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Today's incident is quite rare.
In Suolonggou Village, Tieling, Liaoning Province, two old ladies fought and lost their lives.
According to insiders, the incident happened in the public activity area on the first floor of a certain community, and two old ladies, one 79 years old and the other 80 years old, somehow had a quarrel and then scuffled together.
Soon, there was a circle of people around the two old ladies.
The crowd of onlookers persuaded them not to move, probably because the old man was too old and afraid of causing trouble, so no one dared to step forward to pull the fight.
As a result, the 79-year-old lady beat the 80-year-old lady to death.
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This time, things are getting bigger.
The police station was dispatched and a cordon was drawn at the scene of the incident.
From person to person in the community, everyone knows that there is a murder at the door of their home.
But the reporter went to interview and asked many residents, but no one explained the specific reason for the fight between the two old ladies.
However, according to the news bulletin, most of them are trivial matters about parents.
Both of them are unforgiving lords, and they made a move when they were in a hurry, but they lost their sense of proportion, and no one thought that it would be this result.
If you want to talk about life, living to this age, you have seen all the winds and waves, what else you can't think of, why not fight?
There is no deep hatred, but a battle of tongues.
It's just that the old man who is so angry and can't walk fast on both roads fights so fiercely that he has to fight with his life.
Now, the 79-year-old lady has been taken coercive measures because she may be involved in a criminal case.
The 80-year-old lady is gone, and the family has a funeral.
The two of them can obviously enjoy the joy of family life with their children and grandchildren around their knees, but now it's okay, regardless of causing trouble, they don't have a good life, and they let three generations of the family suffer with it.
No one has gained anything from this fight.
A momentary temper punishes himself, so why bother?
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Speaking of which, another outrageous thing comes to mind.
An Aunt Shen in Shanghai and an Aunt Lu in Henan, people in their fifties, have never intersected in their lives, but they are torn apart on the Internet.
Not to mention the tearing for 16 years, it was torn from home to abroad.
Until the court meeting, one party took out a killing knife and a hammer, and stabbed the other party more than a dozen times in front of the judge.
At that time, a reporter from Vancouver said something in his report: "The level of shock of this incident is something I have never encountered in my 20-year career as a journalist." ”
I was shocked when I saw it.
Aunt Lu once became rich, and after immigrating abroad, she likes to show off big-name bags and mansions in Chinese forums.
Aunt Shen saw it sour and hateful, and opened her mouth to identify fakes, spreading rumors that the good things that Aunt Lu had were fake.
Aunt Lu couldn't be angry, so she asked someone to flesh Aunt Shen.
Picked up her past, what son had poor epilepsy grades, couldn't afford to buy a house and rent a small single room, and even the matter of being bad to her mother-in-law and being swept out of the house by her ex-husband was moved to the forum.
The two of them completely got married.
is stalking and secretly shooting, slandering and abuse, and chatting with each other's husbands privately, trying to destroy the other party's marital relationship.
After tearing up for sixteen years, Aunt Lu couldn't stand it anymore and took Aunt Shen to court.
As a result, Aunt Shen came prepared, knowing that there was no metal detector door in the courtroom, and there was no need for security checks, so she carried a hammer and a fish-killing knife in her bag.
As soon as the two met, Aunt Shen knocked down Aunt Lu with a hammer.
When the police arrived, Aunt Lu was covered in blood, breathing weakly, and was once in critical condition when she was rescued in the hospital, but fortunately she later picked up her life.
In June last year, the case officially opened in Vancouver, and Aunt Shen may face 16-18 years in prison.
can immigrate more than ten years ago, and the two aunts are a little rich.
But they have to be angry and entangled with bad things.
From online coercion to offline court, they hurt each other meaninglessly for 16 years, and finally ended up with a heavy sentence and a serious injury.
Because of such a trivial matter, it is really sad and regrettable to catch up with the second half of life.
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Therefore, it is really not a good thing that the popularity is too great.
If you win, you will waste a lot of energy, and the gains will outweigh the losses; if you lose, you will be full of anger and will be easy to act rashly.
Either way, you're always a loser in the end.
Think of the young man in Shiyan, Hubei who had a fight with crabs.
