Many people think that Wang Xiaofei's kindness to his wife and children, and to his mother-in-law is really good. Because Wang Xiaofei herself is willing to spend time with each other and is willing to pay for each other. But I don't understand why Xu Yajun, who doesn't seem to love his wife and children, and doesn't give to his mother-in-law, can have a stable marriage and then get everyone's love.
To put it bluntly, in the eyes of those who support Wang Xiaofei, the person who spends money on you must love you, and the person who doesn't spend money must not love you. But why did Wang Xiaofei, who gave money, was abandoned, and Xu Yajun, who didn't give money, didn't love people, but had a stable marriage, and everyone defended him.
This is because the use of money to express love is not accepted and recognized by everyone, and some men give money, but they don't pay for other things. Judging from the details of Xu Yajun's recent relationship with Xiao S, Xu Yajun himself is at least emotionally kind to his family, not only good to Xiao S, but also to the house and Wu, good to Big S, and good to his daughters. Let's take a detailed look at Xu Yajun's kindness to his family, maybe you will also think that he feels okay with others, unlike only caring about himself as everyone says.
First, Xu Yajun treats his wife well at home, and Xiao S can cook in her husband's tights
Xiao S recently shared a picture of himself cooking with his two daughters, and he looks very happy. And Xiao S himself said happily that the clothes he was wearing were those of her husband Xu Yajun. In other words, Xu Yajun at least lives with Xiao S, and her husband's clothes can also be worn by his wife.
Most men really dislike women, or don't love their wives, and most of them don't allow their wives to touch their clothes, let alone wear their own clothes. It can be seen that in a place that everyone can't see, Xu Yajun himself treats Xiao S well. At the funeral of Xu Yajun's father Xu Qingxiang, Xu Yajun held his wife's hand throughout the whole process, and seemed to take good care of the woman.
As for Wang Xiaofei, in fact, he can't have any intimate interaction with Da S or Ma Xiaomei at home, get along, basically the way he expresses his love is to cook, chat with others, take care of each other, Wang Xiaofei is not disdainful to do it, but he won't.
Second, Xu Yajun treats Big S well, Big S Gu Junye has a bad reputation, and still allows his three daughters to go to his aunt's house to play
Many people feel that today's female stars and male stars in Taiwan feel a little avoidant, or they don't dare to play with Big S anymore. After all, Big S has been said so much by Wang Xiaofei, and the reputation is poor, if everyone doesn't want to be affected. Of course, it's best not to get close. But what about Xu Yajun's approach, love the house and Wu.
Because I love Little S, I take good care of Big S. Xu Yajun will not feel that her daughters Xu Xiwen, Xu Shaoen, Xu Xien and others will make their debut in the entertainment industry in the future, so the children are not allowed to play with the big S who has a bad reputation today. Xu Yajun himself also entertained Da S, Gu Junye, and Huang Chunmei at home.
Children are also allowed to go to Big S's house as guests. To put it bluntly, Xu Yajun himself also uses his own unabandonment and does not shy away from supporting the big S who now needs friendship and family affection. From the perspective of Big S, you will feel that Xu Yajun is very righteous, he could not have taken care of Big S, but he still took care of it.
Third, Xu Yajun treats her daughters well and allows children to have their own personality characteristics from an early age, instead of interfering with children in order to establish a good father
In addition, many people always like to say that Xu Yajun doesn't love her daughters. So Xu Shaoen was wearing a revealing outfit, but his father didn't care, but he didn't care about it. But if you take a closer look at the father of the daughter slave in the entertainment industry, Huang Lei said that he loves Huang Duoduo, it feels like it is to set up a person, although he disciplines Huang Duoduo, but it does not make people feel that he loves his children.
There are other fathers who consume their daughters, who also say that they are slaves to their daughters, and they don't allow their daughters to do anything, but they don't take their children seriously behind their backs. Xu Yajun does not consume children herself, and allows children to do things according to their own ideas from an early age, which is actually very tolerant, or it is another manifestation of loving children.
Xu Xiwen went abroad to study, Xu Shaoen and others can enter the entertainment industry at a young age, and they must also have Xu Yajun's support. Xu Yajun loves children so much, but if she says that people don't love her, it's not kind, after all, everyone expresses love in different ways.
To sum up, whether it is allowing Xiao S to wear his own clothes, not avoiding suspicion of Big S, and allowing his daughters to be themselves, it may tell everyone that Xu Yajun is really good to his family, not the type who only gives money and doesn't care.