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I am the second child in the family, named Xiao Ming. Although I am the second son in the family, I am the only student in the family and stay in the city to work after graduating from university. My sister Xiaohong has long been married, and now the big thing in our family is that she is about to get married.
In my family, my father is a cheerful and bold man, and he is the pillar of our family. My mother, on the other hand, is a typical traditional housewife with a very persistent love for her family and children. There is also an indispensable member of the family - my sister Xiaohong, she is a gentle and kind girl who is about to marry her boyfriend, a well-known local entrepreneur.
One night, our family sat in the living room, drinking hot tea and eating snacks made by my mother. Suddenly, Xiaohong walked in with a document, her face full of joy and anticipation.
"Mom and Dad, Xiaojie and I have decided to get married next year. Xiaohong said excitedly.
Hearing the news, my parents immediately showed a smile of relief, and they were full of good expectations for Xiaohong's future.
"It's a great event! Congratulations!" said my mom excitedly.
"yes, congratulations!" said my dad, laughing.
I looked at their happy appearance, and my heart was full of emotion. After all, Xiaohong is the pearl of our family, and her happiness is the happiness of our whole family.
However, just as we were rejoicing over Xiaohong's marriage, a storm was brewing.
When my father heard Xiaohong's words, the smile on his face gradually froze, he frowned, and asked, "It's a good thing to get married, but what are you going to arrange?"
Xiaohong was stunned for a moment, looked at my mother, and then said, "I discussed with Xiaojie, we decided to buy a house in the city, and then you transferred the house to me." ”
Hearing this, my father's face immediately sank, and he said in a deep voice: "Transferring the house? You want to be beautiful! This house is the one I have worked hard all my life for, how can I just transfer the house?"
My mother also said, "Yes, this house is our home, we worked hard to buy it, how can we just transfer it?"
Xiaohong was a little stunned when she heard this, she didn't expect her parents to be so opposed, and said in a panic: "Mom and Dad, we are married, it is appropriate to buy a house, and you still have a house to live in, it will not be affected." ”
My dad shook his head and said firmly, "No, this house must not be transferred." ”
My mom was also on my dad's side and was adamantly opposed.
At this time, the scene was a little embarrassing, and Xiaohong looked at her parents' attitude and felt very lost. She didn't expect her proposal to be met with so much resistance.
As I watched this scene, I felt a little uneasy. I know my parents' attachment to this house, and they value it more than anything else. However, Xiaohong's marriage is also what everyone is looking forward to, how can this matter satisfy both parties?
"Mom and Dad, let's discuss it carefully, maybe there are other solutions. I tried to mediate.
My dad frowned, looked at me, was silent for a moment, and finally nodded in agreement.
My mom nodded her head along with the idea, indicating that she would be willing to listen to other suggestions.
Seeing that her parents' attitude had softened a little, Xiaohong's face showed a look of hope. There seems to be room for a solution to this family conflict.
For the next few days, our family was lost in thought. Xiaohong and her fiancé, Xiaojie, also began to look for a solution. I feel that as a student in my family, I should try my best to help solve this problem.
So, I discussed it with Xiaojie and decided to come up with a compromise. We decided to use Hong's dowry to buy a small house in the city to serve as a new home for Xiaohong and Jie. My parents' house is still owned by them, but Xiaohong can continue to live there after she gets married until her parents are old or our siblings have a better solution.
When Xiaojie and I proposed this plan to our parents, they were both silent for a moment, and then looked relieved. My dad nodded his head in approval of the solution, and he said, "Son, you have thought very well, and I can accept this solution." ”
My mother also nodded again and again, and said with emotion: "The children have grown up and know that they are thinking about the family." ”
Xiaohong cried with joy when she heard her parents' reply, she took Xiaojie's hand and looked at him gratefully. Our family hugged each other, and this family conflict was finally resolved.
The days that followed, we were busy and happy. Xiaohong and Xiaojie started to prepare for the wedding, and my parents and I helped them together. Although there are sometimes some minor frictions, we all know that family harmony is more important than anything else.
