A 38-year-old woman posted a video on social platforms, complaining that she couldn't find an excellent older leftover man with her master's degree, and chased herself as a rural leftover man, which caused controversy among many people.
Why did Liu Qiangdong choose his sister in milk tea instead of Dong Mingzhu! At the point where men choose women as their partners, more than 95 percent of men value younger people, and their appearance, material, and other conditions have to be placed in the back row.
Not being able to have children is the same as not being married for many men. To put it bluntly, I love you, but I can't accept that you can't give birth. I personally get married for children, not for children, not for children, and if I don't have children, wouldn't it be more comfortable for me to live alone.
Regardless of whether a man or woman is over thirty-five, there is no quality in marriage. And when is a high-quality single woman with a high degree of education? Shouldn't she be empathetic, reasonable, gentle and virtuous, and be a high-quality single woman!
If it were me, I would rather find an 18-year-old Chinese girl than a 38-year-old doctoral student! Money can be earned by themselves, I think many people will not find an aunt, 20-year-old girl is more watery.
The first law of blind date - high-quality men are not in circulation. The target group of 38 high-quality leftover men is girls between 28 and 30.
The vast majority of men are looking for a partner, education is not the most important, the first is appearance, the second is personality, then work, family conditions, and finally education.
High-quality age is a contradictory word, if high-quality it is impossible to be old-aged, since it is old, it means that it is not high-quality, don't say that you have a high vision, no time and other excuses, that is the embodiment of low quality.
High-quality older leftover men are a false proposition, unless he doesn't want to find them; high-quality older leftover women do exist, so girls should fall in love and get married as soon as possible, men and women are different.
38Why do you still need to find a partner? If you fail to enter a suitable marriage at the age of 28, then you will have to work hard for your career in the next 10 years and find a way to make money for yourself.
In fact, to put it simply, you must either have a family or money, so that you will not live in vain, and your life can be thorough. I'm afraid that some older people have high vision and their conditions are not good, and they always think that the older they are, the more they want to marry a ready-made one, and the RV deposit bride price.
In fact, to put it bluntly, it is very difficult for us ordinary people, or most people, to have both and at the same time, so we either have to stop and go in a suitable marriage, or we can get rid of our family and concentrate on making money.
Women must consider their childbearing age, after all, this is the result that most men want to obtain in marriage, and then after the age, they must be prepared to make money without marriage and infertility, and those who want to understand first will benefit first.
Those who always say that they can't get married when they are old really don't understand it. I was still looking forward to the arrival of that person, how could it be possible at this age, unless the man was a fool and came to him with gold to be his aunt and grandmother.
The golden age of 38-year-old women to give birth has passed, and if a woman wants to get married and have children, she still has to get married early, and she can't delay her age too much.
Most men are very dedicated to women, they like 20-year-old girls when they are 20 years old, they still like 20 years old when they are 40 years old, and they still like 20 years old even when they are 80 years old.
Many girls over 30 years old are basically left, because the man has to consider the fertility factor, and the person over 35 years old can give birth but the recovery is slow, and the flowering period of women is too short.
Need to empathize, rich and capable men will definitely only look for younger and more beautiful. So in the same way, why don't rich and capable women look for young and strong handsome guys, after all, their only shortcoming is poverty.
Girls over 25 or more should have nothing to do with high quality, there is no discrimination, this has been to the marriage market and has been on a blind date, all understand that they go with the market.
It can be called highly educated and high-IQ, but high-quality is really not good, men with money and power and those without money and power like young and beautiful girls, and there is no way to change this.
In the countryside, for example, 38-year-old women in some places are grandmothers. There is really no advantage in terms of age, as for appearance, how much income is not considered by ordinary men, and priority men will not consider 38-year-old excellent women.
Many older leftover women only have the so-called requirements, and they don't think about why high-quality older leftover men are looking for you, everyone is high-quality, and I'm afraid that I won't find a partner.
If you don't put yourself in the right position, the same excellent older leftover men will not look at the older leftover women of the same age, so why don't you choose young and beautiful girls to pick leftover women?
Men always like to be young and beautiful, and youth comes first. Men with a little bit of conditions will not consider older ladies, and young people will not consider older ladies.
Therefore, the older leftover women, who have a high degree of education, a high income, and a lot of money, will not give you an advantage, in the eyes of others, you are an older age, and other conditions will be ignored.
Successful men must be able to get married, successful women are really hard to say, unsuccessful men and women are not less likely than successful women, but they do not have to get married.
Her quality is that she is highly educated, has a good job, and has a high income. Men don't care too much. As for the appearance of the figure, even if it is well maintained now, it is almost past the expiration date, and the age of eugenics is before thirty, and a high-quality man of the same age as her is more than enough to find someone under thirty.
What is a high-quality leftover woman, and what are the evaluation criteria? How can there be any leftovers? Values and outlook on life are incorrect, and the criteria for choosing a mate are measured by money, which is called quality?
Men and women have different definitions of quality. The quality in the eyes of men is intellectual kindness, and the ability to run a family can live, and the excellence in the eyes of women is to have a good job and a good income.
It's just that these women don't understand that excellent men still need blind dates? Excellent men don't look for an older woman.
There is absolutely no shortage of suitors for high-quality women in my personal understanding, and there are all kinds of them.
But after 35, if you are not married, you either don't want to get married, or your vision is too high, and you always feel that you are not as good as the previous one when you go on a blind date, and every time you grow 1 year old, you are subtracting points for yourself, and the more you are not as good as the previous one, the more you don't want to get married, which belongs to a dead cycle.
Except for some people who love soft rice, men generally don't like to find a partner who is much stronger than themselves. A strong man, and he likes young and kind.
Criteria for men to find women: 1 Young!2 Beautiful!3 Good personality!Criteria for women to find men: 1. Young and handsome. 2. Rich and capable!3. If you are not handsome or young, then you are very rich! Therefore, the criteria for choosing a mate for men and women are not on the same standard.
To tell the truth, you are still not good enough, so your so-called excellent men look down on you.
What they need is either helpful for their career, or they are young and considerate and can take care of people, and they can't meet their requirements and won't be with you.
You can appropriately lower the conditions, whether it is urban or rural, as long as there is no major problem, it is appropriate to talk about it.
The evaluation criteria for quality are not high education or high quality, but moral conduct, reasonableness and understanding are the best embodiment of human morality.
The reality is: the first consideration of a man's marriage is age, appearance, 38 years old is indeed not dominant in the marriage market, but a woman's excellence can not be reflected only by her marriage value.