On a sunny afternoon, I sat on the balcony and enjoyed the afternoon sun. My phone rang and I saw a message from my boyfriend that made my heart sink.
"Sorry, I've been a bit busy lately and may not be able to contact you for a while. ”
I looked at my phone screen in amazement, overwhelmed. The suddenness of the snub was unacceptable to me, and I tried to call his phone, but the phone kept being turned off.
I am an ordinary girl named Xiaoya, and I have been in love with my boyfriend for two years. Our relationship has always been good, and I never thought he would suddenly become cold. I felt heartache and was overwhelmed.
I started trying to contact him, texting and calling, but he never replied and his phone was turned off. I was flustered, and I couldn't understand why he was like this.
I had to send him a message, "What the hell is wrong with you? Why didn't you reply to my message?"
However, I never received any reply from him.
I felt hopeless and depressed. I began to reminisce about the bits and pieces between us, trying to figure out what the problem was. There wasn't any quarrel or unpleasantness going on between us, and I couldn't understand how he suddenly became cold.
I decided to confide in my good friend Xiaomei.
"Xiaoya, what's wrong with you? Xiaomei asked with concern.
I sighed, "yes, lately my boyfriend has suddenly become cold and doesn't reply to my messages, and his phone has been turned off. I don't really know what's going on. ”
Mei listened to what I had to say and frowned, "What's going on? Did you try to find out why he did it?"
I shook my head, "I tried to contact him, texted, called, but he never replied, and his phone was turned off. ”
Xiaomei was silent for a while, and then said softly, "I have also experienced a similar situation before, when my boyfriend suddenly became cold and did not contact me. Later I found out that he was actually dating another girl. ”
I listened to Xiaomei's words, my heart sank, and an ominous premonition came to my heart. I tried to dispel the thought, but it stuck like a thorn in my heart and I couldn't pull it out.
I found my good friend Xiao Fang and confided in her about my troubles.
"Xiaoya, what's wrong with you? Xiao Fang asked with concern.
I sighed, "yes, lately my boyfriend has suddenly become cold and doesn't reply to my messages, and his phone has been turned off. I don't really know what's going on. ”
Xiao Fang listened to what I had to say and frowned, "What's going on? Did you try to find out why he did it?"
I shook my head, "I tried to contact him, texted, called, but he never replied, and his phone was turned off. ”
Xiao Fang was silent for a while, and then said softly, "I also experienced a similar situation before, when my boyfriend suddenly became cold and didn't contact me. Later I found out that he was actually dating another girl. ”
I listened to Xiaofang's words, my heart sank, and an ominous premonition came to my heart. I tried to dispel the thought, but it stuck like a thorn in my heart and I couldn't pull it out.
I tried to contact him again, but he still didn't reply. A sense of foreboding began to develop in my heart, and I couldn't help but wonder if he was betraying me.
I felt like my heart was wringing, and I couldn't accept that fact. The relationship between us is so deep, how could I be so snubbed by him?
In the end, I decided to go to him and talk to him face-to-face.
I went to his quarters and rang the doorbell. He opened the door and looked a little embarrassed to see my unexpected appearance.
"Why are you here?" he asked.
I looked at him, trying to hide the pain in my heart, "I want to talk to you. ”
As we sat in the living room, I asked bluntly, "Why are you doing this to me, why are you suddenly snubbing me?"
He was silent for a moment, then said slowly, "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have done this to you. In fact, I've been having some difficulties lately and I want to face them alone. ”
A flash of disappointment flashed in my eyes, and I tried to trust his explanation, but there was still a hint of unease in my heart.
"I'll fix these issues as soon as possible and then have a good talk with you. "He tried to comfort me.
I nodded, still feeling sorry for me. Perhaps, I should give him a chance. But at the same time, I also realized that I needed to protect myself and stop trusting him easily. This experience taught me that communication and trust are essential in a relationship between the sexes.
This is a story about communication and trust in the relationship between the sexes. In the process, I learned how to face difficulties, how to protect myself, and how to put feelings in perspective. It was not only a painful experience, but also a spiritual growth.