Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
It is said that marriage is a woman's shelter, and if the husband and wife are not united, then marriage will become a woman's shackles.
A man's betrayal of marriage may be impulsive, but a woman's betrayal of marriage is often to satisfy her heart's desire.
Women betray their marriages, mostly because they are unhappy in their marriages and can't get the kind of life they want. She wants to get more happiness and warmth, and get real love.
What kind of man will a married woman be with if she betrays her marriage?
Generally speaking, married women who betray their marriages will develop these men into their extramarital lovers.
02, funny, very sweet man who speaks sweetly
I've seen a video that says:
A woman is under a lot of pressure from work and family, and she is always sullen.
Her husband is very wooden and indifferent to her. So much so that when she was unhappy, she worked hard alone.
An intern in the company saw it and often amused her and talked to her.
never regarded her as a boss, nor did she treat her as a middle-aged woman, said sweet love words to her, and treated her as a treasure in the palm of her hand.
The woman could not resist this beautiful feeling, as if she had returned to the age of eighteen when she had just throbbed with love.
Knowing that there will be no results for two people together, and there will be a lot of discussions when others know about it, but she still can't help but immerse herself in this relationship and can't extricate herself.
A married woman who betrays her marriage will develop a funny and sweet-talking man into her extramarital lover.
has been neglected and cold by her husband for too long, and she longs for a sunny and funny man by her side who can touch her cold and desperate heart.
Qian Zhongshu said: "A person with a real sense of humor has no heart, laughs alone, smiles coldly, and breathes a sigh of relief for a dull life." ”
Some people are born with sunshine, full of positive energy, optimistic and positive. Such a man with a fatal attraction fascinates women.
Funny men, most of whom are very good at sweet words, can satisfy women's fantasies very well. Women, unconsciously, will approach him and approach him.
03, warm, a man who can really help her
Bi Shumin said: "Between life and death, it is a lonely journey of life. Keeping a true love is the lamp that shines on the warmth of life. ”
Not everyone chooses a partner who loves the most.
When marriage becomes a life in which two people just live together, each taking what he needs, and there is no love. When help is needed, there is no help, only endless indifference.
A woman will crave warmth, longing for a man around her who really helps her.
When such a man appears outside of marriage, the woman can't help but get closer.
That man understands what she wants in her heart and can give her the life she wants.
The sense of security that her husband can't give can be felt in him. She will be moved by the man's heartwarming behavior and can't ignore the man's existence.
When I met this man and felt an unprecedented sense of security, I wanted to lock him tightly and didn't want him to disappear into my world.
The feeling of stability and steadiness makes it impossible for a woman to resist temptation. I hope that someone can really become her support and can be by her side in time when she needs it.
04, a man who has money and can meet her quality of life
"Why Sheng Xiaomo" Tong Xinying abandoned Ying Hui when she was in college.
The reason why she broke up was because Ying Hui had no money and couldn't give her a better life.
Many years later, Tong Xinying divorced her husband because of Ying Hui. Because Ying Hui is famous, she is many times stronger than her current husband.
Her criteria for choosing her husband are who can give her a better life. She doesn't want to share the hardships with men, she just wants to share the fruits of men's victories.
Such a woman does not love a certain man, but which man can bring her a better life.
A married woman who betrays her marriage will develop a man who has money and can satisfy her quality of life into her extramarital lover to satisfy her vanity.
Writer Su Gengsheng said: "Some people say that it is normal for people to encounter love and money in their lives, and only understanding is valuable." I find it ridiculous, understanding is invalid, while love and money are real. ”
Some women, very realistic, she will not really love anyone.
She is afraid that she will be hurt, so she will never take the initiative to give. Choosing a partner, making a choice, is just more beneficial to yourself.
She likes to cling to stronger men, hoping to get the love of the other person and get a better life because of it.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
A woman who betrays her marriage, who is not afraid of being criticized by the world, risks the breakdown of her family, and is with a man outside of marriage, it must be something he can give her.
Maybe it's the emotional value that makes her life more abundant. Perhaps it is the value of wealth that can satisfy her material life.
But in either case, it is possible to make a woman's life turbulent and change the direction of her fate.
Women, they should still be cautious about their feelings, don't hurt too many people, and don't lose big because of small things.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.