School bullying incidents have emerged in an endless stream in recent years, and as parents or older siblings with younger siblings, seeing this kind of thing will inevitably empathize and anger in their hearts. Therefore, in a recent incident of being beaten by the father of the bully, netizens said, "Well done", it is simply very happy.
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● The process of occurrence
According to reports, the incident occurred in a primary school in Xinxiang City, Henan Province, and Li Moukun in a certain class had many disputes with his classmate Li Mouxi. The parents of both sides have also had many conflicts because of their children, and the police have come forward to mediate, hoping that both parties can rationally deal with the conflicts between classmates.
And on April 16, the parents of the two sides had a dispute because of what happened before, and the father of the girl Li Mouxi finally couldn't bear it anymore and beat Li Moukun and his mother who came to pick him up.
● Event results
The beaters have been detained, and the mother and child have been taken to hospital. Li Moukun was seriously injured, saying that he could not see clearly with his eyes, and his mother was also slightly injured.
The relevant person in charge of the school was held accountable, and psychological counseling was also carried out for the two children.
● School bully's dad speaks up
The bully's father, who was busy with work that day, was furious when he suddenly learned that his wife and children had been beaten and taken to the hospital.
He later claimed that he was extremely angry, and that there was no bullying incident between his son and his classmates, just an argument.
● The girl's uncle speaks
The girl's uncle happened differently. He reported with his identity verification name in hand and said that he would take legal responsibility for what he said.
He said that the girl had been bullied by Li Moukun for a long time and extorted money. The parents of both sides have negotiated on this matter, reported to the police, and responded to the school many times, and the boy's parents agreed that there will be no more bullying in the future.
However, after the girl arrived at school, she was bullied for the third time, and she reported to the school to no avail. The girl's father couldn't take it anymore and eventually beat the bully and her mother.
In comparison, the girl's uncle's voice is more sincere, powerful and credible, and netizens' opinions are gradually tilting towards the girl.
● Netizens' opinions
Some netizens believe that if the bully is not right-minded, he should be nailed to the "pillar of shame" forever and deprived of his qualifications for the public examination.
Some netizens think that the girl's father beat him out of helplessness, and would rather come forward himself than let his daughter do something harmful to her life because of being bullied.
Some netizens said that the girl's parents have communicated with the school many times to no avail, and the school should bear a lot of responsibility.
Some netizens said that the father was protecting his daughter under reasonable circumstances.
Some netizens said that this is one of the most effective ways to solve school bullying.
Among them, there is no shortage of criticism of boys, parents do not educate their children, and there are people who help him educate.
Combined with the causes and consequences of this incident, it is not difficult for us to see that the school ignored it and the other party did not repent again and again, which led to the occurrence of the assault.
This is the bottom line of being a father, if there is no one to help his children, then he will personally come forward to vent his anger to the child, if the girl is unbearable and bullied, resulting in depression, suicide and other behaviors, the consequences will be more serious. It is precisely because of this father's actions that the "flame" of bullying in the class must be extinguished, and to some extent, this is one of the effective ways to stop bullying.
● About this matter
First of all, girls can react to their parents after being bullied by their classmates, so parents should teach their children to speak up when they are bullied, and let parents and teachers help solve it, rather than bearing it themselves.
Secondly, this matter is also related to the failure of some family education. Some children have a lot of bad behaviors, if parents do not do a good job of education, blindly let their children's bullying, scolding behavior, then when they grow up, it is likely to harm the society, if blindly tolerate and promote, it will even cause criminal behavior.
Finally, although the beating of the girl's father has effectively solved the bullying behavior, the rash beating of others is not worth learning from, which endangers social order and can even limit the child's future development.
Many netizens still think that just criticizing education is not enough to curb this kind of behavior. However, whether society and schools can issue regulations to effectively punish school bullies is the key to whether this problem can be solved. All people have an obligation to work towards the harmony of the campus environment.