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Foreign countries are longed for by many people, but with the continuous fermentation of the Syrian incident, everyone knows how chaotic foreign countries are, in fact, foreigners are very envious of us, and they are eager for our Chinese living environment.
I am a Korean student, and my current wife is a classmate, we can be said to have fallen in love at first sight, and after graduation, she resolutely followed me back to China.
At the beginning, she asked her sister to come to China with her, but she was severely beaten by her father, and her sister refused to come, thinking that her father was right, and now her sister cried as soon as she made a video call, and asked her to rescue her from fire and water, "Sister, I really envy you, I regret it!
01
I was a Korean student, and the reason I went to Korea to study at that time was related to my major at university, which was film.
South Korea's attainments in this area are also among the best, so I went to Korea after thinking about it for a while.
At first, when I heard that I was going to South Korea, my family disagreed, and they had a very serious dislike for Korea, feeling that people in this country like to grab things and steal things, and they are very thick-skinned.
They were afraid that where I would stay for a long time and become like that, so they rejected my choice very much, but they could only agree later, because they also had to admit that Korean films were really good.
In this way, with the reluctance of my family, I came to the unfamiliar country of South Korea.
At first, my mother came with me, she was worried that I would not eat well and sleep well, so she resigned to take care of my diet and daily life, but because of an incident, my mother returned to China directly, and claimed that she would never come to Korea again in her life.
It was the Spring Festival in Korea, and my mother and I thought about going out to see the streets getting more and more lively, but something very unpleasant happened in a shopping mall.
Mom took a fancy to a set of cosmetics, they had a trial, Mom wanted to try it, and the shopping guide was very enthusiastic and wanted to help introduce it.
My mother casually said thank you, but I remembered that it was abroad, and the Koreans probably couldn't understand it, so I smiled at her again, so I hurriedly stepped forward to explain.
As a result, when the shopping guide heard that his mother spoke Chinese, he immediately rolled his eyes, snatched the sample from his mother's hand, and said to me with a very fake smile, "I'm sorry, our cosmetics are not suitable for foreigners, only for local skin." ”
As soon as I heard this, I immediately wanted to argue with her, and my mother immediately asked me what the shopping guide meant, I saw that my mother was here, and I couldn't be so impulsive, so I just pulled my mother away.
Although I didn't explain what the shopping guide said, my mother probably guessed a thing or two from the actions and demeanor of which shopping guide, and turned her head to comfort me It doesn't matter, Koreans almost all have low eyes and look down on Chinese.
The main thing is that it was the Spring Festival, and the Koreans felt that it was China that took away their Spring Festival, so they couldn't celebrate the Spring Festival like China.
I'm really stuffy, our Chinese culture of 5,000 years, I don't know how much earlier than the Koreans, and even the words written by the ancestors of the Koreans are all Chinese characters, I don't know when the Spring Festival is theirs, and I don't care about talking about three points.
In fact, I was angry mainly because I was afraid that my mother would feel uncomfortable, she was here with me, and I didn't understand the language, almost every day I was alone, and I had classmates, teachers, and friends to communicate with.
Originally, my mother and I had forgotten about it, and when we went to eat, we couldn't help it.
02
We saw a restaurant with a discount, so we thought about going in and trying it, who would have thought that when we checked out, they actually charged the full amount.
I was very puzzled and asked the boss if he had miscalculated, but the boss directly gave me a sentence, our activity is only for the Spring Festival of Koreans, you are Chinese, not this time for the Spring Festival.
This answer made me laugh directly, and I would say, "If I come to eat with you during the Chinese New Year, you must give me a discount, otherwise I will sue you for falsehood!"
He didn't admit it, he didn't deny it, I took my mother away after settling the account, and went out to tell my mother what had just happened, and my mother was also very angry, which was a bit serious.
When I got home, my mother began to pack her luggage, saying that she couldn't stay here for a day, Koreans were not friendly at all, and I was almost used to here, so she was not worried about me, but worried about my father at home.
I didn't try to keep it too much, in fact, when I told my mom what was going on, I already thought about what my mom would do, because mom was too unfree here.
No matter where you do, you may be blinded because you don't know Korean, I remember that when my mother first arrived, there was a convenience store person who was very excessive, and his mother couldn't understand what he said, and he couldn't reply, so he kept gesturing with his hand, and he thought his mother was a fool, and he kicked his mother out with great disgust.
While rushing and swearing, I just arrived when he said that his mother was stupid, and when I heard his words, I was instantly unhappy and wanted to apologize to him.
My mother saw that I was in the same state as if she was going to hit someone, and directly pulled me down, and after I scolded the boss, the boss knew that we were Chinese, and under my pressure, he apologized to us.
