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The "wife" carnival on the short video platform
In the current era of short videos, well-edited short films are sweeping the Internet at an unprecedented speed. However, in these seemingly light-hearted videos, there is a disturbing phenomenon hidden - the crazy spread of "wife literature". The heroines in these videos are all white and thin beauties, lying on the sofa in the mansion, posing in a weak posture, with sad and coquettish copywriting, triggering a carnival about "money" and "beauty". This practice of reducing the image of women to a symbol of material and desire not only deprives women of their authenticity and complexity, but also exacerbates gender bias in society to a certain extent.
The shaping of "spoiled wives" under gender stereotypes
The prevalence of "wife literature" is actually a manifestation of gender stereotypes. In these literatures, women are often portrayed as weak, dependent, and pleasing to men, while men are powerful, dominant, and powerful beings. This stereotyped gender role positioning not only restricts women's self-awareness and development, but also exacerbates social prejudice and discrimination against women. In this seemingly glamorous world of "spoiled wives", women are deprived of the right to think independently and make their own choices, and have become vassals of men's aesthetics and desires.
Self-dwarfing under the love filter
What's even more terrifying is that the love filter in "Wife Literature" is like an invisible poison, quietly eroding women's self-perception. Under the influence of this culture, many women began to place their value entirely on the favor and attention of men, as if only with men's approval could they gain the meaning of existence. This extreme dependence not only makes them emotionally vulnerable, but also makes them gradually lose their independence and autonomy in personality.
This distorted view of love not only makes women lose their true selves, but also makes them blind and extreme in the process of pursuing love. They no longer focus on their inner needs and feelings, but focus all their energy on how to please men and how to win men's favor. This kind of excessive giving and sacrifice often does not exchange for true love and happiness, but makes them sink deeper and deeper into the whirlpool of emotions.
What is even more serious is that the distorted concept of love advocated by the "wife literature" has also hindered the progress and development of society to a certain extent. It reinforces gender stereotypes and exacerbates gender inequality. Under the influence of this culture, women are denied the right to pursue their self-worth and achieve their personal dreams, and men are also bound to traditional gender roles and are unable to reach their full potential and talents.
We must be profoundly aware of the harmfulness of "wife literature" and resolutely resist this distorted cultural phenomenon. We must advocate a healthy, equal and true concept of love, so that women can rediscover themselves and realize their self-worth. At the same time, we must also promote social progress and development, break gender stereotypes, and create a more just and equal social environment.
In this process, women's own awakening and rebellion are crucial. We want to encourage women to be brave enough to pursue their dreams and values, and not to be bound by the eyes and expectations of others. At the same time, we also need to strengthen gender equality education to improve women's self-awareness and self-worth, so that they can be more confident and determined in the pursuit of love and career.
The clash between women's independence and the culture of "spoiled wives".
We must recognize that modern society ostensibly advocates women's independence and equality, but the prevalence of "wife literature" reveals a disturbing contradiction. The emergence of this cultural phenomenon, on the one hand, reflects the desire and pursuit of independence and equality of some women, and on the other hand, it also exposes the stereotypes and prejudices of women in society. The existence of this contradiction makes women often face great challenges and dilemmas in the process of pursuing self-worth.
The mutual shaping of the social environment and the phenomenon of "spoiled wives".
We also cannot ignore the role of the social environment in shaping the phenomenon of "spoiled wives". In today's society, money and material things are excessively labeled as success, and this value has permeated every corner of our lives. In this environment, women not only face pressure and anxiety from themselves, but also bear the scrutiny and judgment from social opinion. They are expected to demonstrate enough "charisma" and "value" materially to prove their success and status.
This social environment undoubtedly contributed to the prevalence of "wife literature". In this context, many women begin to pursue a seemingly glamorous life, and regard men's favor and material gifts as an important way to realize their self-worth. They show off their lavish lifestyles on social media, but they often ignore their true needs and feelings.
We must be soberly aware that this pursuit is one-sided and short-sighted. The value of women should not be based solely on material and male favors, but on self-perception, independence, and autonomy. We need to deeply reflect on the impact of this social environment on women's roles, and re-examine and shape women's social values.
In order to create a more just and equal social environment, we need to start from many aspects. First of all, we need to strengthen gender equality education so that everyone is aware of the importance of gender equality and eliminate gender stereotypes. Second, we need to improve laws and regulations to protect the legitimate rights and interests of women and combat gender discrimination and sexual harassment. In addition, we need to promote social and cultural change, promote the values of health, equality, and diversity, so that women can pursue their dreams and values in a more relaxed and free environment.
This process will not be accomplished overnight, and requires the joint efforts and long-term persistence of the whole society. But as long as we have firm beliefs and continue to push, I believe that we will be able to create a more just, equal and beautiful social environment, so that every woman can freely and equally pursue her dreams and values in this society.
A call for women's awakening and social reflection
The prevalence of "wife literature" is a microcosm of contemporary gender issues. It reveals the dilemmas and challenges faced by some women in the process of pursuing self-worth, and also exposes the stereotypes and prejudices of women in society. Therefore, we call on women to get rid of the shackles of "wife literature" and re-examine their own value and status. At the same time, society should also strengthen education and publicity on gender equality, break the shackles of gender stereotypes, and create a more just and equal social environment for women.
We also need to realize that change doesn't happen overnight. In the process, we may encounter various obstacles and challenges. But as the famous saying goes: "The revolution has not yet succeeded, and comrades still need to work hard." "We need to keep a clear head and a strong belief to continue to push the cause of gender equality forward. Only in this way can we truly get rid of the shackles of "wife literature" and allow every woman to pursue her dreams and values in an equal and respectful environment.
What I would say is that we should recognize that each individual, whether male or female, is an individual with his or her own unique worth and dignity. We should not be bound by any form of stereotype, let alone give up our own pursuits and dreams in order to meet the expectations of others. In this time of possibility, let us work together to create a more equal, just and better world.