Preface
The more noisy it is, the bigger it gets! The follow-up of the parents beating the boy sparked heated discussions among the whole people, and once the video was exposed, it went viral in the circle of friends and Weibo! The scene is comparable to a blockbuster: the burly man beats the child, and the child's mother also suffers with a mobile phone video. In the end, it was because of the school bullying that caused parents to defend their rights on their own! This thrilling scene shocked people: Why did school bullying evolve to this point? Did the parents go overboard? What exactly is the school doing? Parents are excited, public opinion is in an uproar, and netizens can be seen everywhere hotly discussed!
I. Events
Here's how it happened:
On the afternoon of April 16, a shocking violent incident occurred at the entrance of a primary school in Xinxiang County, Henan Province. A burly middle-aged man suddenly stopped a boy about 9 years old, and without the slightest hesitation, began to punch and kick like a storm.
The video shows the man unceremoniously at the beginning, slamming his fist into the boy's head. The little boy hurriedly protected his head, but he still couldn't avoid being ravaged, and finally he was beaten to tears. Although the boy defended that "she was the one who scolded me first", he was beaten more violently.
The helpless mother pulls her son to avoid the attack, and she can be seen begging the man to stop and picking up her mobile phone to frantically shoot for help. But the man's murder weapon was already aimed at a new target, and he slapped his phone away and began to beat his mother again.
Soon, the police car arrived at the scene, and several police officers subdued the man and forcibly put him in a police car and detained him. Despite this, the onlookers still raised unbelievable voices from time to time, "It's just a matter of beating a son, how can you beat a mother."
The whole incident is appalling and outrageous. The fact that a rough adult man can so brutally ravage helpless children and mothers is simply a replica of domestic violence! If it weren't for the fact that the video is so straightforward, many people would find it hard to believe that this is reality.
Causes of the incident
Although the violence committed by the man was appalling, there was a hidden cause for the incident. After further investigation, it turned out that this was a continuation and escalation of a long-term school bullying incident.
According to the parent of the boy who was beaten, the incident began when her daughter had been bullied by the boy for a long time. The boy named "Xiao Ming" not only punched and kicked, but also verbally humiliated, intimidated and blackmailed and other serious illegal acts.
Xiao Ming's grade is only in the fourth grade, but his behavior has long been unsightly. The girl was beaten by him and forced to pay cash; Even once in class, Xiao Ming laughed at her in public.
The poor girl was undoubtedly filled with shame and anger when she was humiliated by this. However, what is even more sad is that all this is ignored by the school, intentionally or unintentionally. According to the parents of the girls, they went to the school countless times to report that the school was lazy and turned a blind eye.
In the face of the school's inaction, parents naturally have no choice but to take their daughter to bear the humiliation. But who can tolerate this situation to continue to happen? The girl's parents are finally determined to bring justice to their daughter.
On that unbearable afternoon, the girl's father couldn't stand it anymore and decided to reason with Xiao Ming's "bully" in person. Unexpectedly, the other party still went his own way and was arrogant, and even quibbled "It was your daughter who scolded me first". Hearing such scoundrel words, coupled with the anger that the school had never done, the girl's father went completely violent. Perhaps because he had been sad for too long, he decided to use his fists to teach this vexatious little cub a lesson.
In the heat of the moment, the parents committed the vicious act of beating the child. Although the means are not advisable, as a parent, he can understand the heartache and righteous indignation of his daughter's injury. Faced with the school's long-term ignorance and forced helplessness, he was finally carried away by anger.
3. Parent/uncle's statement
After the incident caused an uproar, the girl's family also stood up for the first time, accusing the beaten boy of long-term bullying and calling for everyone's sympathy and support.
The first was the girl's uncle. He said angrily that the "Xiao Ming" who was beaten was the culprit, and his bullying of his niece has been going on for a long time, and it is far more than just an ordinary petty fight.
"That boy is simply a child's evil obstacle! Not only punches and kicks, but also verbal humiliation and extortion. "My niece was beaten by him and was bruised and bruised and forced to hand over cash. On one occasion, that kid actually laughed at her in public!"
The thought of such humiliation to my dear niece made my uncle furious. He said bitterly, "She is just a little girl, how can she do anything wrong? How will she live in the future after being insulted like this? How will she face others?"
In addition to physical abuse, the uncle also revealed that Xiao Ming's bullying behavior also brought a lot of mental damage, "My niece once had a tendency to be autistic and self-harming. As a family, it is very heartbreaking for us to watch her change. "
It was precisely because I couldn't stand my niece's pain that I decided to go to school again and again to report the situation. Unexpectedly, the school's attitude was passive, and my uncle couldn't bear it, "We have told the school hundreds of times, but the school always says that 'it is being processed'." Until now, I haven't seen them take any action to protect the rights and interests of our children!"
Having lost the last hope of school, the patience of parents has finally been exhausted. Seeing that his daughter's experience had not changed, the father made a move to beat Xiao Ming on the street in anger.
In this regard, the uncle was also very sorry, but at the same time there was a trace of happiness in his heart, "Although the way is extreme, I can also understand that as a parent, I really can't stand to see my daughter being treated like this." Now that the news has spread, I hope to wake up the school and make them take responsibility for ignoring what happened to my niece!"
