Why do men hate their original partners more and more after cheating?
The lethality of slander is very great, because spitting stars can really drown people,
Slander is the simplest and most effective means, spread rumors, refute rumors, break legs, low cost, and the fastest effect!
Many junior mistresses who have no ability will use this method of slander to deal with the original partner and achieve their goal of being on top.
For example, an extramarital affair case that Jiaxin dealt with before, Xiao San used this method to deal with the original partner,
The original partner and the cheating man have been married for less than seven years, and this man cheated on a junior high school classmate of the original partner.
They are all in the same place, the original partner and the cheating man and the junior are all graduated from the same middle school,
When I was in junior high school, I didn't know the cheating man and the original partner and the junior.
The two of them have already started working, met through the introduction of relatives, and fell in love and got married.
The original partner and the junior are only classmates, and there are not many intersections.
The two of them were reunited at a class reunion, and the cheating man ended to pick up the original partner,
Then the junior began to look for friends who knew each other, and actually took the initiative to approach the cheating man and develop an extramarital affair.
The relationship between the husband and wife of this original partner and the cheating man was not bad before,
The two of them are evenly matched, and there is a son who has just been sent to kindergarten,
Both parents take turns to help take care of the children, and they get along very harmoniously.
The original partner said that she didn't understand why she had a good life, but this man was about to cheat,
found out that a man was cheating, and when he quarreled with a cheating man,
From the words of the cheating man, some clues were found, and the cheating man was very dissatisfied with her.
Probably said that the original partner had been misbehaving before, and he had ambiguous affairs with many men.
I opened a room with a man before I was old, and in the end I was abandoned, so I got married on a blind date.
When the cheating man and the original partner were in love, they talked about each other's love history, and the original partner said that they had only talked about two.
The cheating man felt that the original partner had cheated on him, so he had some resentment, and the mistress took advantage of this to intervene in the marriage.
When this original partner came to Jiaxin, he still didn't figure out the real reason for the man's cheating.
She thought it was the cheating man who misunderstood her, and then the junior knew about this misunderstanding and took advantage of it.
Jiaxin listened to what the original partner said, and asked the original partner, why did the cheating man misunderstand her for no reason?
For this reason, she didn't think about it, and she focused her energy on Xiao San's taking advantage of the weakness.
ignored the cheating man's determination that she had misbehaved before, what was the source.
In fact, there is no need to question the cheating man, after a simple analysis, you will know that there is a high probability that the junior slandered the original partner.
Three people in a junior high school, the cheating man and the original partner are not familiar,
Xiao San has a good reputation for having a good relationship with the original partner, and slanders the original partner.
plus an acquaintance who can help Xiao San find out the cheating man, and by the way, it proves Xiao San's slander of the original partner.
The cheating man may believe the mistress, feeling that the original partner deceived him, and the original partner misbehaved, and the mistress will easily take advantage of the weakness.
In this case, what should the original partner do?
First of all, you must prove your innocence.
What the original partner has not done, Xiao San must have no basis for saying it,
is in the same school as these three people, and there are more than one juniors in the same class as the original match.
Although the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized, in order not to be broken and dirty, the original partner also needs to find a way to prove his innocence.
Even if some people know, it is not the ugly thing of the original partner that is publicized, but the cheating man and the mistress.
As long as the original partner can prove his innocence, the next thing is to investigate the man's cheating on the mistress.
Secondly, don't feel that everything is a problem of the junior.
Why can Xiao San succeed? Provided that the cheating man did not refuse Xiao San's approach.
If the mistress approaches the cheating man at the beginning, his attitude is very bad.
Xiao San said that the original match was not good, and he had to blame Xiao San's words in turn.
There is a high probability that Xiao San's tricks will be useless, and Xiao San will not be so stupid as to be bored with himself, and take the risk to find a cheating man.
It is the cheating man who does not take the initiative and does not refuse the mistress, and the mistress will frame the original partner.
Xiao San said that the cheating man doubted and even believed, and Xiao San would continue.
So the cheating man is not innocent, he actually has the idea of wronging the original partner and shirking the responsibility for cheating.
The original partner wants to take advantage of this, you hold on to the cheating man,
The cheating man dumped the pot on the mistress, forcing the cheating man to deal with the mistress, so that the extramarital affair could be completely resolved.
In the end, Xiao San itself must have a lot of weaknesses.
Why did Xiao San take the initiative to approach the cheating man by framing his original partner,
Because Xiao San's own conditions are definitely not enough, she is not happy in marriage, or she has been a third party,
fell in love with the conditions of the cheating man, and under normal circumstances, it can't compare to the original match,
will use this strategy to pull on the original match, so as to get the opportunity to get closer.
Wives need to directly compare and highlight the shortcomings of the mistresses from all aspects.
Only the cheating man will know who he should choose.
The cheating man insisted on choosing the original partner, and the wife was able to use the cheating man to separate the mistress.
can also handle the cheating man, and the cheating man doesn't dare to say anything.
In the end, Jiaxin wanted to say that Xiao San framed the original match, and Xiao San must have a problem.
But the extramarital affair is still not Xiao San's fault alone, and I believe that the cheating man framed by Xiao San is not a small problem.
Wives need to see that even if you don't want to get a divorce, you won't choose to divorce.
You should at least be aware of the people next to your pillow, be wary, and do more self-protection.
If you continue to get married, you will not be calculated by the cheating man, and if you choose to divorce in the future, you will be able to keep your own interests.
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I'm Jiaxin, a marriage defender who focuses on the separation of third parties.