Finally, on a sunny spring day, Xiaohong and Xiaojie's wedding was successfully held with the blessings of family and friends. I watched my sister holding Xiaojie's hand with happiness, and my heart was full of emotion. Their happiness is the greatest wish of our whole family.
After the wedding, Xiaohong and Xiaojie moved into their new home and started their married life. And my mom and dad continued to live a peaceful and happy life at home. Although we have different lives as a family, our love and support for each other will never change.
The resolution of this family conflict not only makes us more united, but also makes us more aware of the importance of family. In this warm little family, everyone has their own responsibilities and responsibilities, and we work together to grow together and pursue happiness together.
As time passed, Xiaohong and Xiaojie's married life gradually got on the right track. They have built their own small family in their new home, and every day is full and happy.
I often visit their homes, eat and chat with them, and share each other's lives. Sometimes, I also help them with some household chores and take care of the house together. Our relationship grew closer and closer, as if we were a family.
During this time, I also got along more well with my parents. I often walk with them, chat, and share my work and life. I believe that family harmony is the most important thing, and only with the support and understanding of family members can we be stronger to face the challenges of life.
However, just one night, I received an unexpected phone call that put me in a conflict.
Xiao Hong's anxious voice came from the other end of the phone: "Xiao Ming, I quarreled with Xiao Jie, and he filed for divorce." ”
When I heard this, my heart sank and I hurriedly asked, "What's wrong?"
Xiao Hong sighed and said, "He feels that we have incompatible personalities and different living habits, and he has had enough." ”
When I heard this, I couldn't help but feel sad in my heart. I know that there have been a lot of run-ins between Xiaohong and Xiaojie, but I thought they had overcome these difficulties and walked towards a happy future together.
I comforted Xiaohong and said, "Don't worry, calm down first." You guys talk about it and see if you can solve the problem. ”
Xiaohong swallowed her saliva and said, "I've tried my best, but he just won't listen to me." ”
I thought about it for a moment and said, "I'll go over right away, and we'll have a good talk together." ”
After hanging up, I hurriedly told my parents what had happened and hurried to Xiaohong's house.
When I arrived at Xiaohong's house, I saw her sitting on the sofa crying, and Xiaojie sitting on the side looking at her coldly. I walked over, took Xiaohong's hand, and comforted, "Don't cry, let's have a good talk." ”
Little Red looked up at me, her eyes full of disappointment and helplessness. I knew how sad she was at the moment, and I decided to do everything I could to help her through this.
I sat across from Xiaohong, looking at her red and swollen eyes, and I felt a heartache in my heart. I know what she needs now is understanding and support.
"Xiaohong, tell me what happened first. I asked softly.
Xiaohong sobbed and said, "We have been arguing lately, I feel that he is getting colder and colder to me, I try to change myself, but he doesn't seem to care. ”
I listened, took a deep breath, then turned my head to look at Xiao Jie, and said, "Xiao Jie, you also tell me what you think." ”
Xiaojie was silent for a moment, and then spoke: "I think our personalities are incompatible, and our living habits are different, I don't know if we are suitable for being together." ”
After listening to his words, I sighed in my heart. I know that Xiaohong and Xiaojie do have many differences, but I also believe that as long as they work hard, they will be able to overcome these obstacles.
"Xiaohong, Xiaojie, you all calm down. "There will inevitably be some problems in marriage, but as long as you are willing to understand and tolerate each other, you will be able to get through it." ”
Xiaohong raised her head, wiped her tears vigorously, and said, "I don't want to divorce either, I want to go down with Xiaojie." ”
Xiaojie was silent for a while, then sighed and said, "Maybe we can give each other another chance." ”
I was relieved to see that the communication between them was gradually opening up. I know that the love between them is not gone, it just takes more time and effort to operate.
"Okay, then let's start over. I said, "You can try to communicate more, be more tolerant of each other, and trust me, you will be able to get out of this situation." ”
Xiaohong and Xiaojie glanced at each other, then smiled and nodded. I know they're ready to start over.
After leaving Xiaohong's home, I felt a sense of relief in my heart. I believe that as long as they work hard, their marriage will be even happier. I will always be there for them and cheer them on. Because in my heart, the happiness of my family is always the most important thing.
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