#头条创作挑战赛#
Author: Reilly (Rich Book Author)
20 years ago, a news of "my brother taking my sister to college" attracted a lot of attention.
The elder brother's name is Hong Zhanhui, and the younger sister's name is Hong Zhanhui, and it is incredible that the younger sister and the elder brother are not related to each other, and they were originally an abandoned baby.
Many people asked: "Why is it better to be a sister than a sister?"
Whenever this happens, Hong Zhanhui proudly says: "In my heart, I never thought that she was not my own sister. When I first saw her, I liked this sister very much. ”
In-depth understanding of Hong Zhanhui's childhood shows how bumpy his journey was.
His mother ran away from home, his father had three relapses of mental illness, his life, studies and family were in chaos, and the burden of taking care of his family was on his shoulders for a long time......
Through interviews with reporters and media attention, Hong Zhanhui's deeds have been widely circulated, and his hard life has also made countless people cry.
In 2005, Hong Zhanhui became the youngest of the top ten people who moved China.
Now, 20 years have passed, what is the current situation of Hong Zhanhui and Hong Zhanhui?
In 1982, Hong Zhanhui was born in Xihua County, Henan Province.
Like most rural boys, Hong Zhanhui lives a stable life with his father, mother, younger brothers and sisters, and although his life is not rich, fortunately, the family is very happy together.
In 1994, when Hong Zhanhui was 12 years old, misfortune happened.
The father suddenly had intermittent psychosis, lost his mind, injured his wife, and threw his infant daughter to the floor, causing the accidental death of the youngest daughter.
The always peaceful and harmonious family life no longer exists, Hong Zhanhui can't believe what his father has done, his mother is in tears, and the people in the village are pointing fingers at them.
My father was temporarily unable to work, and in order to treat my father's illness, the family still owed foreign debts, and the pressure of taking care of the family was on my mother.
One day, when Hong Zhanhui came home, he found that his father's room was empty, and it was very dangerous for his father to go out alone.
When I found my father, it was already dark, but I didn't expect my father to hold a baby girl in his arms, and he was still muttering, "This is my daughter."
The mother and Hong Zhanhui couldn't resist their father's request, so they first brought the abandoned baby home, and then inquired in the village, but no one claimed it, so they left the baby girl at home to raise it, and Hong Zhanhui named the baby girl "Hong Zhanhui".
With three children and a sick husband, the money earned by the mother working is simply not enough for the family, let alone paying off the debt as soon as possible.
Every day, mothers are under extreme stress and anxiety.
In 1995, she was overwhelmed and quietly packed her bags and left.
The father knew that he was powerless, and when Hong Zhanhui and his younger brother came home, he said to them:
"Your mom is gone, I'm sorry for her. She should never come back. ”
Hong Zhanhui and his younger brother searched the whole village with snot and tears, shouting: "Mom, where are you, Mom, don't want us to ......"
Sick father, young siblings, no one can take care of them at home.
Hong Zhanhui took the initiative to take on this responsibility, he was only 13 years old this year, and it was false to say that he grew up overnight, Hong Zhanhui didn't know what to do at all, so he could only carry it hard.
My sister needs milk, and the family has no money, so Hong Zhanhui cooked porridge for his sister, or sent his sister to the mother's house in the village, and relied on the help of the villagers to find a way to buy some milk powder, and sometimes even took out bird eggs to make soup and fed it to his sister.
His father's illness was not yet fully cured, and he was afraid that his father would accidentally hurt his younger brothers and sisters, so Hong Zhanhui sent his younger brother and sister to a relative's house and picked them up when he came back from school.
At that time, he was in junior high school, and the school was 3 kilometers away from home, and every day after returning home from school, Hong Zhanhui would pick the vegetables he cooked from the field, or go to relatives and neighbors to borrow them.
The people in the village saw that the family was too miserable, and sometimes they would take the initiative to send some clothes, furniture, or fresh vegetables to Hong Zhanhui.
Hong Zhanhui has always been deeply moved by the help of others, and as long as he has time, he goes to the villagers' homes to help.
Busy taking care of his family, Hong Zhanhui has become a little adult, planning three meals a day, and trying to find time to study, and his grades have never lagged behind.
At the same time, he also urged his younger brother, who was in elementary school, to study hard.
In 1997, Hong Zhanhui graduated from junior high school and became one of the three students in the town who were admitted to the provincial key high school.
