Do you believe that "honest people are destined to be eliminated"?
It's heart-wrenching, it's helpless, but often that's the truth.
Whether in the workplace or in life, the honest person who is always bullied and sacrificed is destined to not make a lot of money in his life.
What is an "honest man"?
1) Do things in a proper manner, in strict accordance with standards and principles
As a result, they are always on track, never out of line, and although they don't make mistakes, they never have the opportunity to express themselves.
Moreover, such people often have no innovative thinking, can only carry out other people's orders, but have no opinions, no independence, and no creativity.
Therefore, they can only make money from selling their labor.
The pattern determines the vision, the courage determines the future, and it is destined to be only mixed at the bottom for the rest of his life.
2) He is very timid, cautious in everything he does, and never violates the rules or violates the forbidden area.
Such a person is obedient, sensible, and easy to be handled in the workplace. But because he is too timid and cautious, his image and temperament are too timid, he will not fight for his own opportunities, and he will even try to be an invisible person, for fear of being noticed by others.
Fear of strong people, other people's sound pressure and coercion, it is easy to make them sweat.
Of course, the leader will not attach importance to such people, let alone assign them important work content.
Once you are a marginal person in the workplace, as long as there is a change in the company, the first person to be laid off is this kind of "honest person".
3) Don't dare to refuse people, don't dare to offend people, and stick to the rules.
This kind of person, in the workplace such a "man eats man" environment, will definitely have a hard time surviving.
At worst, they will be deprived of their honor and interests by wearing small shoes, or they will be isolated, bullied, bullied, or even thrown at you by anyone.
directly became a "backstabber".
In particular, some "old fritters" in the workplace like to let honest people work for themselves, take honest people, and force honest people to work for themselves.
As a result, the money and the boss's commendation belong to someone else.
Honest people, if you don't change your state, then your "easy to bully" trait will become your image business card.
Anyone can bully you and call you.
4) Looking ahead and looking backwards, dare not break through, dare not go out, and dare not "deviate".
Don't honest people want to make money?
However, they have neither the vision and innovation to make money, nor the courage to break through.
Therefore, they often choose to keep to their own "stable jobs", and make money by virtue of "conscientiousness" and attendance.
We have to look ahead and backward in everything we do, and think about the worst outcome when we make any decision, and as a result, we think too much about it, and before we can put it into action, the plan dies.
Have you ever seen a person who gets a dead salary and can make a lot of money?
Those who have these qualities are undoubtedly honest people.
It can be seen that honest people basically live a submissive and step-by-step life.
So much so that they are easy to be manipulated in any scene, and they dare not resist.
Therefore, it is often easy for honest people to be bullied, dumped, eliminated, and even not make a lot of money in their lifetime.
Of course, honest people often can't handle "intimate relationships" well and live a mess of life.
"Honest people" are always in intimate relationships, being used, bullied, and cold and violent
Honest people are not only easy to be eliminated in the workplace, but also have a poor career and money.
They also often do not handle intimate relationships well, or in any relationship, they are easy to be bullied, used, manipulated, and even coldly violent.
Like what
1) In the circle of friends, honest people are always accommodating to others, sacrificing their own interests and the right to speak to please others.
This is actually a kind of "show of weakness", because since childhood, I am afraid of strong people, or afraid of others isolating me, so I dare not offend others, for fear that the other party will not be satisfied, and the other party will not be friends with me.
Therefore, it is okay to accommodate everything, sacrifice yourself to please others, and continue to be friends with you.
In the final analysis, there is no sense of security, and the core is not strong enough. That's why I can't be independent, and I always need to rely on others to get emotional value.
When you learn to walk independently, the core will be strong enough to no longer accommodate others, but to regard yourself as the subject, and everything is to serve yourself.
2) It is easy to meet scumbags (scumbags) in love, and be deceived and bullied
The external image of an honest person is obvious: not confident, temperamental cringe and timid, dare not refuse, afraid of hurting others, and let others take what they want.
So that honest people who are easy to talk and handle often encounter scumbags and scumbags.
Honest people often empathize with others, and it is easy to be grateful for a little kindness from others, so scumbags and scumbags can get your full love with almost no effort.
Then, cheat money and sex.
Not only is you not protected and favored in the relationship, but you are often coldly violent, threatened, instructed by the other party, sell your labor, and even cheat you out of all your money.
From beginning to end, there was nothing, not even respect, and it ended in embarrassment.
3) Have no status in the family, and are coldly violent, criticized and humiliated by their family members
Who said that family members represent selfless love? Some family members are the executioners who hurt themselves the most.
Their humiliation is like a sharp sword, and it will poke you through a thousand holes mercilessly.
The weaker you are, the stronger others will be.
Just like facing a strange dog, if you show weak emotions such as fear, the dog will know that you are afraid of it, and it will naturally dare to attack you.
If you are strong and fearless, then the dog will be scared away by you.
So a person's temperament is important.
Your weakness, honesty, and easy handling will make you have no status in the family, and anyone can dictate to you and vent your anger on you.
They will even laugh at and insult you for your incompetence, lack of money, inability, etc.
Isn't verbal violence a form of bullying?
Is it really that hard for an honest person to survive? Is it really that hard to live well?
Of course, there is no shortage of "survivor bias", some honest people may have been pampered and grown up, have a good family background, have the confidence and protection of their families, and may not suffer cold eyes for the rest of their lives.
But most honest people are from ordinary families and from ordinary backgrounds.
You have no one to count on, you can only hope that you will change your fate and save yourself from fire and water.
What to do?
From now on, don't be honest anymore!
Be a person who is not bullied, have your own principles, please yourself, do not give in your own interests, and be brave enough to say "no".
Be a person with a strong core and an independent spirit.
Tear off the label of an honest person and change the temperament image of a weak and easy bully!
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