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Why do many people dislike introverts?
Have you ever met such people, they don't like to be busy, they like to stay quiet, these people are what we usually call "introverts".
However, these introverts can sometimes be interpreted as misfits, unsociable, or "withdrawn eccentrics." Why is there such a misunderstanding? Let's talk about it.
It seems to make sense, I really don't like people, I think people always have all kinds of small shortcomings, although I have a lot of shortcomings myself, but I still can't tolerate the shortcomings of others.
I feel that getting along with people is a very troublesome thing, and although I am happy with people many times, I still feel troublesome.
You're right, but introverts may also just don't want to act, and many times they are either high or tired.
Introverts' social energy is more likely to be exhausted, and sometimes it is not allowed to cooperate with the energy of acting.
But I feel that really introverted people rarely take the initiative to pry this kind of mille-feuille shell, because it is fun enough to play by themselves, and it is not the type to get energy from the outside.
However, if it is because of vital interests, it must be seriously prying hahaha.
It can only be said that some introverts are like this, and some are introverts because of low self-esteem, afraid of being in the crowd but yearning for the crowd, not because they don't like people.
Personal opinion: Look at where the energy comes from, some people talk a lot and look cheerful but are actually quite withdrawn inside, this is actually considered introverted, and some people don't talk much but like to stay with others and get energy from the outside, this I think is extroversion
This is normal, everyone has the right to choose the communication circle, you can't make everyone like you, if you feel embarrassed, it can only mean that your psychological energy is too weak!
It's the kind of guy who is not smart enough, but he is full of vanity and likes to be an uncle everywhere [laughing and crying]
I feel that when something happens, as long as people can communicate normally, most of the people who don't like introverts are because introverts don't respond so quickly and in time, they have a high cost of controlling introversions, and extroverts may not be so easy, but they will give timely feedback on the face
Introverts love to see how they act [proud]
My dad and I are like that, he is outgoing and I am introverted, and I feel tired when we talk, because he speaks with a sense of induction and purpose.
I always want you to say or achieve something according to what he thinks, and I just want to talk about things, and when I talk about it, it turns into a quarrel and finally breaks up
That's the right answer. Introversion and extroversion are just a social state, and the people who are really worth dating for a long time are people who are rich in good qualities, and some people can't see through it. [Like]
The essence of liking extroverts is that they don't have to actively provide their emotional value to communicate when communicating
Among the main so-called "introverts", there are many people who are timid, cowardly, not strong in expression, and unclear in thinking and logic.
They can't speak, so they have to stop talking. No one would hate a normal introvert like you.
Interpersonal communication plays an important part of our daily lives, and we share our happiness and worries through communication with others.
However, introverted friends don't like to let themselves go in public, which makes some people feel that they are cold, difficult to get close to, and even a little "selfish".
In the face of introverts, we should actually look at them from a different perspective, introversion is not the same as isolation, they also have their own emotions and needs, but they prefer to be alone quietly and enjoy themselves.
We need to understand them, respect them, and try to see the world from their perspective, so that we can establish good communication with them.
Introversion is not immutable, as long as we encourage them and support them, introverts can also learn to express themselves better and integrate better into our lives.
As their friends and family, we need to accept them with our hearts, encourage them to express themselves boldly, and let them feel the joy of socializing
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