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Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

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Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

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In 1987, after the marriage of Ren Li, the beloved of the cross-era biologist Zou Hongyan, she finally welcomed the long-awaited first child, which is undoubtedly a great happiness and hope for their marriage and family.

The birth of this child was a difficult one, and the husband and wife are already in old age, and after many years of long and painful treatment, there is exciting news.

With full enthusiasm and perseverance, Zou Hongyan devoted herself to every task during pregnancy, and she did her best to create the best living environment for the fetus in her womb.

Under the careful guidance of professional doctors and the inspiration of many parenting books, Zou Hongyan will carefully plan various prenatal education activities for the fetus every day. She uses beautiful music to massage the baby's body, satisfies his taste buds with rich and delicious food, and the soft lighting creates a warm and comfortable little world.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

In order to ensure that the fetus receives adequate nutrition, Zou Hongyan even did not hesitate to change her eating habits as a vegetarian and bravely tried to eat animal offal, which she originally resisted so much.

The whole family is waiting with great anticipation for the arrival of this new life. Finally, on a quiet night in July 1988, Zou Hongyan felt a strong pain hit her, and she was immediately rushed to the hospital for treatment.

After an arduous delivery process, the doctor finally succeeded in handing over a baby's small body safely to Zou Hongyan's arms. Seeing the child's pink little face, the whole family cheered and was ecstatic.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

They named the child "Tintin", which means a good wish to grow up healthy and strong.

Who would have thought that this short-lived joy would not last long, and disaster would quickly strike again. On the night of childbirth, Zou Hongyan suddenly fainted and fell to the ground, and her family was terrified and sent her back to the hospital for rescue.

After a series of rigorous diagnoses, the doctor announced with a heavy face: "The child has intracranial hemorrhage, intrauterine hypoxia and suffocation." "It was undoubtedly a bolt from the blue, plunging the whole family into an endless abyss of despair.

Faced with this cruel reality, doctors persuaded Zou Hongyan to give up treatment. After all, they are in the prime of their youth, and the couple still have a chance to give birth to a new life. However, Zou Hongyan still firmly demanded that all efforts be made to save Ding Ding, and she stubbornly believed that as long as the child was alive, it was worth all the effort.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

Seeing that his wife was so persistent, the husband finally couldn't bear it anymore and said angrily: "If you must do this, then please go and save him yourself!" After saying these decisive words, he turned away without hesitation.

In such a situation, in order to save the poor child, Zou Hongyan bravely took up the burden and took all the responsibilities independently, which also led to the breakdown of her marriage relationship with her husband.

After five days and five nights of intense rescue, Ding Ding finally managed to get out of danger. However, the doctor's diagnosis was like a hammer to Zou Hongyan's heart: "Although the child is out of danger at present, he is likely to face dementia or paralysis in the future."

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

Faced with this cruel truth, Zou Hongyan made a firm decision, she decided to personally tailor a set of exclusive rehabilitation plans for Ding Ding, and go all out to help him recover his health.

First, she had to give a thorough assessment of Tintin's physical and mental condition.

To this end, Zou Hongyan carefully arranged a colorful balloon world at home, patiently guiding Ding Ding to recognize and distinguish various colors. Surprisingly, Tintin has shown an amazing ability to learn, and is able to give the right answer every time.

In addition to the joy, Zou Hongyan is also keenly aware of a serious problem - if Ding Ding has no obvious intellectual impairment, then it is likely to indicate that he will face the risk of hemiplegia in the future.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

As expected, it wasn't long before she noticed that Tintin's physical strength was gradually decreasing, and even simple movements like raising her head became very difficult.

In order to prevent Ding Ding from suffering from physical disability in the future, Zou Hongyan decided to start strengthening Ding Ding's muscle exercises from now on. Initially, she chose to use paper tearing to train in the hope of improving Tintin's hand dexterity.

Tintin's hands were so weak that he couldn't even hold a piece of paper. Faced with this dilemma, Zou Hongyan could only go into battle in person, holding Ding Ding's little hand, and completing every action of tearing the paper step by step.

Over time, the difficulty of the training gradually escalated to the use of chopsticks. For ordinary children, mastering the use of chopsticks is already a difficult challenge, let alone Ding Ding, who is in such a poor physical condition.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

Zou Hongyan has always been unremitting in guiding and correcting, and she knows that she will never tolerate Ding Ding's inferiority complex and sense of loss in the future because she can't use chopsticks.

Every time they face a training challenge, mother and son will go all out to start a life-and-death contest between will and physical strength! Although Tintin is often in unbearable pain in the process, his face is flushed, and tears can't help but flow down, but when he glimpses the complex and determined light in his mother's eyes, he can regain his spirits and grit his teeth to the end.

In this way, as the days passed, the years passed, Zou Hongyan always patiently guided Ding Ding, helping him gradually recover from his helpless state, until he was finally able to master the skills of daily life.

