How difficult is it for a single mother? A person has to take care of the children's diet and daily life, and has to go out to work to earn money. Ordinary women, it is difficult to raise a child alone, let alone two or three, it is really a day to survive.
There is such a mother in Hainan, who is raising three children alone, because she needs to go out to work, she locks her children at home, and the children can only eat one meal a day, and they are hungry every day.
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She only eats one meal a day
On April 23, a netizen in Hainan posted that a mother locked her three children at home and went out to work in the middle of the night to come back, and the three children could only eat a meal when their mother returned.
The eldest child is four years old, and the youngest is only a few months old and still crawling on the couch. The child was dirty, and the room was full of feces and urine.
Because they were so hungry, the children asked for food when they saw someone. The neighbor couldn't bear to see the child starving, so he bought something and handed it through the window.
The health situation is worrying
Previously, there was a boss who delivered food to the house, and the eldest two children immediately ran over to her to ask for food, and the boss looked at the dirty appearance of the three babies, and couldn't help asking, "What about your mother?" The eldest child said that his mother was sleeping.
Knowing that the children hadn't taken a shower for several days, the boss couldn't stand it, so he decided to take them to take a bath. Unexpectedly, there was no water at home, so she had to take the youngest baby to the faucet next door to scrub it first.
Taking off the child's diaper, she saw a shocking scene, the diaper was full of feces and urine, and she didn't know how many days she hadn't changed it. Because of the long-term absence of bathing and diapers, the child's buttocks are soaked and there are some skin problems on the body (may be dermatitis, rash, etc.).
Where did Dad go?
From the mouth of a neighbor, I learned that the mother got married in her teens and gave birth to a total of 5 children, and later because of problems in the relationship between the husband and wife, the father left with the eldest two children and ignored the youngest three children.
The mother, who is alone with her three young children, has been living on the help of her neighbors, but has recently found a job and is reluctant to continue to accept help from her neighbors.
But the neighbors saw that the child was really pitiful, so they secretly sent some sweet potatoes and steamed buns to satisfy their hunger, and then secretly rubbed medicine on the festering area on the child's body.
How can children grow up healthily when they have been living in such a dirty environment for a long time and are starving? The neighbors did not fail to remind the child's mother to pay more attention to hygiene and give the child a bath, but the mother was indifferent and did not respond to the kindness of others at all.
A person familiar with the matter broke the news: This mother is sick and depressed, so she refuses to communicate with others.
In fact, this possibility is not ruled out, after all, a person who works outside until midnight, and when he comes back, he has to take care of three young children who are waiting to be fed, and there is no water at home, which sounds devastating.
Netizens are discussing: Why do you have to give birth to so many people if you can't afford it?
When the child is born, not to mention how good you have to give him, at least you have to let him eat enough, even food and clothing can't be solved, and it will harm the child when he is born.
At present, we don't know whether Mom and Dad are divorced or not, but whether they are divorced or not, child support must be given, and besides, the child is still so young, it takes more effort to raise it.
Follow-up: The Women's Federation has intervened
It is difficult for two husbands and wives to raise three children together, not to mention that there is only a mother, many netizens have accused this mother of being irresponsible, leaving such a young child at home, watching the youngest one climb up and down, and no adult is watching, how dangerous!
Without the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be kind, the mother is also to pick up the brick to put down the child, before relying on the relief of neighbors to live, now go out to work, may not have money to buy food for the child at home, let alone ask someone to take care of it.
I hope that the relevant departments can provide assistance as soon as possible, so that the three children can be properly taken care of and grow up healthily.