Bai Mingxia married Fudong, and Sun Xiang fell in love with Yingchun.
The Hua family was in trouble at the beginning, and all the men were assigned, and everyone avoided the Hua family, and even the Shen family, who had already been engaged to Hua Zhi, also withdrew from the marriage very carefully.
Now that the Hua family is under the leadership of Hua Zhi, not only has made money and lived a prosperous life, but also has been allowed by the emperor to live back in the original old house.
"Cherish the Flowers" Huaqin heard that Sun Xiang was the owner of the tea shop, the business was very big, and the family was very rich, so she moved her mind and pretended to bump into Sun Xiang inadvertently, which successfully attracted Sun Xiang's attention.
Later, Hua Zhi asked Yingchun to investigate, and learned that Sun Xiang not only had many concubines in the family, but his original wife also left a son and a daughter, Yingchun completely gave up Sun Xiang, and also told Huaqin the news.
Huaqin said thank you for Yingchun, but took the initiative to bring snacks to please Sun Xiang's child.
Why doesn't Yingchun look down on Sun Xiang, but Huaqin is willing to do "continuation"?
Yingchun is Hua Zhi's maid on the surface, but in fact, even in the past, when Hua Zhi was clumsy, she didn't really treat her as a maid, and now Hua Zhi is the head of the Hua family, and Yingchun is equivalent to the big housekeeper of the Hua family.
Hua Zhi is arrogant, and intends to cultivate the ability of Yingchun and others, and the people around her are naturally influenced by her, and they have the consciousness of self-reliance and self-improvement in the pursuit of happiness.
Bai Mingxia's marriage to the winter gave a good example of spring. Although in ancient times, Shinong businessmen and businessmen were always considered inferior, but in their own eyes, it is worthy of pride to rely on their own hands to support themselves, although they can't marry princes and nobles, but in the same class to marry a man with better conditions, husband and wife love to grow old together, it is a beautiful thing.
Therefore, those who want to marry in the spring need to be like Bai Mingxia, have a little industry, have the ability to make money to support their families, and they must be single young people.
Sun Xiang is full of fat, has a group of wives and concubines, and has two children, under such conditions, whether it is a lady or a concubine, Yingchun will not marry. What's more, Sun Xiang's abacus beads have already collapsed, and he wants to marry both Yingchun and Huaqin back, so Yingchun can only be a concubine.
Huaqin is different from Yingchun, Huaqin was born in a high-ranking family, with the title of a noble girl from a high family, but she was born to a concubine. In those days, there was basically only one way out for a girl like Hua Qin, that is, to become the concubine of a large family, for people to decorate the façade and have fun.
Because the larger the family, the more important the background, it is impossible for them to marry a daughter born to a concubine to be the main lady, and the girls' own family and the education, vision and pattern they have received since childhood determine that they cannot marry a poor man lower than their own class.
Therefore, Mo Lan in "Do You Know" did not hesitate to use self-destruction to destroy her reputation in order to marry Liang Han. It can be seen how difficult it is for a concubine from a big family like them to strive for a marriage that she is satisfied with.
Sun Xiang is indeed not a good person for Yingchun, but for a person like Huaqin who cares about status more than love, it is a very rare opportunity, an opportunity for her to become the lady of the main house and let her children no longer be concubines.
Huaqin's "sobriety" lies in the fact that she knows very well what she wants.
After Sun Xiang proposed to Hua Qin, Hua Zhi told her that if she was unwilling in her heart, she would help her withdraw from the marriage, and Hua Qin said to Hua Zhi:
I know that Sun Langjun is not a good match, but what kind of person am I? Now, we are just a merchant family with no official position and no position, and I am a concubine, and I am not as good as you and Ling'er's sister, so it may not be better not to marry him and change to someone else.
Huaqin wants to marry Sun Xiang, naturally not because she loves him, but because Sun Xiang not only has money in the family, but also waits for her in the position of the head lady. So even if it's a continuation of the strings, even if he wants to be a stepmother to his child, Huaqin doesn't care.
"Cherish the Flowers" Huaqin is the daughter of the third room of the Hua family, but her biological mother is not the third lady, but Aunt Qin. The Hua family was originally a kind and upright family, and the subordinates and concubines in the family would not be treated harshly, even so, the son born to Aunt Qin was still given to the second room, and she herself was almost driven away by the sale.
This was the status of concubines in those days. Since she was a child, she has seen a lot of Huaqin who has suffered from her mother, and she will not envy any love at all, but she will not have the consciousness and ability to support herself like Hua Zhi, she wants to find a good marriage for herself, a good backer, so the most important thing is not to be a concubine like her mother.
As long as he marries Sun Xiang and can be the wife of the main house, no matter how many concubines and children he has in his family, this is the truest idea in Huaqin's heart.
Of course, she has lived in the mansion for a long time, and she is not a little white rabbit to be slaughtered, she does have some means to govern people and families. As soon as Huaqin married into the Sun family, she took out the style of being the housewife and gave those concubines a dismount, which was also something that Yingchun couldn't do.
Huaqin's choice of Sun Xiang seems confused, but in fact, it is the result of her careful consideration, she not only found out the details of Sun Xiang, but also has a clear positioning and cognition of herself, she knows that marrying a Sun Xiang who she can control is far more beneficial to her than marrying a man she can't control as a concubine.
Many people feel that a marriage without love must be a tragedy.
In fact, no matter when, as long as a girl lives a sober life and knows what she wants, she will not have a bad time. If you are afraid that you can't see your situation clearly, you don't have a full understanding of yourself, and you want everything, then the result is very likely to be a chicken and an egg, and you won't get anything.
As a concubine from a wealthy family, Huaqin's cognition and choice naturally have her limitations, and it is not worth advocating, but I have to admit that in that environment at that time, she was already living a very sober life.
When a woman chooses marriage, love is an important consideration, but in addition, you must be clear about what you want from this marriage and what you can control. Don't marry yourself off with a love brain, in the end, it will only be you who suffers.
About the author: Xiang Xiang Acacia, a woman who likes to read and write, focuses on the creation of articles in the emotional direction of film and television, as well as the analysis and solution of problems in the emotional field, I hope my words can accompany you warmly.