A while ago, a few friends chatted with us about some stuck points in children's education.
There is a friend who has a very tense relationship with his children because of study problems, and he also has a harmonious relationship with his husband.
After chatting at that time, she was in a much better mood, and she thought a lot, knowing that no matter how many problems she had, she had to start from herself, so everyone suggested that she return to her mother's and wife's position, and recite the Tao Te Ching every day.
I happened to meet her today, exactly a week after we last met, and I asked her if she had read this week?
She was a little embarrassed and said that she had read it, but she didn't stick to it every day......
Then, she asked me, "Why is reading the Tao Te Ching good for a harmonious relationship?"
That's a good question!
Why is reading the Tao Te Ching good for a harmonious relationship, here from the superficial to the core gradually deepening, there are three effects.
First, the most direct effect of reading the Tao Te Ching:
It's the same 20 minutes, and it's used to read the classics and to get entangled and angry, which is more beneficial to the relationship, and it's clear at a glance.
Second, the further effect of reading the Tao Te Ching:
When we recite the scriptures, the sound we make will cause the resonance of the internal organs – reciting aloud can relieve liver qi.
People who are often angry often have uncomfortable liver qi, but the function of the liver is the main discharge, and at this time, singing positive energy songs and reciting classics loudly can make the liver happier the most.
People's emotions and bodies complement each other, bad emotions will affect the body, but if the body is comfortable, it can also soothe emotions.
I have a friend who used to have a fight with his son because of his studies.
Later, after listening to our advice, when I was angry and wanted to scold my son, I picked up the Tao Te Ching and read it aloud.
At first, she gritted her teeth and read it, but she didn't get so angry when she read it, and when she finished reading it again, the fire went down, and her son was not so unpleasant.
In addition, her son is very clever, and as soon as he saw his mother pick up the "Tao Te Ching", he went to do his own thing well, because he knew that his mother had reached the critical point of beating him again.
So, after going back and forth like this, after persisting for two weeks, she didn't feel anything wrong, but Mr. said that since she started reading the Tao Te Ching, she has had more orders in the past two weeks.
This made her think of "home and everything is prosperous", because the family is no longer jumping, the magnetic field is harmonious, the husband is quiet, and everything that should come will naturally be attracted.
Therefore, a mother's emotions are not only the umbrella for the child's growth, but also the feng shui eye of a family.
It is said that women are water, and water brings wealth.
If this water is treacherous and stormy all day long, it will not be able to keep the wealth when it comes, and it will all be scared away.
Third, the core effect of reading the Tao Te Ching:
The wise man solves the problem, and the sage can make the problem disappear directly.
Everyone doesn't use their brains to untie their hearts, because as long as they use their brains, they are still in the battle between heaven and man. Therefore, many people understand the reason, but they just can't do it.
What is the knot opened with? with energy.
Energy is like water, and our experience is like rocks.
When the water is not enough, these strange rocks stand on the tidal flats, and no matter how good our boat is, it will not be able to leave the port. If you break through, you will only run aground and sink. But when the water is sufficient, the sea level will rise, those reefs will be submerged, and when the dangerous shoals become good harbors, life can go straight to the clouds.
In fact, under every sea, it is not flat.
But as long as the water is abundant, the ravines on the bottom of the sea are all stories, and they do not affect navigation at all. At this point, who will continue to fight against the bottom of the sea and eradicate those rocks?
The truth can be understood as soon as it is explained, but if you want to do it, you must have enough energy.
Therefore, to fundamentally solve the problem, the best way is to improve your energy, improve your mind, and improve your pattern.
Why is it recommended that everyone read the Tao Te Ching?
Because reading the Tao Te Ching resonates with the thoughts of the sages, it directly bridges one's consciousness with the laws of the universe, life, nature, and society.
When we take the law as a mirror, we can reflect our true self, and the word "ashamed" that rises in our hearts at that moment is like a wisdom sword cutting through the causeway, releasing all the energy water full of wisdom, compassion and love in our hearts.
When energy springs up from the bottom of the heart, all problems will be solved, because there is no darkness in the light.
Therefore, reciting the Tao Te Ching does not seem to be directly related to solving problems, but the so-called "song is complete" - sometimes a bend, in the process of gathering more powerful energy, and then when you turn back to face the "strong enemy", you can overcome it in one fell swoop.
There are thousands of ways to solve the problem, but there is only one secret to making it disappear directly:
Enhance your own mind, enhance your energy, and enhance your wisdom.
The truth is always clear as soon as it is said, but it is not easy to really do it.
There are too many empirical stories around us, all of which are written with our own persistence in learning and using the Tao Te Ching.
Therefore, for the Tao Te Ching, whether we read it or not, it is still a classic.
But for us, whether we read the classics or not, we will have a different life, and everything is our own choice.
Be grateful for everything that happens, and be grateful for the Tao Te Ching!
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