The emotions of the ancients were mostly conveyed in letters, so there was a saying that "seeing words is like faces". With the development of society, paper letters are becoming more and more distant to us, replaced by 5G surfing, even if they are thousands of miles away, wanting to chat is an instantaneous thing.
Although the emotional communication between people has become particularly convenient, but the effect of communication is less and less obvious, in the past it is a happy thing to receive the blessings of relatives and friends during the New Year's holidays, and now the festival has not come to the overwhelming blessing information one after another, no one to look at the layers of information, some of them come from advertisers, some from the group, but the closer the relationship between the people, the less likely to send a template of blessing information on the holiday.
In today's developed Internet, it is more difficult to distinguish between people the true and false feelings, and even so, those true reactions from the heart still cannot be hidden.
A person's attitude towards chatting with you depends on your status in his heart, and the person who values you can be seen from the messages he replies to during the chat, and most of the people who reply to messages in this way attach great importance to you.
Irregular seconds, proviso must be used
Some people may say that attention is to have time for you whenever and wherever you are, so I don't know when it has become the standard for testing feelings by replying to messages in seconds.
However, this is not the case, we live in the real world, if a person can be able to reply to messages 24 hours a day, then how idle that person should be, if it is not a robot with an auto-reply function, it is very likely to have ulterior motives.
Don't be complacent about someone who can reply to your messages every time, because people who have a serious job and can live independently can't get messages back in seconds.
Even if you don't see it at the time, no matter how long time has passed, he will reply to the first time he sees the message, and even directly contact him to explain the reason why he can't reply in time.
Attaching importance is not to be incomprehensible, but to pay attention to checking and filling in the gaps.
Serious attitude and long speeches
In today's ultra-fast pace of life, there are few people who can be serious, too many people even have to drive at double speed to chase dramas, and even simply drag the progress bar, and the attitude towards life with such an anxious attitude can naturally be simple.
There are fewer and fewer people chatting on WeChat, too many people use it as work software, salesmen maintain customers through WeChat, bosses give orders to employees through WeChat, and colleagues communicate with each other through WeChat.
No one is full of emotion when chatting, instead it is concise and capable, as for the attitude, it looks serious, but in fact it is perfunctory, and can say less and never type more words.
In contrast, those who are serious in chatting and willing to express themselves in detail are really rare.
Someone once said that to see the relationship between two people, you only need to open their chat window on WeChat, and people who pay more attention to each other will always occupy the screen, they will not only send several messages in a row, but also involuntarily increase the number of words, for fear that the other party will not understand or understand wrongly.
This is the embodiment of attention, and it cannot be hidden in the details.
Be patient and talk with you until the end
During the chat, the person who cares about you will not take the initiative to end the topic, and will be full of interest in any topic you raise, even if the content of the chat is beyond his understanding, he can still be patient with the chat.
At the end of a chat, you have said goodbye, and the other party will definitely reply with a goodbye, which is not out of politeness, but from the bottom of your heart, even in the chat window, you don't want to be the one behind the closing pad.
Patient people will inevitably seem verbose, usually in many interpersonal relationships the most verbose is the parents, no matter how old they are in their minds children will always be children, a glance at the inaccurate weather forecast will be hurriedly sent to remind you to increase or decrease clothes, hear a few words of gossip that may be related to your future, will also take the trouble to tell seriously.
Don't feel very annoyed by being verbose, when one day no one will talk to you anymore, you will be disappointed to find that you care between the lines of the most inconspicuous words.
When encountering small things, take the initiative to send you red envelopes
It has been said that where a person's heart is, there is money. Maybe when you are young, you will think that this sentence is full of mundane vulgarity, and when you have experienced the ups and downs and setbacks of life, you will find that the expression of the word "care" is indeed vulgar.
We are all mortal beings in the flesh, and life is just a mouthful of food, and people who care about you will be the first to lend a helping hand when you are in trouble.
The most direct is reflected in the financial support, I don't believe you can recall, those who see the frustration of your circle of friends or learn that your life is difficult in the process of chatting, the people who really care about you may not be able to say anything moving, but they will not hesitate to take the initiative to send you red envelopes.
They may not be good at words, but they must be the ones who want you to be happy the most, and you know, the people who are willing to spend money for you without asking for anything in return must care about you very much.