There are two kinds of love, one is a long choice and the other is a short choice.
In fact, it is very easy to understand that long-term choice means that you want to develop for a long time and have a plan to enter into marriage in the future.
The short-term choice refers to the performance of no long-term development, and does not plan to enter into marriage, but only a short-term choice, and if you meet a better one in the future, you may give up this object.
Generally speaking, people who choose short-term choices will not disclose their thoughts to the other party, and may pretend to want to have a future with the other person in exchange for the other person's love and stability.
This kind of behavior is very immoral, because it will not only delay the other person's time and waste their precious youth, but also make them suffer a lot of damage in the relationship, and they will no longer dare to believe in love, and even resent all the opposite sex.
Girls especially need to distinguish whether a man chooses himself long or short in love, because youth is precious, and if it is short-chosen, it will not only hurt very much, but also waste their precious youth.
If a man wants to choose you short, there will actually be some signs, and through these signs, it can be seen that he has bad intentions.
1. I am not willing to pay to you
In fact, seeing whether men are willing to pay for women, you can already see a lot of things.
If a man is willing to pay for a woman, it already shows that he likes this woman very much and is willing to share his important things with her, and the highest expression of love is to give her what he cherishes.
A man is willing to pay for a woman, which shows that he wants to have long-term development with him, wants to give her a future, he is showing his sincerity to the other party, telling the other party that he can rest assured that the future will be handed over to him.
But if a man is not willing to pay for a woman, he is not even willing to invite a spicy meal when he goes out, and he is not willing to pay for a milk tea, which means that he does not want to pay for a woman, because he does not want to have a future, he is worried that he will pay too much, the sunk cost is too high, and he will feel sorry for the past when he abandons her in the future.
To put it bluntly, I want to be a prostitute, I just want to spend the lowest cost to have a good girlfriend, but I don't want to give her a future, I just want to treat her as a short-term object.
Anyway, I didn't pay anything, and when I broke up in the future, I wouldn't be reluctant.
2. He will only look for you when he needs you
Another obvious characteristic of a man who chooses a woman is that he will only come to you when he needs you.
When he needs you, such as when he has physical needs, such as when he is sad, such as when he can't find someone to accompany him, such as when he is bored, when he is lonely, and so on.
When he needs you, he will come to you, you can see him, and he will only think of you at this time, and other times he will play by himself, and he can't remember you at all.
When he doesn't need you, no matter how much you miss him, even if you cry and beg him, saying that you want to see him, he won't feel sorry for you at all.
Because he doesn't love you at all, he doesn't care about your feelings, all he cares about is the value and happiness you can bring him, and as for what you want, he won't satisfy you.
3. I won't give up other "fish" for you
A man chooses you shortly, in fact, to put it bluntly, he treats you as a fish "fish", and for him, you are just a fish in his fish pond.
He has you as a fish, but he will never give up other fish, he will still raise other fish when he is with you, that is, to develop a spare tire for him, once he finds that he is better than you, he will give up on you.
The man who chooses you for a long time, when he meets you, he will no longer leave himself a way back, he just wants to get you done and marry you home, only in this way can he be at ease.
Only people who want to choose you for a short time will have you and are also raising fish, having an affair with other girls, chatting, and even dating.
When a woman chooses a man, she must avoid those who want to choose you short, unless you don't want to have a future with him, and you just want to have fun.
But if you don't want such a short-lived relationship, then you must avoid such a man at the beginning and don't waste your youth.
Choose a more worthy man to develop a stable and sweet relationship, which is worth your time.
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Illustration of the article|Stills from "Midnight in Paris".