The core conditions of a high-quality marriage: 2 sentences, 9 words
Marriage, like a long-distance race in life, needs to run through the beginning, the middle, the climax and the end. The starting point may be novel and passionate, but the two need to support each other and run in with each other halfway, and when it comes to the climax, it is what we call "seven years of itching" and "ten years of hurdle".
Couples who can go through all this are all because they have a strong core as support. This core can be summed up in two sentences and nine words - understanding, respect and continuous communication.
Understanding is the most basic condition in marriage. Everyone's growth background, personality habits, and life experiences are different, just as there are no two leaves in this world that are exactly the same.
It is these differences that make up our rich and colorful life. Understanding in marriage is not to ask the other party to change themselves to cater to themselves, but to be willing to stand in the other party's perspective, understand the other party's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and understand the other party's difficulties and difficulties.
Only by understanding can we reduce misunderstandings and unnecessary quarrels. The understanding between husband and wife is not innate, it needs to be cultivated, and it needs to be considerate and caring for each other in daily life. A partner who understands you is your strong backing and your emotional home.
Respect is another core element of marriage. We often say that we should respect others, but in fact, in marriage, we need to respect each other. Respect is not about letting the other person follow you, but about getting the other person's understanding and acceptance in the other person's ideas, practices, and lifestyle.
Respect each other's privacy, respect each other's decisions, and respect each other's family and friends. Only respect can make both parties in a marriage feel equal and valued. Respect is also based on understanding. Only by understanding each other can we respect each other. A marriage without respect is like a shell without a soul, empty and boring.
Constant communication is an indispensable part of marriage. Communication is the bridge to solve problems and the bond to enhance feelings. Without communication, problems will accumulate, misunderstandings will deepen, and feelings will be estranged.
Constant communication means sharing with the other person, no matter how big or small, whether it's joys and sorrows, or the trivial things in life. Communication is not about complaining, not about blaming, but about sincerely expressing one's thoughts and feelings, and actively seeking solutions to problems.
Communication requires patience, tolerance, and understanding. Only continuous communication can solve the problems in the marriage in a timely manner, and can both parties in the marriage feel happy and satisfied.
Of course, marriage is not only about these three conditions, but also other elements such as responsibility, loyalty, trust, etc. But understanding, respect, and continuous communication are the most basic and core of these elements.
With them, the marriage has a solid foundation, and with them, the marriage has a lasting momentum. Marriage is not a child's play, it is not a simple life together, but it needs to be managed with heart and watered with love.
Marriage is a practice, a practice of understanding, respect, and constant communication. In this practice, we learned to understand each other, to respect each other, and to communicate continuously.
We learn to find balance in our marriage and find happiness. The core conditions of a good marriage are understanding, respect and continuous communication.
With them, we have the magic weapon of marriage, and we can make the tree of marriage evergreen. Let's manage with understanding, respect and continuous communication on the road of marriage to create our own happiness.