"My only wish is to give justice to our children. The uncle said earnestly, "As a parent, it is natural to strive to give your children a good environment for growth. Now our children have suffered such a great grievance, but the school has ignored it and done nothing, this kind of behavior is unacceptable. We call on everyone to pay attention to this matter, so that those who cover up school bullying can be punished as they deserve!"
Reaction of the boy's mother
Contrary to the angry statements of the girl's family, the rhetoric of the battered boy's mother is a different story entirely. In interviews, the mother, Ms. Liu, repeatedly stressed her son's innocence and tragic condition.
"My son is just a primary school student, where did he get into such a big trouble?" Ms. Liu cried, "At that time, the man beat him, and my son was beaten so badly that he almost fainted, and the whole person flew out a few meters away." His eyes are so swollen that he can't open them now, and he has multiple injuries on his body, and now he doesn't dare to go to school. "
The video shows that although her son once defended that "she scolded me first", Ms. Liu did not mention anything about it, and avoided talking about whether her son was bullying during the whole process. She choked up and repeated: "My son is a child, how could he get into such a serious matter?"
However, when asked if she would like to communicate with the other parent, Ms. Liu's tone changed a little: "Of course I do, this matter is a matter for our two families, can we sit down and talk about it?" I think violence can't solve the problem, everyone is an adult, there should be a more civilized solution." "
Ms. Liu even expressed her willingness to take the initiative to contact the other party's parents, "It's okay, I can take the initiative to apologize to them first, and compensate other people's children as a son. "
5. Comments from boys' mothers' girlfriends
However, Ms. Liu's statement has not been agreed by everyone. A netizen who claimed to be her best friend expressed a different opinion on the matter in the hot comment area. The girlfriend said that according to her understanding of Ms. Liu, the other party's family is poor, and her son is an extremely well-behaved and obedient good child, so it is impossible to bully others.
"You've all been blinded by the girl's parents. There is no deep hatred between children, at most it is a small fight. It's good now, I don't believe it when the other party exaggerates and says that my son is blackmailing and beating others!"
The girlfriend also suspects that this incident is simply someone with ulterior motives chasing after the wind and making something out of nothing, and it is an intentional framing and persecution of Ms. Liu's family.
However, this statement has been refuted by a large number of netizens on the Internet. Some netizens bluntly said: "If there is really no bullying, how can you make parents do it on the street? Who do you treat your children for? Just so innocent? Then there is really a problem with education." "
Some people also pointed out: "On the other hand, if your own children are really treated like this, can you be indifferent? Some parents should defend their rights, even if the actions are a bit extreme, it is difficult to be forgiven, right?"
6. Netizens are hotly discussed
As soon as this matter was exposed on the Internet, it immediately sparked a heated discussion. Most netizens deeply condemned the boy's bullying behavior in school, and also expressed their understanding and support for the parents' rights protection behavior.
For the long-term bullying behaviors such as beating, extortion, and verbal abuse of the beaten boys, netizens have expressed their hatred and disdain.
"This kind of child is really a scourge, it's just a walking cancer! Even the girl's pants are ripped, how old is it to be so obscene?" "No matter how small a bullying is, it's a form of mental abuse. Who hasn't experienced this as a child, I really hope it doesn't happen again. "Why are today's children so lacking in education? Didn't parents find out and correct them in time? Trouble comes from the mouth, and we must pay attention to the basic moral bottom line in life and work. "
At the same time, netizens are also condemning the school's long-term contempt and inaction on the matter. As an institution that teaches and educates people, it should strictly manage students and maintain a good campus environment. "The school is to blame for letting it go. Even if there is a response after the fact, it will come too late. Bullying should be stopped in the first place. "If the school had acted earlier, this matter would not have caused a fuss to hit people. If you have to wait for parents to endure it, it is really a mistake in decision-making. "
Although the practice of parents beating children in public is criticized, netizens also expressed a certain degree of understanding and support. "Who would have imagined that their children would be wronged in this way? As a parent, you must be under tremendous pressure, and there is really no other way. "It's a bit radical, but I can understand my parents' feelings. The pain that the girl had suffered before was unimaginable to ordinary people. "The school is inactive, and parents have no way to defend their rights, so they can only force things to this point. In the final analysis, the culprit is still the little bully. "Support parents to protect their children's rights! Even if the means are not right, at least he still does his best as a parent, and does not sit idly by like the school. "
Overall, the majority of netizens were disgusted by bullying and agreed that the school should be held primarily responsible for the incident. At the same time, they also expressed their understanding and support for parents who protect their children's rights and interests. This incident reflects the high level of concern and importance that society attaches to school bullying.
epilogue
This incident of parents beating up school "bullies" for their daughter's justice has aroused widespread concern and reflection in the whole society. Violence is by no means the solution to the problem, but issues such as school bullying, parental rights protection, and school management loopholes are also worth pondering. We should be vigilant against school violence, and at the same time, we should also reflect on what causes these unbearable results? I believe that only when schools, parents and society work together can we create a more civilized and safe environment for children to grow up.