Since then, my mother has never been to the supermarket or shopping alone, so I feel that my mother is too lonely here, and I support her when she returns to China.
After sending my mother to the airport, before I got on the plane, my mother said to me, "No matter how good this outside is, it is not as good as my own home, I will never come to Korea again in my life, you can return to China after graduation to develop, this is not our home after all." ”
After saying that, my mother turned around and left, my heart was mixed, fortunately, my father said that my mother was much happier when she returned to China, and the stone in my heart also landed.
It's just since my mother left, I know that Koreans can't have deep friendships, almost all of them are cautious, or some people with super machismo.
In South Korea, they value male power very much, and women are seen as working servants, so I can say that Chinese men are very popular there.
For example, I am very popular with girls, and my current wife and I met at this opportunity.
03
The two of us fell in love at first sight, and it was only after talking to this wife that I learned that Korean boys' machismo is engraved in their bones, and they are born with a sense of superiority for some reason.
I remember very clearly, that day I went to my daughter-in-law's house for dinner, and her father was very strict with the women in the family.
The most important thing is that I'm still there, I don't know if it's for me or what, anyway, after that meal, I don't go to my daughter-in-law's house to eat anymore, I feel very depressed.
The daughter-in-law said that when you live in one environment for a long time, you will get used to this kind of life, and it can be said that this is not only the case with the family in Korea, but also in the general environment.
I'm really a little helpless about this, it's sad that they were born under the skirt of women, but they look down on women.
In addition to arrogance, Korean boys are very good at PUA, and the two fall in love, as long as the boy gives the girl a gift, the girl must be the kind of grateful Dade existence.
Whenever the two quarrel later, the boy will definitely take out the matter of giving gifts, and then keep PUA girls, no matter how many things girls send to boys during this period, in their eyes, that is what girls should be.
So in South Korea, I am familiar with their AA system life, even if I buy a bottle of water, I have to AA, otherwise I will wait to be nagged, and it is very likely that I will say bad things about you behind your back, I don't want to embarrass China.
I graduated in a blink of an eye, and my girlfriend really wanted to go back to China with me, and after I told my parents about it, they didn't want me to find a Korean daughter-in-law at first.
But in the end, with our unremitting efforts, my parents said that as long as the woman's parents were willing, who would have thought that they would encounter obstacles here.
The daughter-in-law's father was unwilling to let his daughter-in-law come to China, thinking that the Chinese were not good, so he specially beat the daughter-in-law to make the daughter-in-law obedient, what I never expected was that the daughter-in-law, who did not dare to breathe in front of her father on weekdays, would openly go against her father's wishes.
In order to prevent my daughter-in-law from being beaten a second time, I hurriedly said that we in China give a bride price for marrying a daughter-in-law, and Chinese money is very valuable in South Korea, so under the temptation of money, my father-in-law agreed.
Before the daughter-in-law left, she thought that it was all her sister who walked with her, but the father-in-law didn't say a word after knowing it, and slapped the daughter-in-law directly, pointing at my nose and saying that I abducted the two girls.
In fact, my daughter-in-law felt sorry for my sister-in-law and was afraid that she would live like her mother in the future, but my sister-in-law chose to believe her father-in-law and did not follow us, and the result was really not what my daughter-in-law expected.
We got married when we returned to China, and my parents were not very accustomed to my daughter-in-law coming to my house at first, everyone respected each other as guests, and then we got along for a long time, and everyone was harmonious.
After the daughter-in-law is pregnant, she is the baby of the family, during this period, except for the New Year's holidays, we rarely go back to South Korea, plus the mask period, it can be said that since the daughter-in-law came to China, we have returned to South Korea the number of times we have been slapped.
The daughter-in-law has been in China for five years, and during this time, the daughter-in-law's sister has also married, and I heard that the sister-in-law's husband has a little money at home, and he originally looked down on women, and now he looks down on women who have no money.
The sister-in-law's life at home is like walking on thin ice, especially after a miscarriage, her status is even worse, and her mother-in-law blames her for not protecting the child in her belly, but what they don't want is that the sister-in-law has a miscarriage because of overwork.
Now my sister-in-law cries whenever she calls her daughter-in-law, saying that she regrets that she didn't listen to her daughter-in-law at the beginning, and that she may be very happy now when she comes to China.
My daughter-in-law also said to me many times that I would help manage it, but I shook my head helplessly every time, saying that I couldn't manage it, once I managed it, it was not a matter between families, but between two countries, after all, the management system in each place is different, I have no right to interfere, I can only comfort my wife, everyone has their own life!
Do people say I'm doing the right thing?
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