Big S Xu Xiyuan's marriage choice has become the focus of heated discussions.
Wang Xiaofei, a veritable "rich second generation", has a net worth of more than 100 million, and has good looks, strength and responsibility.
After Da S and Wang Xiaofei divorced, who knew that it would cause even greater controversy. Big S actually chose an old and average economic Gu Junye, isn't this a brain in water?
Many people have expressed their opinions, saying that Big S is doing charity, and he "married" a second man with a dowry.
In fact, things are not so simple, although Gu Junye is not the kind of old man who still pretends to be young at his age, he has a sincere heart and takes good care of Big S, isn't it?
Isn't the money-saving and romantic elevator day trip planned by Ju cost-effective?
First, Huang Chunmei is the master of her own happiness, and divorce is to stay away from misfortune and never have internal friction
So "more money is not better, enough money is enough." "In marriage, the criterion of happiness is not the amount of money, but more based on emotion, respect and security.
When happiness became a luxury, Huang Chunmei resolutely chose to divorce. She did not blindly pursue money and status, but adhered to the bottom line of inner happiness and chose her own path.
So when she saw her daughter caught in the whirlpool of divorce, Huang's mother encouraged Da S to divorce, rather than being angry with the rich, it is better to make her own decisions about her own life.
Second, the marriage should be responsible for the children, and the whole family should go together if there is something, and there is nothing that cannot be solved
Huang Chunmei made an earth-shattering suggestion: let the children of Big S give up the right to inherit property from Wang Xiaofei!
When she and Da S's father did not agree with each other and Jiasheng did not give birth to a son, which led to divorce, she firmly established the posture of "if you can afford to have children, you can afford to raise them", and still agreed to the divorce.
After all, in that era, when women divorced and raised their own children without child support, life must have been miserable.
According to rumors, Sister S's mansion before marriage was worth a lot of money, more than 40 million oceans! And now, the one she lives with Wang Xiaofei is worth 80 million. With the help of her sister Xu Xixian and sister Xiao S, it is more than enough for a family of four to raise two children.
Huang Chunmei's resolute suggestion made people's eyes shine. She feels that possessions are both a blessing and a curse, and it is better to let her children dispel that idea from an early age.
Besides, after Ma Xiaomei has another child, without the support of her own mother, it must be a farce for the two children to compete for the family property. I have to say that Huang's mother is really sober in the world.
Third, Huang Chunmei firmly believes that their big family has love and mutual help
When the children were just growing up, some directors once wanted to match Da S and Xu Xixian into a pair of sisters, but she is the kind of person who takes care of her family carefully at home and takes care of her family with heart.
Back then, Huang Chunmei raised three children by herself and had to work, so she often brought the children to the place of work for colleagues to help take care of them.
originally thought that her daughter could be relieved if she married well, but she didn't expect that she hadn't enjoyed Qingfu yet, and another divorce farce was entangled, until now Gu Junye didn't make money and ate and drank for nothing, and Huang Chunmei didn't drive him back to South Korea, maybe the Korean son-in-law agreed to her request.
Compared with the hot personalities of Big S and Little S, Xu Xixian's introversion and low-key are particularly suitable for taking care of people, and Huang's mother also feels that there is such an eldest sister in the family before she dares to propose to let Big S's children give up their inheritance.
Therefore, Big S's choice may be in pursuit of deeper happiness and satisfaction.
In this flashy entertainment industry, she dares to put down her body and pursue the true warmth and happiness in her heart, and the price of her first love in 20 years is really admirable. And for those who only look at the surface, maybe they need to re-examine their values, don't they?
In marriage, what is true happiness? Is it a mountain of money, or is it a deep blend of emotions? Perhaps, the answer is not so simple, but as long as we dare to feel it with our hearts, we can find that happiness that belongs to us.