Life is a process of having and losing at the same time.
As we grow up, as living conditions get better and better, we enjoy life while losing something unconsciously.
Some are the products of the times, and some are precious to us, and once lost, they can never be recovered.
This is something that the Chinese have engraved in their bones, and everything is worth a fortune.
01
Lost "tradition"
When many people hear the words "tradition" and "rules", they think that they are ideological dross and feudal superstition.
In fact, tradition does not mean backwardness, with the development of the times, some ideas may not keep up with the development of the times, but more excellent traditional culture is enduring.
This requires us to "take the essence and remove the dross" and actively promote traditional culture, because this is our root.
In the family, how many people can achieve "orderly growth and young, respect for the old and love for the young";
In the workplace, how many people can "say a word, but the horse is hard to chase";
In marriage, how many people can "wish to win the heart of one person, and the white head will not be separated";
In life, how many people can achieve "benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom, faith, loyalty, filial piety, bravery, and honesty." ”
While we are actively learning foreign knowledge and language, we are gradually forgetting our original traditional culture, which should not be allowed, let alone allowed.
The crystallization of the wisdom of these ancestors needs to be inherited and practiced by us from generation to generation, and we will never forget each other!
02
Lost the "liveliness"
In the past, there were no mobile phones, no Internet, and the information was not smooth, but it was very lively, and there was a lot of human touch.
If you have nothing to do, you will go to the neighbor's house, chatter, and then deliver your own newly made good dishes.
Relatives and friends gathered, in groups of three or five, laughing and laughing, and they were reluctant to go home when it was dark.
Now that information is smooth, people are more accustomed to online contact, and the number of meetings is becoming less and less.
Everyone lives in the building, closes the door and becomes a family, not even knowing the name of the neighbor next door.
When you go out for a party, you can play with each other, and there is no more lively atmosphere.
You must know that sending a hundred messages on WeChat is not as good as meeting and having a meal.
People in reality have temperature, and life in reality needs to be more lively.
Don't lose the "liveliness", otherwise life will become more and more deserted!
03
Lost the "pyrotechnics"
Now life is becoming more and more convenient, and you don't need to do anything by yourself.
If you're hungry, you can order takeout, and if you're thirsty, you can buy a drink.
You need to buy clothes, and you don't even need to go shopping, you can directly buy and place an order online.
Gradually, everyone rarely cooks by themselves, and rarely experiences the fun of shopping!
However, the fireworks in the world are the most soothing to the hearts of mortals.
When you go shopping and make soup for your family, you will realize what the ancients said: "One house, two people, three meals, four seasons." ”
This is probably the smoke that is gradually disappearing.
04
Lost "health"
Now that the living conditions are better and the medical level has improved, there are more and more physical diseases!
In the past, the sun rose and the sun set.
Now that the Internet is developed and the nightlife is abundant, many people reverse day and night, go to bed late and get up late, have irregular work and rest, and have poor physical fitness;
Walking, going to work, and even going to bed without leaving the mobile phone and computer, the eyesight is getting worse and worse;
The transportation is convenient, all kinds of scooters are available, and I am getting lazy to walk.
Greedy for heating in winter, greedy for air conditioning in summer, afraid of cold and heat, not tolerant of cold and heat, a slight change in temperature, it is easy to catch a cold!
People's immunity is getting worse and worse, and they even start to maintain health at a young age. In the final analysis, it is still bad habits and loss of "health".
05
Lost "memories"
When I was a child, I didn't have a camera or a mobile phone, so I only went to take pictures once a year. Then wash each photo and put it flat in the album and keep it carefully.
In my spare time, I took it out, looked at the photos with my family, and talked about the interesting things of that year, that month, and that day.
There were army-green school bags, 28 bicycles, old streets and alleys, and yellowed letterheads......
Now with mobile phones and cameras, it is more convenient to take pictures, and you can take a picture wherever you go.
However, after these photos were displayed in the circle of friends, they were forgotten in a corner of the phone and deleted when the memory was full one day......
The more photos I took the photos, the fewer and fewer the memories I made.
We have always focused on recording every moment, but we have forgotten to preserve it carefully......
06
Lost "easy"
Zi said: "Virtuous and virtuous! A spoonful of food, a scoop of drink, in the alleys, people are unbearable, and they will not change their pleasures." Hyun is in Huiye!"
In life, there is a tile to cover the body, three meals to wrap the stomach, and a bed to sleep on, which is enough.
In the past, people's requirements were very simple, just three meals and clothing, and the family was amiable.
With the improvement of living standards, there is more and more money, but people are getting poorer and poorer.
The house needs a building, a villa, a car, a luxury car, a style, and a French meal......
This is like a five-finger mountain, which has crushed many people and made modern people more and more unhappy.
In fact, the good fields are only three meals a day, and the vast buildings only sleep on the couch for three feet.
A happy life is not so expensive, and life is not simple, so why not live it simply!
We are fortunate and sad to be born in this era.
A lot of times, we always go too fast and forget why we set out!
We can actively learn from foreign advanced cultures, but don't forget that traditional culture is our root;
We can enjoy the convenience of online information, but don't forget the excitement of human exchanges;
We can order takeout when we are lazy, but don't forget the "fireworks" that a family needs;
We can enjoy the glitz and glamour of nightlife, but don't forget to develop a healthy routine;
We can take a picture with our phone, but don't forget to treasure them;
We can pursue a more comfortable life, but don't forget to live a simple life.
No matter how the times develop, please don't forget these traditions, only by keeping your original intention can you always be consistent.