When people are still at work, for the sake of the connections of the unit, sometimes, they have to act on the spot.
All kinds of gatherings, all kinds of insincere words, talk about it.
But after retirement, you don't have to tolerate this anymore. Those "toxic" connections don't need to be contacted anymore.
Because, you don't rely on them for food.
It's a good thing to take the initiative to break off relations with these 3 types of people.
01 The person who makes money with you
In reality, after retirement, the first thing people should be wary of is the person who makes money with you.
In other words, the other party did not treat you as a friend or relative, and respected and cared for you.
Instead, they want to deceive you through poor information. Or take advantage of human weakness to tempt you and finally earn your money.
This is excessive.
This kind of person is not enough to be friends or relatives at all.
For example, some people say that it is easy to make money from something. And then fool you and invest a lot of money into it.
At the end of the day, you find that you've put in a lot of money, but you're not making any money. Didn't even pay back. I have been diligent and thrifty for more than ten years.
This kind of person is super excessive.
In reality, don't believe this kind of rich words. Because it is not human.
In this world, everyone is making a fortune in silence, and they don't tell others at all. is afraid that others will imitate and compete with themselves.
So, how can you make a lot of money easily and tell you? Do you think it's possible?
02 People with character problems should break off friendship
In reality, if someone among your acquaintances and relatives is confirmed, there is an obvious problem with character.
Then you don't have to keep associating with him.
For example, some acquaintances are unfaithful at home, cruel and irresponsible to their families. You still expect him to be a friend, it will be very good?
There are also people who never borrow money and never pay it back, and they don't talk about credibility. Do you have to make friends with this friend?
There are also people who are not filial to their parents and all kinds of greed, and you don't need to interact.
In fact, most people have a bottom line in their hearts. It's too bad to do.
Once one of your acquaintances does something extremely bad, it means that this person's bottom line is too low.
And for him, if he has done a bad thing, he doesn't care about one more.
If you associate with him, it will only increase your risk of making friends.
Don't think you're a special case and get preferential treatment. Impossible.
03 People who have a bad life
In reality, it is very important for people to take care of their body and mind when they retire.
The key is to keep yourself healthy and live for ten or eight more years.
Don't think about being enthusiastic every day to solve other people's life problems.
Other people's life problems are someone else's and his own responsibility. You can't manage it, and you don't have to.
For example, some people are overzealous and very concerned about the affairs of their brothers and sisters.
Listening to them pour bitter water every day, thinking that everything would get better, it turned out to be useless.
Even after two or three years, your ears have worn out calluses, and their bitter water will not be finished. Why?
Because they don't have the courage to do it.
In other words, their lives are already a mess and cannot be solved.
So, what are you involved in? Does this kindness really make you feel good physically and mentally?
When people retire, they should care more about themselves and less about others. Don't get involved in other people's cause and effect.
Those who have poor character, bad lives, and bad finances, have less contact.
If you are exposed to it too much, your life will be affected. The mood will go bad. Why bother?