School bullying is now being noticed by more and more people. Many times, when the word "bullying" is mentioned, everyone can't help but think that the abuser is likely to be murderous, but the fact is: some abusers are vicious in their hearts, but they are innocent in appearance.
Recently, a South Korean actress was reported by her real name because of school bullying.
This actress's name is Song Yuyun, this name seems a little unfamiliar, but many people are familiar with her.
She played the second female Bai Xuexi in "The Road to the Third Rate".
She also had an affair with Huang Xuan.
It's just that Huang Xuan himself denied it later.
She recently became popular overnight because of her appearance in the popular Korean drama "Please Marry My Husband" and ushered in the peak of her career. She performed the green tea and viciousness of the villain second female to the extreme, and the audience's perception of her changed from the initial dislike to the end of the can't stop.
Everyone found that Song Yuyun, who was born in 1986, is actually beautiful and has acting skills, and she also has frozen age beauty, and she looks like 30 at the age of 38. Many people think that she is a strong contender for Best Supporting Actress at the Baeksang Awards, Korea's most prestigious TV award.
After being silent for so many years, it is naturally happy to become popular overnight. It's a pity that Song Yuyun collapsed within a few days of becoming popular
Someone reported with his real name that Song Yuyun used to be the perpetrator of campus bullying.
The whistleblower said that when he was in high school, he was slapped by Song Yuyun for 90 minutes.
The whistleblower said that he was a second-grade student at the time, and Song Yuyun was one level higher than him, and one day, Song Yuyun called him to the playground behind the school at lunchtime, and then started beating him.
Because Song's boyfriend at the time was a school figure, and Song was a senior sister, the whistleblower didn't dare to resist, and until now, he didn't know why he was beaten.
Twenty years have passed, and this whistleblower has emigrated to the United States. He was shocked to see Song Yuyun appear in the entertainment program and decided to report her.
He said that Song's boyfriend and classmates at the time could testify, and the show also broadcast the contact record between the high school boyfriend and the whistleblower: "You are indeed because she (Song Yuyun) was hurt, and she knows it herself, so I can't stop you from reporting it." ”
The whistleblower said that he did not expect Song Yuyun to give financial compensation, but wanted to know the reason why she was violent to him back then, and hoped to get a sincere apology from the other party.
Song Yuyun's agency quickly responded that they recognized the seriousness of the problem and, after receiving the initial information, contacted the whistleblower by phone to confirm the facts. But it was rejected by the whistleblower, and the request to call again did not receive a reply.
Song Yuyun's attitude is intriguing, she neither admits nor denies it, but replies lightly with a sentence of "I don't remember".
After this response, the brokerage company may feel that in the past so many years, the victim has not been able to produce evidence, and has become angry, and issued a statement denying the accusation, saying that Song does not know the whistleblower, there is no evidence, and the revelation is not a fact.
But more revelations soon appeared online. Song Yuyun's black history of being forced to transfer many times due to campus violence in high school has also been dug up. Some people said that they were complacent after seeing the news that she was exposed, and they had a feeling of guilt and deservedness.
According to records, Song Yuyun studied at Zhongyuan High School, Panpu High School, and finally graduated from Apguting High School. After this news was exposed, it caused an uproar.
You must know that based on Song Yuyun's age (born in 1986), she was in middle school more than 20 years ago, when South Korea did not have enough awareness of campus violence, and the punishment measures were not heavy, most of them were reconciliation, and the on-campus punishment represented a very serious problem, and being forced to transfer to a school usually represented hooliganism!
Song Yuyun was forced to transfer three times, so you can imagine how serious the problem is.
Seeing that public opinion couldn't be suppressed, Song Yuyun's agency responded again - Song Yuyun admitted that she was suspected of "school violence", and she was indeed forced to transfer to another school because of the bullying incident, but she was not a direct perpetrator, she just provided the victim information to the perpetrator.
But this trick didn't work, Song Yuyun's new black material was exposed again, she teamed up with others to isolate a classmate and beat the other party, so she was forced to transfer to another school.
According to this exposure method, as long as Song Yuyun tries to whitewash, there will be more black history and slap his face.
Song Yuyun's star journey is worrying, and there is a high probability that Baekxiang's best supporting actress will be lost.
can only say that she deserves it, she was too vicious in the past, and she deserves to pay for her past.
Just listen to the way she bullied others — a 90-minute slap — to imagine the pain the victim faced. This painful memory may still be fresh in his memory, so even through the screen, he will have a huge discomfort when he sees Song Yuyun
This incident also made everyone realize that in South Korea, school bullying is so serious. I can't help but think of what the screenwriter of the hit drama "Dark Glory" said that her original intention in writing "Dark Glory" was because she was worried about her daughter who was in high school and that she would be treated special at school because of her fame, so she discussed related topics with her daughter.
Who knows, her daughter asked her rhetorically, "Did I beat others to death and make your heart hurt, or did I be beaten to death by others that made your heart hurt more?" This question of her daughter deeply shocked her, and thus launched this script.
And the atrocities committed by the perpetrators in "Dark Glory" are not made up by the screenwriter, but a real tragedy that happened in South Korea.
There were also pictures in the media reports at the time
The victim, who is said to be a junior high school student, was subjected to violence by three "friends" with curling irons and pins, and was scarred and hospitalized for 5-6 weeks.
What is even more frightening is that until now, South Korean campuses are still rife with violence that is difficult to contain.
Because school bullying is so serious, the South Korean government has issued a comprehensive response to school violence since 2012, which stipulates 7 practical guidelines and 85 specific measures to deal with school violence.
But these policies have not only had little effect, but have only made school bullying more and more intense.
In 2019, a South Korean media survey showed that the proportion of victims of school violence has increased for three consecutive years. In September 2022, South Korea's Ministry of Education survey data showed that the proportion of victims of school violence has increased.
The reason why the perpetrators are unscrupulous is because under the laws of South Korea, even if there are serious consequences of school violence, they will not be punished harshly because of the status of the bully.
These cases of bullying are not only caused by teenagers seeking stimulation, but also, to some extent, by inequality between power and class differences in the adult world. There are also reasons such as the school's cover-up and teachers' mentality that "more is better than less", which are all breeding environments for the bud of violence.
The saddest thing is that in real life, the fate of these victims of school violence can be very tragic. Because school bullying in South Korea is, to a certain extent, caused by the huge gap between the rich and the poor and the social class gap in Korean society.
Look at the consequences of these school bullying, and then look at Song Yuyun's various responses, do you feel even more vicious?
Fortunately, God is fair, and when she was the most popular, he gave her the heaviest blow, and the so-called "It's not that you don't report it, the time has not come"!
This incident also reminds parents once again that they must pay more attention to their children, understand their children's interpersonal interactions at school, and let them know that no matter what situation they encounter, the family is their strong backing. Let children develop a sense of self-protection and know how to solve problems encountered
If you find that your child is being bullied, becomes silent, depressed, or suddenly does not want to go to school, parents must know the truth in time and accompany their children to face and solve it together. Don't let your child be left alone.