In 27 episodes, Mai Chenghuan's annoying relatives are finally online.
The unpleasant experiences of Mai Chengzao's childhood have finally been dug up, and I can only help Mai Chengzao, a sensible and precocious left-behind child, which is really distressing.
When chasing "Chenghuan Ji", I felt that Liu Wanyu was too partial, and her love for her daughter seemed to far exceed her love for her son.
Mai Chenghuan grew up with his parents since he was a child, and Mai Chengzao was fostered in his grandmother's house since he was a child and became a left-behind child early.
Children without parents by their side will have a hard time under the fence, and Mak Chengzao is no exception.
In the years when his grandmother was there, with the blessing of his grandmother, Mai Chengzao's life should have been relatively better, but in the years after his grandmother left, he had to be fostered at his aunt's house.
The aunt's husband and son are another incomprehensible person, and the two fathers and sons bullied Mai Chengzao.
For example, the aunt's son stole money, but he framed Mai Chengzao for this, made him carry the black pot, and was beaten in vain.
Another example is the aunt's son, who also joined forces with other friends to bully and exclude Mai Chengzao.
The most uncomfortable thing is that these very bad childhood experiences made Mak Chengzao sensitive and inferior, even if he was later taken to his parents, he did not heal the trauma of being abandoned by his parents.
Therefore, even if he was taken back by his parents, he still felt inferior because of his accented Mandarin, was laughed at by his peers again, and was even bullied at school.
Fortunately, later, he met Mao Mao, a girl with her own light when he was bullied, she pulled out a knife to help drive away those who bullied him, and at the same time healed his lonely heart.
Therefore, later he fell in love with Mao Mao, and was also infected by Mao Mao's optimism and bravery, and slowly lived into an optimistic and positive good boy.
Mai Chengzao, who was with Mao Mao, was really much happier than before, and even his laughter was full of light.
But in fact, the wounds brought to him by his original family have not been truly healed, and even if he returns to his parents, he is still the child who is easy to be ignored.
Liu Wanyu's love and concern for him is actually far less than that given to Mai Chenghuan, and she has habitually ignored Mai Chengzao.
So when the eldest aunt accused Mak Chengzao, saying that he made his own child cry because he was partial to Maomao's child, Ms. Liu would indiscriminately blame Mak Chengzao and ask him to apologize to the aunt's family.
This matter is obviously the aunt's family did something wrong, obviously it was his child who grabbed the Maomao family's children's toys first, and made the children cry without saying anything, Mai Chengzao ran to him to say a few words, and he threw the toy on the ground.
At this time, the bear child's father saw it, so he scolded Mai Chengzao on the line, but Mai Chengzao went back.
The bear child, who suffered a loss, told his aunt-in-law about it as soon as he got home, and also aggressively asked Heroine Liu to settle the account.
And Ms. Liu didn't even ask about right or wrong, and directly forced Mai Chengzao to apologize, but Mak Chengzao was so angry that he ran away from home.
In fact, Ms. Liu's approach in this matter was very inappropriate, she thought that her sister and brother-in-law were outsiders, and they couldn't hurt the harmony of the two families and lose face because of this little thing.
But she didn't take into account Xiaozao's feelings, originally Xiaozao was left in his hometown as a left-behind child, and there were many grievances, coupled with the brother-in-law's coercion to repay the favor, which made Xiaozao's grievances and grievances naturally explode.
In Mak Chengzao's heart, he has a lot of grievances and a lot of indigestible childhood trauma, although he seems to be sensible and filial, but he has never reconciled with Liu Wanyu, so he chose to run away from home when Liu Wanyu was forced to apologize.
Psychologist Adler said: "The lucky man is healed by childhood all his life, and the unfortunate man is healed of childhood all his life." ”
I have to say that Mai Chenghao is unlucky, unlike Mai Chenghuan, who has been raised by his parents since he was a child, and can be loved unconditionally by his parents, but this does not mean that he can only go all the way with the trauma of his childhood.
I believe that the later Mai Chengzao will be able to heal the trauma of his childhood and be able to go on happily with Maomao.