Why would an adult fight a 9-year-old?
Recently, the mother and son who were beaten by the parents of their classmates ushered in the latest situation, and the Education and Sports Bureau of Muye District, Xinxiang issued a notice.
First, the parents of the beaters were administratively detained
Second, according to the results of the investigation, the class teacher of the student involved is to be replaced, and the main person in charge of the school and the person in charge of safety work are seriously held accountable.
According to the report, two elementary school students had a dispute over a "fake water" toy worth a few yuan. After the girl's mother called the police, after mediation, the boy refunded 10 yuan to the girl and did a review in the class.
However, the parents of the two sides had a dispute over the review of the matter and were again mediated.
Then, the parents of both sides had an impulse over the question of whether the child was abusive, and finally it turned into the girl's parents impulsively chasing the boy and his mother.
With the release of the report, the dust has settled on the beating incident, the beater has borne legal responsibility, the head teacher has been replaced, and the relevant person in charge of the school will also be held accountable.
However, there is one thing that is not over yet, and that is the attention of netizens to bullying.
Because the girl's uncle spoke out in his real name, saying that the beaten boy bullied the girl and his classmates for a long time during the school, the parents reported it to the school many times, but the bullying situation was not only not curbed, but became more intensified and arrogant, and finally, the girl's father couldn't bear it anymore, so he hit someone.
If bullying is real, then the boy's parents should actually bear the most responsibility, as the so-called son does not teach the father.
If parents think that bullying is a small friction between children, there is no need to make a fuss about it, then this is really a big mistake, as the saying goes, don't take the evil as a small thing, the big mistakes are evolved from the small mistakes, if the parents do not educate their children well, the signs of this evil are stifled in the cradle, then it is too late to make a big mistake.
In the eyes of the bully, bullying classmates is not a big deal, but for the bullied, it not only affects the current mentality of going to school, but also may be accompanied by a lifetime of shadow and pain.
In this case, if the boy's parents had disciplined him in a timely manner, perhaps it would not have caused the girl's parents to lose control and beat people, if it were not for the boy's repeated persuasion and intensified, I believe that an adult would not have dealt with a 9-year-old child like this, because the price is very high.
As the girl's uncle said, if the parents don't care about this kind of bullying, and the school doesn't dare to manage it, or can't manage it, what should the parents who are bullied do? What better way to deal with it?
What do you think about this?