In Cao Kefan's interview, there was an issue where he was chatting with Zhao Liying. learned that Zhao Liying basically settled in Shanghai in order to take care of the children.
"Sitting in front of the downstairs shop and drinking coffee and waiting for my kids to get out of school is something I'm particularly happy about right now," she said.
Cao Kefan: When you have a child and become a mother yourself, are there any different ways and attitudes towards people and things?
Zhao Liying: It will be different, there will be patience, it will be soft, and it will use the previous stubbornness or stubbornness to communicate with others in a good and gentle way.
She said: I will not be a tiger mother, I am more patient and gentle with my children.
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Yingbao has a name called "Zhao Xiaodao", she admits that she speaks too impulsively, loves to be anxious, and her personality is to be thoughtful and perfect in everything.
When it comes to dealing with children, she unconsciously softens. This kind of emotion is mutual, mother and son will both rely on it, and after a long time, tenderness will live in the heart.
Zhao Liying is a well-known desperate Sanniang in the industry, 365 days a year, she is almost all year round.
Yingbao feels that she is already very herself, she doesn't want her child to work so hard, but wants her child to be healthy and happy, and he can do whatever he wants.
Raising children and raising children is a happy and fulfilling thing, tired is also a kind of enjoyment, children will make women slow down the pace of chasing careers, there is nothing more pleasing than seeing children happy.
When the child is small and needs a mother, try to accompany the parents and children as much as possible, and grow up only once, and if you miss it, no amount of money and love can be exchanged.
In other words, a mother can do anything for the sake of her children, and what is it to slow down her career!
For example, Sun Yue, in order to treat her son's illness, she retired for 8 years, left the stage she loved so much, devoted herself to her family, and took her son to seek medical treatment everywhere.
Wait until the child's health is completely healed before she turns back to her own business.
She felt that such a waiver was worth it.
Yingbao is the same, slowing down and wanting to give mother's love, it is natural and instinctive. It's something you are willing to do without studying, and as for the conflict between career and children, it's a different story.
Yingbao has always known when to do something, she knows how to advance and retreat, knows how to make trade-offs, and can balance the relationship between the two, she is a big winner.
Zhao Liying has too many "unexpected", the most dazzling one is when she got married and had children when she was popular, flashed away, and came back to film, and her career had no impact.
The current audience is the best audience, and it has passed the era when "good-looking" is traffic, when a play comes out, everyone is discussing who can act well, and only acting skills can be deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
It doesn't matter if you are married or unmarried, whether you have a baby or not, as long as you are professionally good, you have a foothold.
Many people like Zhao Liying, in addition to her good acting skills, but also because she has no public opinion or scandals in the entertainment industry, only hard work and tenacity are left, if you can, who doesn't want to be such an excellent person?
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