Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Marriage, for women, is a safe haven.
A man who can make a woman reliable will shelter her from the wind and rain.
Men will love her very much, and no matter what ups and downs and risks she encounters in the second half of her life, she can get through it safely.
In addition to career, the most important thing for women is marriage.
In this world, every woman hopes to find a lover for herself. Find a lover, and a woman will have light in the second half of her life.
And the standard of a lover is not rich and handsome, but clean. Make no mistake about it, woman. The cleaner a man is, the less likely he is to change his mind.
02. The character is clean, and there is a bottom line and principles for doing things
A buddy, not long ago, shared with us his experience of "chasing his wife".
When he was chasing his girlfriend at the time, his girlfriend's parents disagreed.
His girlfriend's parents disliked him from out of town, and his family background was also ordinary. He visited them, but his girlfriend's parents ignored him and hoped that he would retreat.
The girlfriend was very angry with the attitude of her parents, and in order to show her determination, she wanted to elope with him.
Instead of agreeing, he persuaded her to go home and sent her home.
When his girlfriend's parents found out about this, they had a lot of good feelings for him and eased their attitude towards him a lot.
Later, in the midst of repeated contact, his girlfriend's parents invited him to sit down and talk in detail together, and finally successfully married his wife home.
A man with clean character has a bottom line and principles in doing things. It can make people's hearts feel down-to-earth and secure.
Zeng Shiqiang said: "A person with a good moral foundation will be very stable in his life. ”
A person with a clean character will not do things that violate the bottom line and morality under impulse for his own purposes.
He is calm and more reassuring. Women will look up to men, and they will also feel that men are true gentlemen.
Regardless of running a career, family or relationship, a man with a clean character will not make a big mistake. With him, life is more stable.
03. Emotions are clean, and it is better to be lacking than indiscriminate
Han Shangyan in "Dear, Loved" became famous at a young age, and when he participated in the competition, there were many girls who pursued him. However, he has never been in love since he met the right person.
He would rather be single, pursue his dreams, be with his teammates, and be busy with his career, rather than start a relationship casually.
It wasn't until I was in my thirties that I met Tong Nian that I had the idea of falling in love.
When he met her, his heart melted for her. Since then, he has used all his tenderness to protect her.
A man who is emotionally clean is more responsible.
George Bernard Shaw said, "Love is not charity, so you can't give generously." ”
If you look closely, men who are emotionally clean do not have much relationship history and do not like to start a relationship at will. Such a man either doesn't look for a girlfriend, or he is very serious and loves only one person in his life.
The love life is simple, and falling in love is not treated as a game.
If a man is entangled with many women and enters marriage, the chance of rekindling old feelings and empathy will be greater.
When he sees one and loves the other, he may not be willing to give his heart to you when he plays with other women.
A man who is emotionally clean has a serious attitude towards his feelings, and would rather lack it than overdo it. I won't see one and love the other, it's too flowery.
04. The heart is clean, not vain and not comparing
A man with a clean heart, pragmatic. If you want to do anything, you will be down-to-earth, not clever, and you will not exchange emotions for benefits.
On the road of life, strengthen your beliefs and pursue your dreams.
He knows that whatever he wants to accomplish is a matter of hard work.
After entering the marriage, cherish the long-term relationship between each other, and choose to give up if you don't meet someone better.
I am grateful for my wife's company and understand my wife's dedication. I don't want to make managing a relationship a very complicated thing, and I believe that a person will always love and will not be ambiguous with other women.
McKinsey said, "Time is the soil on which everything in the world is achieved." Time gives pain to the dreamer and happiness to the creator. ”
A man with an unclean heart is too obsessed, always wants things that don't belong to him, and does things that are inevitably extreme.
Even, for the sake of his own vanity, he was with a woman with more resources and got rid of his girlfriend or wife.
And a man with a clean heart is not vain, does not compare, and knows how to walk slowly step by step.
He is not in a hurry, but will cherish the happiness of the moment with his heart and strive to maintain his married life. Such a man can make life more stable.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
Character is more valuable than family wealth.
To find a partner, you must know how to examine the character of the other party. Character is the foundation, if there is a problem with character, no matter how many advantages he has, don't be tempted.
Women, if you love a man, you must love a "clean" man.
The more reliable a "clean" man is.
When a woman finds a "clean" man to spend her life with, the happiness index will be higher.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.