Recently, I wrote about retirement and fragments, and I saw a netizen leave a message, she said that I had nothing to do, and I was tossing blindly.
Under the pretext of writing, to earn money other than pension, it is just a matter of neglecting one or the other, and sooner or later regretting it.
I wanted to use my mobile phone to take a screenshot of this message and save it to warn myself not to be obsessed with making money.
Some time ago, I saw someone saying that he wrote articles to earn money after retirement, but he ruined his body.
At that time, I also wrote a short article, which roughly means that hobbies are our spiritual support after retirement.
Making money is an unexpected gain, if you insist on making money, you will forget your original intention, and the gains outweigh the losses, so we don't want to do it.
Bi Shumin said: "A person's charm is often seen more clearly after he retires.
The aura of belonging to the position has been faded by the years. The spiritual light that belongs to the individual shines.
This process is depressing for some people and a new life for others. ”
I first joined the writing camp to find something to do after I retired, and writing happened to be my hobby.
Importantly, I was attracted to the teacher's title, and I monetized my writing, and through my writing, I earned income beyond my pension.
When I was young, I had the idea of working part-time, but I had neither a diploma nor skills, only enthusiasm and strength.
We live in the middle of nowhere, and we want to work as waiters, or work part-time at the supermarket on weekends, but we don't have a place to go.
One year of the unit was particularly bad, we had a half-year holiday, I went to live in the city, and found a job in a pharmacy.
In order to memorize the names and scope of use of various medicines earlier, I bought a book,
Through the memorization method of typing out on the computer while reading, I memorized the names of more than 2,000 medicines.
After working for about half a year, all kinds of sadness made me really feel the truth of human nature and the meaning of working hard.
When I retire, I want to find something to do, but I'm not a long-sleeved dancer, so it's better to do a job that one person can do.
That's why I chose to participate in a paid writing camp, which at least kept me in a state of study, whether I could earn money or not.
In my opinion, a 50-year-old woman is the most brilliant time in her life, and it is also the time to truly live herself, why not do what she likes?
For the reminders of netizens, I will always remind myself to pay attention, combine work and rest, go out more with the crowd, listen more and talk less, and feel a different retirement life.
I can understand the kindness of netizens, she just told me that the essence of retirement is to let us rest well, stop thinking about making money, if you break your body because of this, the money you earn is not enough to see a doctor.
This is the case, and the truth is the same, but everyone's cognition and understanding are different, and the mentality determines their actions.
During this time, I watched Zhou Ling's "Cognitive Awakening", and after reading the reflection, I had an epiphany, and it turned out that the "self-discipline changes life" on our lips is our biggest misunderstanding of self-discipline.
In the past, when I saw how many days others got up early to broadcast live, how many days they got up at 4 o'clock to read, or how many books I read every year, I would feel that I was not self-disciplined enough.
It wasn't until I actually finished reading Cognitive Awakening that I suddenly realized that I was just making the same mistakes that most people make throughout the day.
For most of us, self-discipline does not change our lives, what really changes our lives is our own perception.
We turned the topic back to the comments of netizens, and I think netizens are kind reminders and do not maliciously preach.
But the following message is lively, some people say that netizens are jealous, and some people say that netizens can't see others.
And I think that when people get along with each other, they should neither be too optimistic nor too pessimistic, just do what they believe in and not be disturbed by other people's words.
After retiring and writing for three years, I feel that writing has brought me more than just money, but growth.
1. The growth of self-awareness.
I have been retired for three years, and I have read dozens of books, which has changed my growth a lot.
The personality has become much softer, no longer so twisted, no longer admitted, and not so sensitive.
Looking at a problem and looking at a person is no longer the kind of black and white view, on the contrary, I have learned to have multiple angles, and I can even jump out of the circle to examine one thing, a person, the mood is different, and the mood is stable.
I feel that I have grown a lot, I live freely and consistently, and my life is getting more and more comfortable.
2. Change the growth of marriage and family relations.
Growing up in marriage and family relationships is to change the perception of the wife around me, learn to understand his difficulties, and understand his goodness, no longer the kind of perspective that is not pleasing to the eye.
In the face of my daughter, I can also accept it calmly, no longer the kind of asking her to follow our advice to do it, asking to fly both high and far, but to respect her choice and speak well.
3. The growth of life and the meaning of life.
Through these three years of reading and writing, I have changed my understanding of life and the meaning of life.
In the past, I always wishfully gave my own good, always treated others with "what I think is good", and asked others to be good to me.
Now, I understand one thing, don't interfere with other people's cause and effect, even your closest family members.
We are all independent individuals in the world, each of us has our own mission in life, and it is best to be ourselves.
The meaning of life is to live yourself to the fullest and live the way you want.
The meaning of life is to be kind to yourself and everything in life, whether it is a wife around you or a stranger, living with kindness is the best life.
Having said all this, what I want to say most is that after retirement, doing your own hobbies is not to make money with hobbies, nor to toss blindly, but to realize self-worth and complete the beautiful rest of your life of "leaves fall here, flowers bloom elsewhere"!
Author: Huagui Zen Heart
Follow my words and go into your heart. You have a story, I have tea, and we can talk about the rest of our lives together.
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