Kid, not everyone likes you
From the day you were born, you began to come into contact with all kinds of people, and each of them had different preferences, cultivations, and personalities. Some people will dislike you because of your size and appearance, some people will not like you because of your grades, and some people will dislike you because your hobbies are different from theirs...... In short, you have to recognize this reality. However, this is not a bad thing, and you don't have to deny yourself because of it. As long as you keep doing the right thing and insist on being a good and upright person, some people will change their attitude towards you sooner or later, and those who don't like you as always will stay away because they may not be good people.
02
Say thank you, kid
No one around you, including your own parents, is obligated to help you, take care of you, or tolerate you. Your parents have given you life, and this is already the greatest favor to you.
Therefore, when others help you once, you must seriously say thank you, otherwise there will be no second time, and when others don't want to help you, don't hold grudges, because people are not obliged to help you, besides, have you done anything for others?
03
Child, learning is really not for me
Why do I keep urging you to read and study? Only when you read more can you distinguish between right and wrong, and you will not be blinded by people with bad intentions, and you will not be affected by superficial people. Why do the old men and old ladies in the community spend a lot of money on something called "magic rust removal water"? Because they don't know that there is a thing called "hydrochloric acid".
Only if you have good grades, can you be qualified to choose a job you like, and you can have free time to do what you like, instead of wronging yourself and being busy all your life in order to survive.
04
Children, life is precious
Because you are still young, you can't experience life and death. And when it comes to the age of "running four" for parents, the friends around me have already "gone first". You know, watching a peer die is a very sad and frightening thing. Of course, what is more sad than this is that the white-haired people send the black-haired people. Therefore, in your most helpless, painful, and lonely days, you have to choose to live strongly, don't talk about self-harm and suicide, your life is given by your parents, and you have no right to give up.
05
Child, often go home to see
To be honest, every parent is very conflicted, hoping that their children can spread their wings and fly high, but also want their children to accompany them. This is true the older you get. Therefore, no matter how busy you are in the future, please take the time to go home and have a look, it is also a great joy for the old couple to be able to cook a meal for you and clean up your bed in advance......
06
Child, love is greater than you think, but it is also more ordinary
Love is based on mutual giving, understanding and support, and love will always be implemented in the life of firewood, rice, oil and salt. If you can't afford any responsibilities at the age of 10, you can't give anyone happiness, so don't do something to "steal the forbidden fruit", it's not good for anyone.
07
Children, face up to the unfairness in life
As long as it is a society, it is full of competition and injustice, we don't have to dwell too much on these things, and it is reliable to work hard to improve ourselves. You don't have to be ashamed of our car being worse than our neighbor's, because our parents bought our car on their own, and there is no shame in it; if our car is better than our neighbor's, you don't have the capital to be proud of, because the car has almost nothing to do with you, and you haven't paid anything for it.
If, out of disadvantage, you complain about the unfairness of society all day long will wear down your will and make you sink and suffer more injustice, if you are superior, you will be blinded by showing off all day long, and you are afraid that one day you will degenerate into the kind of person you used to look down on.
08
Children, keep themselves clean at all times
On any occasion, don't indulge yourself, whether it's mentally or physically! You must have your own firm bottom line of principles, and you should never touch some bad habits, such as alcoholism, smoking, drugs, and sexual promiscuity! For girls, this is especially important, because girls themselves are in a relatively weak position, and one indulgence often leads to a lifetime of misfortune!
09
Kids, money is important, but some things are even more important
Money is very, very, very important, and a poor person has little access to dignity, family, education, health...... However, "a gentleman loves money and takes it in the right way", and you should not try once those methods of obtaining wealth through stealing and deception.
10
Son, do everything on your own
"The backers will fall, and everyone will run", only you are the most reliable.
Few colleagues will really help you, your parents will be old and will not be able to accompany you for a lifetime, brothers and sisters will have their own families and their own big messes, and even your children will leave you sooner or later to start a family...... Therefore, you must have your own hobbies, have a healthy body, and go to the end happily by yourself!