Recently, Zhang Lan angrily said in a live broadcast that she would show evidence in response to Big S's claim that she was ready to sever the mother-son relationship with her son Wang Xiaofei.
This remark quickly stirred up a thousand waves of public opinion, and the private matter that originally belonged to the two families was instantly pushed to the forefront.
In the midst of this family strife, we can't help but ask: Who is lost?
From Zhang Lan's live broadcast remarks, we can feel the anger and helplessness of a mother.
She bluntly said that Da S has slandered her grandchildren in public many times, and even threatened to cut off relations with her son. However, Zhang Lan's choice to tear her face on the public platform of live broadcast has exacerbated the conflict and complicated the problems that could have been solved privately.
In this family dispute, there are undoubtedly problems with the words and deeds of Zhang Lan and Da S. As a mother, Zhang Lan should have faced her daughter-in-law and grandchildren with a more rational and tolerant attitude, instead of venting her emotions in the live broadcast and making the conflict public.
And Da S, as a daughter-in-law and mother, should also be aware of the harm his words and deeds may cause to his family, especially to his children.
In fact, family disputes should have been resolved within the family, and conflicts should be resolved through communication and understanding. Making the contradictions public will not only not help solve the problem, but will put both sides in an even more awkward position.
More importantly, such disputes will bring irreparable psychological trauma to children and affect their healthy growth.
As public figures, Zhang Lan and Big S's words and deeds should be more cautious. Their actions are not only related to their own families, but also have a certain impact on society. scolding on a public platform has undoubtedly set a very bad example for the public.
Marriage and family need to be managed with love, not with harm as a bargaining chip. Public figures should lead by example, face conflicts with a rational and inclusive attitude, and resolve disputes with love.
At present, Zhang Lanliang's remarks in response to evidence have caused a lot of shadows. Under the impetus of public opinion, it may be difficult to end the situation. No matter what the final truth is, we all hope that the parties concerned can calm down, put family affection first, put children first, communicate rationally, and turn hostility into friendship.
In this family strife, there are no winners. We should learn a lesson from this, cherish family affection, and resolve conflicts with love. At the same time, it is also hoped that the public can look at this incident rationally, not over-hype and speculation, and leave enough space for the parties to deal with family problems.
In short, the family is the cell of society, and the harmony and stability of the family are related to the harmony and stability of the society. We should face family conflicts with a more tolerant and understanding attitude, resolve disputes with love, and make the family a warm harbor instead of a battlefield for disputes.