After receiving the admission letter, Hong Zhanhui went out to work, he said: "I want to earn money to study, I want to support my family." ”
The father sold the only bag of wheat in the family in exchange for 50 yuan, and handed it to Hong Zhanhui as the travel expenses, the implicit father rarely revealed his true feelings, and said to Hong Zhanhui with red eyes:
"Dad, I'm sorry for you! I was admitted to school but I didn't have the money to go to ......."
Hong Zhanhui went to several surrounding big cities to look for job opportunities, but because he was too young, he couldn't find a place to work.
After returning to his hometown, he was fortunate that a factory was willing to accept him as a worker.
Hong Zhanhui was in the factory day and night, earning more than 700 yuan in one summer vacation.
When Hong Zhanhui was working outside, his younger siblings were responsible for housework, farm work and three meals a day, and his father's condition was unstable, and when he was in good condition, he would go out to seek work opportunities, and the family worked hard to change the status quo.
After entering high school, Hong Zhanhui earned money by selling some gadgets in his spare time, he said:
"No way, I want to study, I want to support my family, I have to find a way to earn money!"
The ballpoint pens he sells are cheap, the core oil is more, and he can be replaced for free without ink, and his classmates buy ballpoint pens from him.
When the street circuit is repaired, the school will post a power outage notice in advance, and Hong Zhanhui will go to wholesale candles when he sees it, and sell candles in each class before the power outage.
In addition to this, he also sells supplies such as English tapes, insoles, socks, etc., saying:
"In fact, no matter how small things you do, no matter how little money you make, as long as you work hard, you can be proud of every penny!"
But his selling behavior was gradually disgusted by the teachers, and whenever he passed by the class, the students flocked to see what he had to sell.
Once, when Hong Zhanhui went to other classes to sell, he was kicked out by the head teacher of the class.
The teacher pointed at him and said with hatred: "Are you here to study or to be a hawker? No matter how difficult your family is, your parents should do these things to make money, and your task now is to study hard!"
Hong Zhanhui knew the teacher's kindness, but his family situation was really "bitter and unspeakable", he was a little sour, and left without saying anything.
Through sales, Hong Zhanhui earned some meager money, which could be used to help the family, and his first year of high school was much more stable than before, and sometimes, when he sorted out the money he earned steadily, he felt very happy.
But the hemp rope was broken in detail, and in the second year of high school, something happened to him.
Father is mentally ill again!
In order to earn money to take care of his sick father, Hong Zhanhui had to drop out of school.
He borrowed money from door to door in the village, and finally only borrowed more than 40 yuan, and later a kind proprietress sent 2,000 yuan to Hong Zhanhui, which solved the family's urgent need.
During the period when his father was sent to the hospital for treatment, Hong Zhanhui was busy with farm work, took care of his younger brothers and sisters, and also relied on some small businesses to earn money, earning six or seven thousand yuan a year, not to mention paying back the money he owed, and subsidizing a lot of daily necessities and electrical appliances for his family.
After his father's condition stabilized, Hong Zhanhui's desire to go to school became stronger and stronger, and he said: "You can't do it without reading, studying, and knowledge!"
In 2000, with the help of his former high school teacher, Hong Zhanhui re-enrolled in his first year of high school.
At this time, his sister happened to be at the age of elementary school, so Hong Zhanhui took his sister with him and let her go to the elementary school near the school.
In school, Hong Zhanhui "returned to his old business" and sold wholesale learning utensils, but the pressure of schoolwork in high school was relatively high, and he had more time, so Hong Zhanhui still focused on studying.
When Hong Zhanhui was a sophomore in high school, his father's mental illness had a third attack, and Hong Zhanhui, who was preparing for the college entrance examination, collapsed several times.
At this time, the younger brother was in the first year of junior high school, perhaps because he didn't want his brother to suffer anymore, the younger brother resolutely dropped out of school and went out to work, saying goodbye without saying goodbye.
Hong Zhanhui understood his brother's approach, and at school, he refocused on small business.
He found that there was a high demand for revision materials in high school, so he used the weekends to wholesale study materials, and Hong Zhanhui not only sold them at his own school, but also sold them at several other high schools in the vicinity.
According to the appreciation of this article and literature, Hong Zhanhui High School sold 5,000 copies in two years, earning nearly 20,000 yuan.
With the money he earned, Hong Zhanhui kept paying his father's medical bills.
