In the journey of life, we will meet many people, but the closest ones are our brothers and sisters.
However, sometimes being too nice to them can hurt you on the contrary.
Such a perception can often be experienced after the baptism of the years.
A wise old man once said a thought-provoking phrase that woke up many people.
In this article, we'll explore why you can't be too nice to your siblings and the deeper meaning behind this old man's words.
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Emotional entanglements between siblings
Emotional entanglements between siblings are one of the common phenomena in life.
Although there is a family relationship between them that is thicker than water, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions and conflicts in life.
Sometimes, we are too kind to our siblings, which may make them become dependent, lose their ability to be independent, and even develop resentment and jealousy as a result.
Therefore, maintaining a certain distance and independence appropriately is not only conducive to the healthy development of siblings, but also conducive to maintaining the relationship with each other.
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Avoid disputes between siblings
Excessive care and help can lead to disputes and conflicts between siblings.
Sometimes, we interfere too much in each other's lives and can make them feel uncomfortable and stressed.
Therefore, giving them appropriate space and freedom, respecting their choices and decisions, is one of the important principles for maintaining the relationship between siblings.
At the same time, we must also learn to properly handle the differences and contradictions between each other to avoid unpleasant troubles due to small things.
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Protect your own interests
Sometimes, being too nice to your siblings can lead to damage to your own interests.
If we are too generous and tolerant in family matters and the distribution of property, we may cause our siblings to become dependent and demanding, which can harm our own interests.
Therefore, protecting one's interests appropriately and not sacrificing oneself excessively is an important principle in getting along with siblings.
At the same time, we must also learn to refuse some unreasonable demands and demands to protect our legitimate rights and interests.
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Based on equality and respect
Getting along with siblings is based on equality and respect. We should respect each other's choices and decisions and not interfere too much in each other's lives.
At the same time, we must also learn to treat each other as equals, without taking sides, and avoid jealousy and resentment.
It is only on the basis of equality and respect that the relationship between brothers and sisters can be more harmonious and stable.
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Spending time with your siblings is a very important thing in the journey of life.
However, we also need to be aware that we can't be too nice to them, otherwise it may hurt our own interests.
By maintaining a certain distance and independence, and properly handling the relationship between each other, we can better maintain harmony and stability between brothers and sisters.
I hope that everyone can take inspiration from this old man's words and learn to maintain proper distance and independence when dealing with siblings, so as to live a more fulfilling and happy life.