some women ignore the essence of men and only see their gentle, considerate side. Even if a man hits someone during an argument, these women will automatically make excuses for the man. This way of looking at love is not wise, we should learn to see the true essence of a person in order to make the right judgment and choice.
My friend Zhang Hui often heard a couple next door arguing loudly during her rental, which made her feel very uncomfortable.
Once, the girl next door had a messy face and tears on her face, and asked me: Can you talk to me? Through this incident, I deeply understood the bitterness of love.
This young girl, who has not yet experienced much in life, met the man through a blind date, and because she believed in the vision and introduction of her parents, she fell in love with the man wholeheartedly.
Unfortunately, we have found that men lose their temper easily after drinking, initially complaining verbally, but then may solve his problems with beatings. This is a common phenomenon that requires attention.
Zhang Hui suggested that girls should think seriously and not easily fall into feelings and be unable to extricate themselves. It is necessary to examine whether a man truly loves himself in order to make the right future choices. Listen to your inner voice and recognize what you really want in life.
The famous writer Zhou Guoping once said:
"Loving someone, in fact, is to feel sorry for a person, love deeply, the potential father or motherhood will inevitably be involved, but the infatuation is not distressing, such love still stays in the senses, does not penetrate into the heart, often can not last. ”
Love is like a person drinking water, and he understands the warmth and coldness.
Women must remain sane in order to make wise love choices. If you stick to the wrong idea, even if someone repeatedly advises you, it will not help.
Three: Friends who can't be treated sincerely are not worth your time
Some people say they have grown up more confident and composed, but have lost many friends, while others have enjoyed the freedom of being alone, sometimes feeling lonely and sometimes feeling more comfortable.
When we were younger, we thought that the more friends we had, the better, but as we grew up, we came to understand that having a confidant is the most fortunate thing. This is a precious fate that cannot be measured by quantity.
If you have friends who are not sincere, don't waste any more time with them.
人际交往,若未能换位思考,便毫无意义。
In life, we often meet a lot of such people, who promise to repay the money on time, but always can't do it......
Such people, even if they were once close, are not worth continuing to associate with, because they will only bring you disappointment and hurt. So, we should respect our feelings and keep our distance.
We don't need to invite too many people into our lives for the rest of our lives. Conversely, if our lives are overcrowded, we may miss out on people who are truly worth associating with. Each of us has a limited amount of time and energy, and we must choose to associate with good people so as not to live up to every opportunity we meet.