His deeds touched the surrounding relatives and friends, and a town psychiatric hospital promised that Hong Zhanhui's father would not be hospitalized but only treated if he was hospitalized.
In the early days, Hong Zhanhui didn't have much money, so he accepted the help of the hospital, and after Hong Zhanhui earned the money in the later stage, he made up the money little by little.
Because of a lot of time spent on small business, Hong Zhanhui's performance has declined.
In 2003, Hong Zhanhui, who had been in high school for 5 years, went through the college entrance examination and was admitted to Hunan Huaihua College.
After going to college, he never slackened.
The pressure of college schoolwork was not heavy, and he had more time to study the "road to riches", and at that time he could only call from a fixed phone booth, which was very inconvenient.
Hong Zhanhui thought of selling phone cards, as well as backgammon repeaters, electronic dictionaries, and even cosmetics, and he could find a channel to sell them back to school.
The whole school knows about this big celebrity, coupled with Hong Zhanhui's honest management, he has accumulated a large number of repeat customers.
Because the location of the university school was too far from home, my sister dropped out of school for some reasons.
One summer in 2004, he went back to his hometown to see his sister who had dropped out of school, and he couldn't bear it, so he decided to go to college and study with his sister.
When my sister and Hong Zhanhui first arrived at the university dormitory, the male classmates in the dormitory felt at a loss how to take care of the little girl.
Seeing that my sister is smart and clever, everyone affectionately calls her "Little Little".
After that, Hong Zhanhui contacted the school in Hecheng District that could be transferred, wanting his sister to continue studying.
Fortunately, the principal of Shimen Primary School in Hecheng District agreed to let her sister transfer to the class.
Hong Zhanhui began his life of taking his sister to college.
Later, the dormitory manager, the school teachers and even the principal found out about it, and the principal made an exception to provide Hong Zhanhui with a single dormitory so that the siblings could take care of each other.
Teachers and students donated money to Hong Zhanhui's brothers and sisters, but Hong Zhanhui resolutely refused, and said after returning them one by one:
"I don't accept donations because I think the most important thing is to be self-reliant and self-reliant.
I now have the ability to survive and thrive, and there are still many people in this society who are struggling and unable to make it out, and they are the ones we need help now. ”
Hong Zhanhui's deeds spread in Hunan.
At the end of 2004, my mother, whom I hadn't seen for nearly 10 years, suddenly returned home, and after learning about Hong Zhanhui's recent situation, perhaps ashamed or missing, my mother decided to go home.
This year, my younger brother also frequently returned home to visit his family.
In 2005, Hong Zhanhui was named one of the "Top Ten People Who Moved China", and in 2006, he was named one of the Top Ten Outstanding Young Persons in China.
In the two years that followed, Hong Zhanhui's life changed dramatically.
He went from a student to a public figure, and his reporting was integrated into a book called "Chinese Boy Hong Zhanhui", which distributed more than 2.5 million copies in two years, bringing Hong Zhanhui a certain income.
At the same time, he has been invited to give more than 150 motivational speeches across the country.
At the age of 24, he also published his first book, "When Suffering Becomes a Compulsory Course in Life", which tells about his life experience in the past 12 years.
For a time, Hong Zhanhui became a celebrity.
In 2008, he was also invited to be an Olympic torchbearer to participate in the torch relay in Changsha, Hunan.
After graduating from Hunan Huaihua University, in 2006, he was admitted to Central South University, and studied for a bachelor's and master's degree, realizing a change of life.
At the same time, it also blossomed and bore fruit, as well as his love.
In high school, Hong Zhanhui and his classmate Song Najie had a good impression of each other, and later after the two got together, mutual support became the norm, and Song Najie often took care of his sister for Hong Zhanhui.
In 2008, the lovers finally became married, and the two received a marriage certificate and formed a small family.
After marriage, his wife often took care of her parents-in-law and sister in Hong Zhanhui's hometown, showing her filial piety.
In 2011, Hong Zhanhui served as the deputy secretary of the Youth League Committee at Huaihua University in Hunan Province, where he had studied, for five years.
He is committed to student education on the front line, and founded the Hearts Foundation to help underprivileged students go to school.
In 2016, he transferred to Hunan University of Information as secretary of the Youth League Committee and assistant to the president.
Over the years, Hong Zhanhui has gained a lot of experience, whether it is maintaining the operation of a school or doing things for students, he has won unanimous praise.
