Recently, a mother in Henan Province was worried about her daughter's height. According to common sense, which parent doesn't want their child to be tall and straight, but this mother issued a call of "stop growing" to her 12-year-old daughter, who is already 174 cm tall. What's going on here?
In this era of information explosion, we can always hear all kinds of discussions about children's height. It is generally believed that a boy's height of 175 cm or more and a girl's height of 160 cm or more is ideal. However, when reality deviates from ideals, parents often feel anxious and helpless.
This is exactly the case with this Henan mother. Her daughter is only 12 years old, but she already has the height of an adult woman. Whenever her daughter gets out of school, she always recognizes the tall figure from the crowd at a glance. Such a height makes her daughter stand out among her classmates, and even many teachers are not comparable in height.
Faced with such a situation, my mother was naturally worried. She is worried that her daughter's too high height will affect her future marriage and love, after all, in the eyes of many people, a woman's height will discourage boys. This concern is not unfounded, and Guan Xiaotong, a star in the entertainment industry, is an example. She is 172.4 cm tall, and when she stands with her boyfriend Lu Han, the height difference is not obvious. To a certain extent, this proves that women's height is too high, which will indeed have a certain impact on the marriage market.
However, the mother's concerns may have been overstated. Some doctors said that the peak period for girls to grow taller is usually concentrated in the sixth grade of primary school to the second grade of junior high school, after which the growth of height will gradually slow down. Therefore, it is likely that the girl's height has stabilized and will not increase significantly.
In addition, we need to see that the aesthetic concept of modern society is gradually changing. More and more people are beginning to appreciate tall figures, considering it as a symbol of health and vitality. Therefore, the girl's tall figure may become a big advantage for her in the future.
More importantly, we should respect the individual differences of each child and not pursue the so-called "standard height" too much. Every child has their own unique growth trajectory and potential, and as long as they grow up healthy, happy, and confident, it is enough.
For this Henan mother, perhaps she should let go of her worries, pay more attention to her daughter's interests and specialties, and help her explore her potential. After all, height is only an external part of a person, and what really matters is the inner quality and literacy.
In this competitive and stressful society, let's give more love and support to our children, so that they can grow and develop freely. I believe that they will shine on the road in the future and become the pillars of society.
Netizens are also discussing this matter, and some people think: "It is normal for children to be well nourished and grow tall, don't worry." Someone else said: "Height is not the only factor that determines a person's worth, what matters is inner quality and ability." These perspectives remind us not to focus too much on the external conditions of our children, but on their all-round development.
In short, the problem of children's height is indeed worthy of our attention, but it is more important to face and solve it with the right attitude and way. Let's give more love and support to our children so that they can thrive in a healthy and happy environment.
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