There is a saying that men should get married, and women should get married.
I have to say that even in the current era, when they reach a certain age, most people are still in a hurry to get married.
It's the desire in my heart, I want to start a family, I want to see that others have found a home, and I want to do the same, but I can't stand some persecution and voices from the outside world, and I think that's right.
In this world, those who can be maverick and focus only on themselves are always only a small number of people.
The vast majority of men and women can only follow the established route, getting married and having children at the age of twenty or thirty.
As for marriage, it naturally requires the consent of the parties, and the woman must be willing and the man must be willing.
Among them, a man is willing to marry a woman, maybe because of love, or maybe not.
Really like it and want to be together.
Some people no longer believe in love, but some people always trust love very much.
It's not just women who are deeply in love, many men are also very eager for true love, know how to love very well, and are willing to love well.
When a man really likes you and only has feelings for you, then he will really want to marry you, and hope that he will have such a you every day in the future.
You become a couple, you become a husband and wife, and then you go together to bear the burden, and you go together to make the future better and better.
Yes, there are not many other reasons, just because I love and love you, I accept all of you, and I am willing to bind my next life to you, to be your husband, to be your family.
When you love someone deeply and are sincere, you really won't be able to manage so much, and you won't always have too many other thoughts, and there will only be one thought left in your mind, you must be together to make this marriage possible.
There's no way to see other people, to be ambiguous with other people, and to look at who you're close to, and who else is standing next to you.
In the depths of love, there will be very strong emotions, and there will be a lot of possessiveness, you have to really get married, hold a wedding, and live under the same roof to be able to feel more down-to-earth, and you can really start to feel at ease.
After weighing up, it's better to choose you.
In the matter of marriage, some people are dominated by feelings, while others are thinking about reality.
When a man chooses a marriage partner, many people often weigh and examine various aspects.
He will look at your conditions, whether it will be beneficial to him, it is best to be more helpful, even if not, then I hope it will not drag him down, the two people can fulfill each other, you can still give him a certain amount of help.
Anyway, there will be all kinds of comparisons, comparing all aspects, family background, education, ability, appearance, job, income, personality, three views, wishes, etc., and then find a choice that he thinks is the best.
Once he finishes the comparison and thinks that you are better, he will start to approach you and continue to develop with you.
If there is still a little bit of liking between you, it is the best, he will be more receptive to his choice, even if there is no liking component, he does not like you, but considering your situation, he will still be willing to marry you.
may pretend to like you, but still be more attentive to you, may not pretend, just enjoy your love and enthusiasm.
People will want to live a relaxed life, a man who is not in love at all, he is well versed in this truth, knows how to choose, who to choose, that is the best, and it is beneficial to himself.
It doesn't matter who it is, it just happens to be you.
Naturally, not everyone is okay, and there are so many choices when choosing a mate.
Especially when you go out of school and work, people will start to become less pure.
At this time, the conditions are relatively good, there are some specialties, and men who know how to make the opposite sex happy will have more choices when looking for a partner, but if the conditions are very general and the family is urgent, there is not much initiative at all.
I can't care about it so much, all I want is to be able to get married quickly and complete the marriage.
I don't think about whether the two people are really suitable, how to live after marriage, I will only stare at the matter of marriage, and whether the other party is willing, but if you are willing, not so unsatisfactory, he may often be very willing to marry you.
Love or not, whether you can bring him something is not so important for a long time, the important thing is to get married first, don't be single, you can't think of it at all, you need to choose more carefully, you can't afford to lose, you can't marry the wrong one.
Between men and women, there are really some situations, just because you are willing to marry a man, so he is willing to marry you.
In this case, if you marry you, they may treat you well, and if you want to live a good life, you may just just just don't care, you can get by, and if you can't, you will talk about it when the time comes.
When I was a child, I always felt that love was very sacred, I would definitely marry someone I loved very much, I would definitely marry someone I loved very much, if there was no love, it seemed that we should not go together, we should not get married.
When you grow up, you will find that there will be people who are like this, and they get married because of love, but that is only a minority.
More women can't get that kind of affection at all, and more men can't marry the one they like.
There will always be a lot of regrets, and there will always be a lot of last resort. It may not have met at all, it may have met before, but for various reasons, they did not go down together.
Later, when a marriage is because of love, of course, this must be cherished, and never lived, but it became a dislike of each other, disliked, and even began to hate each other, and began to doubt themselves.
It's not because of love to get married, since you're married, it's best to go well.
Try to make the decision as right as possible, instead of regretting it quickly and not going to get by.
Text / Tan Meng
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