Recently, an outrageous and heart-wrenching news spread on the Internet, the news occurred in Xinxiang, Henan, a pair of parents because their children were bullied, after not being able to get a satisfactory solution, they chose to move their hands, and the parents who bullied the children were violently injured, and in this incident, not only the parents who bullied the children were injured, but also an innocent mother and their own children were injured, this incident came out, not only the people at the scene were frightened, even the people who learned about the incident through the Internet, they were also indignant and heartbroken。
1. The course of the incident
It is understood that the victim in this incident was a 9-year-old boy, and the perpetrator of the violence was the boy's parents, and the parents were the target of a girl's parents, at that time, the girl's parents were picking up their daughter from school at the school gate, and the parents took advantage of the girl's parents to be unprepared, they beat her, and when the girl's mother tried to stop her, she was also beaten.
In this incident, the boy's mother was also hurt to a certain extent, and after the incident, the police also intervened in the investigation and detained the boy's parents, and when asked why he would be violent to others, the boy's father said that it was because the girl's parents did not discipline their daughter before, which led to the girl being bullied by his son at school, and this is the reason why they chose to take action.
Second, the views of netizens
After learning about this incident on the Internet, it also aroused heated discussions among many netizens, and everyone also has different opinions on the behavior of the boy's parents, some people think that the boy's parents are right to do this, thinking that they are protecting their children, and some people feel that their behavior is extremely wrong, and they can't be violent to others because their children are bullied.
In the whole incident, there was also a girl's uncle who told everyone another situation, he said, in fact, the girl was not undisciplined, but in the case of being bullied by the boy at school, the girl's parents have repeatedly reported to the school, hoping that the school can give some help, however, the school did not deal with the matter, nor did it provide protection to the girl, which will cause the girl's parents to be unable to control their emotions and choose to defend their rights at the school gate.
In this incident, the focus of public opinion has gradually shifted from the violence of parents to the responsibility of schools and teachers, and everyone began to discuss whether it was the inaction of schools and teachers that led to the occurrence of this incident, and some people also proposed that schools and teachers should be held accountable for their inaction, and similar things should not be allowed to happen again.
3. The issues behind the incident
Through this incident, we can see not only the anxiety and helplessness of parents when their children are bullied, but also the anger and violence of parents when they cannot be satisfactorily resolved, and in the process, innocent children become victims, and some parents have feelings of resentment towards the school and others because they cannot get help.
On the part of schools and teachers, enough attention should also be paid to it, if schools and teachers only take an inactive attitude in dealing with bullying, and do not provide students with due help and protection, it will lead to students not being able to get timely help, and there will also be certain safety problems.
In addition, this incident also reflects the problems existing in the society when dealing with similar incidents, whether it is parents or schools, in the face of bullying problems, should pay attention, can not think that bullying is just a contradiction between children, and do not give enough attention, and what we should do is to arouse the attention and reflection of the bullying problem, can not let the bullying problem continue to exist.
Fourth, what should we do
What should we do when faced with bullying?
First of all, we should strengthen guidance and support for family education, help parents correctly deal with the problem of children being bullied, and avoid extreme behaviors because they cannot get help.
Second, schools should establish more effective reporting mechanisms so that students can safely report bullying, and schools and teachers should also pay attention to provide students with the help and protection they deserve.
Finally, we should increase the publicity of bullying, so that more people can understand the harm of bullying and form an atmosphere for the whole society to resist bullying.
Epilogue:
Through this incident, we can not only see the anxiety and helplessness of parents on the problem of their children being bullied, but also see the problems existing in the school and society in dealing with the problem of bullying, and hope that in later life, both parents, schools and society can draw attention to the problem of bullying and jointly create a harmonious and safe growth environment.