He caught a crab by the stream and was accidentally caught in his hand, and it would be bad luck for a normal person to take a spit, but the guy was a ruthless man, and he was so angry that he bit the crab tooth for tooth.
He also retaliated and bit the crab leg to pieces and swallowed it in his stomach.
Later, the guy had inexplicable chest pain for a month, went to many hospitals, did CT, took medicine, and took antibiotics, but he couldn't be cured.
It wasn't until he was admitted to the respiratory and critical care department that the doctor asked about the details of more than a month ago, and the guy remembered about biting the crab.
The doctor finally diagnosed that the guy was infected with "paragonimiasis"-
There is a parasite called "lung fluke" in raw crabs, Shiyan is a high incidence area of lung flukes, and it is very likely that crabs will be infected if they eat them raw.
Lung flukes not only live in the lungs, but can also travel throughout the body, shuttling between different organs, causing corresponding organ damage.
If left to wander into the brain, it can cause seizures and aphasia.
The guy was lucky, and he slowly got better after taking the right medicine.
But this "revenge" plan is happy for a while, and it is not worth it to make yourself critically ill.
Think of Xiao Cheng, that female college student in Xi'an.
She signed a one-year rental contract, but after four months, she had to return to her hometown, so she communicated with the landlord to refund the rent.
The landlord was a bit duplicitous, and he had agreed that he would not lose a penny that should be refunded, but he was nitpicky after Xiao Cheng returned to his hometown.
It is not enough to deduct one month's rent as liquidated damages, but also to deduct the money for cleaning and repairing room facilities, and the money that can be refunded in the end is more than 2,000 less than Xiaocheng's estimate.
When you encounter this incident, just cut the mess and call the police to solve it.
But Xiao Cheng called the police and felt angry, scolding the landlord for being an "old dead dog", and the landlord was not easy to mess with, so he directly humiliated Xiao Cheng with a "bitch".
In the landlord's sentence "If you take poison, I will apologize to you", Xiao Cheng did not hesitate to drink the pesticides purchased online and did not rescue them.
The landlord took in 190,000 yuan, Xiao Cheng lost his life, and after the gunshot, there was no winner.
Life is bustling, and friction and collision will inevitably occur.
If there is a chance to do it all over again, will they still fight to the death for a breath in the story?
The answer should be no.
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There is a very interesting description, saying, "Blindly competing with others is like going into a maze to chase the enemy, trying to defeat the other party, but trapping yourself." ”
That's right, when people are angry, they forget their original intentions, and they only want to be angry with others, but forgetting will also delay themselves.
We also need to take warnings.
After all, there are all kinds of people around us, and not everyone is reasonable.
If you meet someone who doesn't make sense, don't say it at all.
It is very time-consuming and troublesome to let the dwarf understand that he is a dwarf, and to make the fool admit that he is a fool.
Anger is instinctive, and rationally weighing the pros and cons is the ability.
I think of a self-report post on the Internet.
A man who has been at odds with his colleagues for a long time.
That morning, his colleagues found fault with him again, made him carry the black pot, and was reprimanded by the leader in front of the whole company.
The man was furious for a while, rushed out of the company door and went to buy a knife, wanting to kill his colleagues with a knife.
The supermarket owner saw that the man was in a wrong mood, and deliberately rubbed when he was cashiering, and while wrapping the knife in layers of newspapers, he accosted the man:
"Yo, come to buy a kitchen knife so early to help your daughter-in-law run errands? "I really envy you, I have a hot meal when I get home, unlike when I can only eat a box lunch. ”
The man said that thanks to the boss's two words, he slowly calmed down and lost his dangerous thoughts.
Later, he didn't take his colleagues seriously anymore, and spoke with his ability, so that everyone could see the true face of his colleagues.
Sometimes, friction that doesn't have much impact on life is better than being a fart.
This is not cowardice, but the wisdom of not competing in life.
Impulsiveness is the devil, and loss of control is followed by regret, and regret is the most useless emotion.
It's also a good thing to get out of time and save yourself from bad emotions.
Mo Yan said that many people and things are like a gust of wind blowing, what you should do is to pat off the dust on your body, turn around and walk away quietly.
Don't fight with the wicked, don't get angry with the villain.
It's not about forgiving others, it's about letting go of yourself.
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