In 2017, Hong Zhanhui gave up job opportunities in colleges and universities, and also rejected job offers from many state-owned and private enterprises, and decided to run a secondary vocational school on his own - Changsha Xianghua Secondary Vocational School.
In order to prepare funds, he sought the help and support of more than 100 enterprises, and many times he needed to put down his face in order to obtain cooperation.
After more than a year of travel, the school has obtained cooperation contracts from more than 40 enterprises.
In the early stage of the school's enrollment, 298 people were enrolled in just one month, compared with other start-up secondary jobs, Hong Zhanhui won a step in enrollment.
But then came the problem that students were difficult to manage, which made him big.
At the beginning of the school year, the school corridors were full of betel nuts, cigarette butts and other garbage, and there were frequent fights between students.
Every day, Hong Zhanhui walks around the campus, improves the sanitary environment, chats with students, and sets up a military training class for Chinese culture to learn traditional culture such as "Di Zi Gui" and Chinese calligraphy and painting with students.
Once, a student violated school rules and should be expelled.
After reflection, the student regretted it and begged the coach to intercede with the principal.
Hong Zhanhui replied: "I will not give up on any Xianghua students!"
In front of all the students, the coach suggested that if Hong Zhanhui made an exception for the student, he should do 1,000 push-ups by example.
Hong Zhanhui immediately lay on the ground, in the process of doing push-ups, his sweat soaked his clothes, his eyes were lost, and every time he trembled and stood up, Hong Zhanhui felt weak and his brain went blank.
By the end, Hong Zhanhui was already unconscious and was carried back to the office by students and teachers.
The coach took the opportunity to educate the other students: "Now you have made mistakes, the principal is bearing, for Xianghua, for everyone's better future, the principal gets up early and goes to bed late, and is often so busy that he forgets to eat, and when can you be responsible for yourself?"
After 1,000 push-ups, students focused on their studies, and fights were rare.
And the student who made an exception to stay in school gradually appeared in the list of outstanding students.
In his spare time, Hong Zhanhui organized students to participate in the volunteer activities of "caring for the elderly and passing on love", hiking and training, following the "Hunan Society" to study at Mao Zedong Academy of Literature, rhythmic gymnastics competition, women's volleyball competition, speech competition, sports and art festival, cheerleading competition, writing competition, and Go competition...... Hong Zhanhui makes every effort to develop students' morality, intelligence, physical fitness, art and labor.
On the wall of the campus, a famous sentence by Hong Zhanhui was written: "My wish is to make education pure and run a pure school." Cultivate people who are both capable and virtuous, who understand happiness and can be grateful. ”
Under the influence of her older brother's school, her younger sister came up with the idea of becoming a teacher, and later her sister specialized in student adolescence education and became a lecturer in education.
In 2021, when my sister got married, she also wrote a letter to her brother, which was full of her gratitude to her brother.
"Thank you, Boss, for letting me see so much beauty and making me a confident and free person. ”
"All the shining points in me have your shadow. ”
"This is the suit I bought for you, you came in it that day, send me to get married......"
After reading the letter word by word, Hong Zhanhui shed tears of happiness in front of the camera of "See You Again".
In his spare time, he often finds time to go back to his hometown every other month to accompany his parents, and in his video records, his father has recovered from his illness, and the two work very the farm.
In 2023, Hong Zhanhui will start a lecture tour in many cities across the country, and the places he visited are full.
Looking back on the past, Hong Zhanhui never regretted every step he took, he told others with both hands:
"What doesn't kill me will make me strong. ”
He also once said: "The experience of suffering is not our capital to win the sympathy of others, but the most important thing is struggle." ”
And now, he passes the torch of his struggle to his students.
In the 2022-2023 school year, when the Hunan Provincial Education Bureau selected the provincial secondary vocational three good students, advanced class collectives and other awards, more than 470 students from Changsha Xianghua Secondary Vocational School were candidates, and a total of 66 classes were candidates, ranking in the forefront of the provincial level.
Looking at the students who returned to school and the students who achieved excellent results in self-improvement, Hong Zhanhui seemed to see his former self, and he interpreted "I was drenched in the rain when I was a child, and now I want to hold an umbrella for others".
From "rain man" to "umbrella man", every outstanding student is a commendation for Hong Zhanhui's contribution to education.
Collect kindness, do good deeds, and help the education of Chinese students, Hong Zhanhui has been on the road.
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