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"Palestion is cruel killing! Teachers don't care, schools don't care, then parents take care of it!"
On April 16, the wife of Mr. Li, a resident, was beaten by the parents of his classmates while picking up his nine-year-old son from school.
Mr. Li's wife said that their son Xiao Li was slapped more than a dozen times by them, and even if Xiao Li was later knocked down and lying on the ground, the two parents still did not give up.
Later, Mr. Li's wife and son were admitted to the hospital due to their injuries. However, after understanding what happened, netizens said that this boy should be beaten!
So, what exactly is this going on, and how was the incident handled?
Event restoration
The incident began on the afternoon of April 16, when Mr. Li's wife came to the gate of Niucun Primary School in Muye District, Xinxiang City, Henan Province, to pick up her children from school.
As the bell rang for the end of class, Mr. Li's son, Xiao Li, walked out of the crowd, and Mr. Li's wife stepped forward to pick up her son.
But at this moment, two people, a man and a woman, suddenly rushed out of the crowd, and Mr. Li's wife recognized that these two were the parents of a female classmate in his son's class.
They stood directly in front of Xiao Li, and the matriarch couldn't help but give Xiao Li two slaps. Xiao Li was so frightened that he was about to run away on the spot, and then the male head chased after him and slapped Xiao Li more than a dozen times, and scolded while beating.
Mr. Li's wife was frightened by this sudden change and wanted to step forward to fight, but due to her small strength, she could not stop the male head from beating her son Xiao Li.
Mr. Li's wife took out her mobile phone to record the scene, and Mr. Li's wife was later beaten.
The video shows the two parents hitting the boy Li on the head and face with their hands, and after Li was knocked to the ground, the male parent also punched the boy's body with his fists.
It was only later, with the persuasion of onlookers, that the beating stopped. Mr. Li only learned the news on the evening of April 16.
At that time, his son Xiao Li and his wife had already been admitted to the hospital, especially his son Xiao Li, whose condition seemed to be more serious, and kept saying that his eyes were blurry.
This sudden change made Mr. Li angry, and his wife also called the police to detain the parents of the classmates who beat him, so what was the reason why the parents of Xiao Li's classmates had to beat Xiao Li?
According to Mr. Li's wife, it was because Xiao Li had a conflict with a girl in the class, and the girl's parents were angry, so they did this ruthlessly.
Mr. Li's wife also said that no matter what kind of conflicts arise between the children, the teacher can mediate, and there is no need for parents to do anything to the child. But not long after Mr. Li's wife complained about the girl's parents, the girl's uncle spoke out.
He said that the reason why his sister and brother-in-law would fight Xiao Li and his mother was because Xiao Li had bullied his niece for a long time, which caused great harm to his niece's body and mind.
What happens to your child if they are bullied at school?
The victim is a bully
According to the girl's father, Xiao Li is a well-known bully in the school, and his daughter has been bullied and abused by Xiao Li for a long time, and even extorts money from her daughter from time to time.
After each bullying, Xiao Li would threaten her daughter, saying that she would not talk about it or she would be beaten.
At first, the girl didn't dare to tell her parents about it, for fear that her parents would be beaten by Xiao Li if they found out, but because of the long-term school violence, the girl's psychology suffered great trauma.
After the parents sensed that something was wrong, they asked from their daughter's mouth. So, the girl's parents approached the teacher and the police, hoping that they could help them solve the problem.
Later, through negotiations between the police and the parents of both parties, they signed a letter of guarantee, and Xiao Li promised that he would not bully the girl again in the future, and returned the 50 yuan he had blackmailed the girl for the last time.
During this period, Xiao Li's grandfather not only did not repent, but even threatened them to let Xiao Li directly grab the girl next time and scratch the girl's face.
With the connivance of the parents, the effect of this agreement can be imagined, not only is it useless, but even Xiao Li has intensified his bullying and insulting her because of the girl's complaint to the parents.
and threatened the girl again, saying, "I'll tell your dad in the future that I'll beat you, and I will call your dad in the afternoon" and other extremely arrogant remarks, and in addition to the girl, there are several classmates in the class who have been bullied by Xiao Li.
The girl's parents couldn't bear it anymore, and after learning that the head teacher had also been told by Xiao Li to the police station, they would beat Xiao Li on impulse.
After the girl's parents spoke out, netizens' comments showed a "one-sided" situation, and some netizens said that it was no wonder that the girl's parents had to deal with a child, it turned out that the child itself was a demon!
Even after learning what happened, some netizens also said that the girl's parents beat her lightly! It is precisely because of the connivance of Xiao Li's family that today's situation has been caused!
So, how is this thing handled?
Appeasement is brutal killing
After the girl's parents were detained by the police, the community originally hoped to resolve the conflict through mediation, but Xiao Li's family was very arrogant.
First, Xiao Li's father, Mr. Li, refused to communicate, and said that their family had "someone" in the local education bureau, and then Xiao Li's grandfather directly proposed a high price of "200,000 yuan".
In this regard, the girl's parents said that their beating behavior was indeed impulsive and they voluntarily accepted the punishment, but hoped that the relevant departments would pay attention to their daughter's long-term bullying by Xiao Li.
Netizens are also very supportive of the girl's parents, after all, young age cannot be a reason to condone demonic crimes!
What is left to the police is three difficult questions: First, is the school derelict in its duties? Second, how to deal with Xiao Li's bullying and extortion? Third, what criminal responsibility should the girl's parents bear? It must be known that appeasement is cruel killing!
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