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Text: Li Yonghao
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Preamble:
Who said that the host's life is frank and smooth sailing?
CCTV's famous host Sun Xiaomei's life path is also tortuous and bumpy, she has experienced the contradictions and entanglements of career and love, and finally left the workplace for love, gave birth to children at an advanced age, and found a successful destination in life.
So, let's find out how wonderful her experience really is.
Unintentionally inserted willows and willows, Sun Xiaomei stepped into the broadcasting industry
Sun Xiaomei was born in a literary family in Shanghai, and has been bathed in the atmosphere of art since she was a child.
His father is a professor at the Shanghai Conservatory of Music, and his mother is an excellent dancer.
Perhaps inheriting her parents' artistic talents, Sun Xiaomei has had a strong interest in music since she was a child.
Under the guidance of her parents, Sun Xiaomei began to learn to play the violin when she was 5 years old.
Since then, she has formed an indissoluble bond with the violin, and has been working for nearly ten years.
Her perseverance and dedication to her practice were admirable, which laid the foundation for her tenacity in her career later on.
During her school years, Sun Xiaomei often showed her talent on the stage of campus art performances because of her outstanding musical talent, and was well received by her classmates and teachers.
This experience of performing in front of everyone has also cultivated her confident and generous personality.
Until the college entrance examination is approaching, under the pressure of heavy schoolwork, Sun Xiaomei likes to relax by watching TV.
At that time, her favorite program was "Animal World", and Mr. Zhao Zhongxiang's magnetic voice and humorous and witty commentary style deeply attracted her.
Easily enter CCTV and gain a foothold in CCTV
In this way, a chance opportunity made Sun Xiaomei have a strong interest in the broadcasting and hosting industry.
When filling in the college entrance examination, she resolutely chose Beijing Broadcasting Institute and opened a chapter in her life chasing her broadcasting dream.
In 1989, Sun Xiaomei graduated from Beiguang with excellent grades, and was photographed by CCTV for her outstanding performance.
For the fledgling Sun Xiaomei, entering CCTV is like a huge challenge, and the talent-rich CCTV is a new stage for her.
At first, Sun Xiaomei's life at CCTV was quite hard.
In order to adapt to the new environment, she had to give up her private life and devote all her energy to her work.
Every day is spent in exhaustion and busyness, but her heart is full of enthusiasm and happiness for her career.
Sun Xiaomei is a very self-disciplined person and is extremely strict with herself.
Whatever she does, she will give it her all and strive for perfection.
Even hosting a seemingly simple program "TV You, Me and Him", she will try her best to make it lively and interesting, and strive to make it the best.
It is this kind of perseverance and perseverance that Sun Xiaomei can take root in the fiercely competitive land of CCTV, and is finally crowned with the reputation of "undefeated flowers".
met a lover abroad, got married and had children at an advanced age
After a small success in her career, Sun Xiaomei chose to go to Louisiana State University in the United States for further study.
Leaving the familiar CCTV environment and returning to campus, Sun Xiaomei encountered some new challenges in her study and life.
Writing a dissertation was quite a headache for her.
She once wrote a paper of tens of thousands of words at the age of 17.
But now that she has picked up the old profession of papers, she is also a little rusty.
The choice of topics, grammar, tone, etc., all became new problems for her, and she was confused and lost for a while.
In order to adapt to this new environment as soon as possible, Sun Xiaomei took the initiative to communicate with her classmates, asked her teachers for writing skills, and gradually mastered the tricks of writing essays.
Her hard work was not in vain, and in the end, she learned a lot and gained a lot.
In addition to the harvest of learning, Sun Xiaomei also gained a good relationship in a foreign country.
At a school party, she met and got to know a boy who was two years younger than herself, and the two quickly fell in love.
Although the boy came from an ordinary background, his simple and kind personality deeply attracted Sun Xiaomei.
The two traveled together in a foreign country, and their relationship deepened day by day.
Approaching graduation, facing the reality that they will return to China, they decided to continue this relationship.
After returning to China, her boyfriend has been by Sun Xiaomei's side and witnessed her return to CCTV to host the show.
At this time, Sun Xiaomei also began to reflect on the direction of her life and consider whether to try something new.
So, while hosting part-time, she set out to start her own cultural company, trying to make a difference in the field of knowledge dissemination.
In 2002, Sun Xiaomei returned to her hometown in Shanghai with her boyfriend.
When the parents saw that this son-in-law was good, they simply persuaded their daughter to get married quickly.
For Sun Xiaomei, who is over 30 years old but still single, this is undoubtedly a heavy parental expectation.
At first, Sun Xiaomei still insisted on being single and continued to focus on her career.
But an unexpected family incident made her change her mind.
One year during the Chinese New Year, Sun Xiaomei's father was suddenly hospitalized, and when she went to visit, her father looked at his daughter and sighed, saying that if he had any mistakes, no one would take care of him in the future.
These words deeply touched Sun Xiaomei's heartstrings and made her realize the impermanence of life and the importance of her loved ones.
After thinking twice, in order not to let her parents worry, Sun Xiaomei finally decided to marry her boyfriend and entered the palace of marriage.
In 2003, the two held a low-key wedding in Beijing, and only invited more than ten tables of relatives and friends to attend.
Seeing that her daughter finally got married, her parents' health has improved a lot, and she is extremely relieved.
Soon after marriage, Sun Xiaomei became pregnant.
As a first-time mother, she felt an unprecedented wonderful experience in her life, and her husband would always take care of her when tears flashed.
Although she had given birth at an advanced age, she did not suffer too much physical torture, and the process went quite smoothly.
Spend your old age together and have a happy family life
Today, Sun Xiaomei and her husband's married life has gone through 19 spring and autumn seasons.
Looking back, she has no regrets about that decision.
On the contrary, this decision has made her life beautiful and truly happy.
Whenever she mentions her husband, Sun Xiaomei always says that he is a good man who is careful and considerate.
No matter how proud she is in her career, her husband will take care of her life considerately at home.
Sometimes, even a small plate of fruit, her husband would carefully and simply wash the peel of the fruit and place it within her reach.
Moreover, her husband never minded that her career achievements were higher than his own, but he just supported her wholeheartedly.
In addition, after her parents came to Sun Xiaomei's small family, they also added a lot of warm colors to this nest.
Parents often take the initiative to do some housework or cook a big meal to make this small family more "home".
Every time the husband picks up the bowl of nourishing soup made by the old man, the son-like love for his in-laws will arise spontaneously.
Today's Sun Xiaomei, with the full support of her husband and parents, can be regarded as a small achievement in her career.
What's more, she has finally found her own happy nest.
Life is like this, after some twists and turns, it can reap the final fulfillment.
Epilogue:
Sun Xiaomei's life experience can be called wonderful, she has worked hard to build a career with tenacious perseverance and outstanding talent, and resolutely gave up her halo for the sake of love and family consummation.
From a young man full of ideals to a happy housewife, her life trajectory has been ups and downs.
Her story shows us that as long as we are brave enough to pursue our ideals, our lives will be colorful and will eventually lead to a happy ending.