Under the careful care of his mother and his own unremitting efforts, Ding Ding finally got rid of the difficulties in life and gradually embarked on the road to success.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

He was admitted to Peking University, one of China's top universities, and won numerous scholarships and honors, rising all the way to the academic peak of Juris Doctorate.

After graduating from college, Tintin got his wish and joined a top company with a global reputation. Although he has made a name for himself within the company and has become an indispensable figure, Tintin knows that a PhD alone is not enough to reach his potential.

Therefore, with the strong support and encouragement of his mother, Ding Ding resolutely launched an attack on Harvard University, the school of his dreams. After a period of hard revision and thorough preparation, Tintin finally received the admission letter from Harvard University.

In 2017, he successfully completed his studies at Harvard, earning a master's degree.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

During his time at Harvard, Tintin undoubtedly received the highest quality education, and his breadth of knowledge, depth of vision, and personal abilities were greatly improved and honed.

After graduating, Tintin didn't stand still. He continued to study diligently, and finally successfully passed the authoritative bar examination in the United States. This is undoubtedly the best confirmation of his strength, which makes Ding Ding attract attention in the future job search process and attract the enthusiastic attention of many well-known companies.

However, despite the promising future, as a Chinese, Ding Ding has always been concerned about the motherland, and he is eager to contribute to the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation.

After careful consideration, Tintin finally gave up the opportunity to develop in the United States and chose to return to his home country for employment.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

Tintin's experience at Harvard University has undoubtedly brought a fresh perspective and a bright spotlight. Many mainstream media outlets have sent sincere invitations to Tintin, hoping to hear his valuable learning insights and unique personal journey.

Standing in the spotlight, Tintin responded with humility and sincerity: "In fact, I don't have any maverick experience to share, life is an endless quest, we just need to stick to the ideal in our hearts and do our best to pursue it, anyone can achieve their dreams."

Ding Ding's success in entering the halls of Harvard University is inseparable from the unique and far-reaching educational philosophy of his mother Zou Hongyan. Since the day Ding Ding stepped into the campus, Zou Hongyan has always adhered to the parenting method of "free-range" and "incentive", giving Ding Ding a broad world of freedom and fully supporting him to explore the mystery of knowledge independently.

In Zou Hongyan's eyes, knowledge is not only easy to acquire through "indoctrination", but also requires children to actively touch, think and explore. She knows that as a mother, she can't be an omniscient all-rounder, so whenever Tintin is confused, she never takes the initiative to give an answer, but patiently guides Tintin to find a solution for herself.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

I still remember that moment, when the six-year-old Tintin encountered rare words in his textbook for the first time, which made him helpless. As a mother, Zou Hongyan did not directly tell the answer, but firmly said to Ding Ding: "Mom will teach you how to consult the dictionary to deal with unknown challenges."

Since then, whenever Tintin encounters any difficult and obscure vocabulary problems in the process of learning, he will always take the initiative to look through the dictionary and seek answers on his own.

When Tintin turned seven, he began to venture into a new field of mathematics. In contrast to other parents' mechanical teaching methods, Zou Hongyan chose an ingenious strategy – she encouraged Ding Ding to change the numbers in the exercises and then think and solve them independently.

The first time he tasted this method, Ding Ding inevitably developed a certain degree of dependence. Whenever Zou Hongyan has no time to check her homework, Ding Ding is distracted and even stops reflecting on herself. However, even so, Zou Hongyan will still give a full score on the test paper and sign it to show recognition.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

Until one day, the head teacher corrected Ding Ding's mistake, and he suddenly realized his own omission.

After returning to the room, Ding Ding asked his mother Zou Hongyan with doubts why she gave such a judgment. Faced with her son's question, her mother Zou Hongyan responded skillfully: "Really? My dear, the reason why I made that decision is completely out of trust and expectation for you - I firmly believe that you have the ability to exercise and improve your independent thinking and solve problems!" After this incident, Ding Ding deeply realized that in the journey of life, we must rely on ourselves to overcome obstacles, otherwise it will only be in vain.

Since then, whether in school or in daily life, Tintin has learned the ability to think actively and solve problems independently. Her mother, Zou Hongyan, has always had a consistent "stocking" strategy, giving her child full freedom and encouraging him to try bravely, even if he encounters occasional setbacks.

It is this positive attitude that has enabled Ding Ding to gradually grow into a learning talent full of curiosity and the courage to explore.

Single mother Zou Hongyan: Divorced her husband, and trained her son with cerebral palsy to become a top student in a famous school

Her mother, Zou Hongyan, knows that knowledge is not simply instilled, but requires children to take the initiative to read, think and explore. Her educational philosophy is to provide Ding Ding with the greatest space for independent development, stimulate his deep desire for knowledge, and support him to move forward bravely and constantly challenge himself.

Perhaps because of this, that broad mind and open mind eventually gave birth to today's Harvard students.