Author: Zhou Zhengsheng
A person's greatest ability is to learn to face everything calmly.
In fact, everyone's life is not always smooth, and ups and downs are the norm. Sometimes, when we encounter something happy, we rejoice. When you encounter unhappiness, you will fall in your mood, and even encounter misfortune, and you will be depressed. But I don't know if you have found that the greatest luck of a person is not that he never faces difficulties and blows, nor does he never go through twists and turns, but that he knows how to face all the gains and losses, good and bad, losses and wins calmly at any time.
Because there are two sides to everything.
When you are at a low point, you can always maintain hope and strive upward, and you can slowly pull yourself up from the mud and algae.
At the peak, always be humble and not proud, and you can take every step steadily.
Instead of hoping for a smooth sailing life, it is better to exercise a calm and calm heart.
In fact, a person's strength is not an overnight effort, but in the rich life experience, gradually become calm and calm.
Once upon a time, we were very eager to do something well, but no matter how hard we tried, we felt frustrated and disappointed.
Later, we realized that as long as we do our best, the good or bad results have long become less important.
Once, we were eager to keep someone, but then we also found that we couldn't go back no matter how hard we tried, and we would despair about it.
Later, we realized that only the wrong person will leave you. And the right person will always meet you on the way here.
Once, when we felt depressed and lost due to our bad circumstances and experiences, we always thought that this was a blow and hurt from God.
But later I realized that all the sufferings and encounters in your life do not matter whether they are good or bad, everything is the best arrangement.
In this world, there is no heart that is not hurt, but true maturity is to be able to maintain a normal heart in the ups and downs of life.
In a game of chess in life, we are always powerless about winning or losing. When you are confused, most of them are in the game, and when you are enlightened, people are already outside.
If you look at everything in the mortal world with a peaceful mind, it is simple and clear. If you use a complex mentality to look at the red dust, you will be fascinated by the world.
Everyone's life will experience countless twists and turns.
When you blow the wind and rain, the weather cannot affect your mood, because the heat and cold winter are the norm of the four seasons.
When you encounter difficulties and cross the hurdles, the good and bad circumstances cannot determine your emotions, because ups and downs are the normal state of life.
The greatest strength of a person is calmness.
Because when you have enough rich life experience and experience, you will find that nothing can break you, and nothing difficult can destroy you.
Open the road when you meet the mountains, build a bridge when you meet the water, in short, there is nothing that you can't pass, because as long as you face it calmly, everything will pass.
In a person's life, it is impossible to live comfortably every time, it is impossible to live happily every moment, and even need to fill in the gaps and fill holes everywhere.
Instead of hoping for a carefree life, it is better to learn to let yourself face all the troubles and troubles calmly.
You don't have to be anxious, you don't have to be afraid, you have to do it well one by one, solve it one by one, and there will always be a day when the willows will bloom.
Don't worry, don't panic, calm down, find a way out, think of a way, and always find the best solution.
When you calm down, you will find that in this world, in fact, there is no one, anything, any encounter that can really stump you.
Because when your mind is at peace, everything can be settled. But when you're impetuous, everything will be messed up.
One day, you can learn to accept anyone's departure, you can learn to see everything, and you can accept life that doesn't seem to be good enough.
After all, when a person is at his calmest, he is often the most powerful, courageous, and wise.
The authors are: Central media reporter, director, deputy editor-in-chief, vice president, editor-in-chief, etc., deputy secretary-general of the China Commercial Law Research Association, director/researcher of the National Legal Public Opinion Monitoring Center, director/researcher of the National Legal Research Center, senior consultant of the exchange and cooperation platform of diplomatic missions in China, etc.