Most students enter college for the first time and may be away from their loved ones for the first time. Even though college students are adults, their parents are still worried.
As the saying goes, "children are worried", but with the evolution of the times, people's thinking has also changed. Nowadays, the relationship between parents and students is sometimes like the one spread on the Internet, where the parents symbolize true love and the child is an unexpected existence.
Generally speaking, fathers' feelings tend to be more restrained than mothers' expressions of love. Therefore, we often use the phrase "father's love is like a mountain", but now this father's love seems to be weakened.
Some college students have made public their chat records with their parents, revealing that the concept of fatherly love has been impacted, and even found that there is a difference in the cost of living, which is very surprising.
After entering the university, parents will provide living expenses according to the actual needs of the student. Although the amount will not be very high, it will be enough to maintain the basic expenses of the students.
This college student is actually very sensible, and has only been getting 1,000 yuan a month. Although this amount is relatively small, by the third year, the pressure of life increases, and the cost increases accordingly.
1,000 yuan was obviously not enough, so he discussed with his mother if he could get an extra 500 a month. Mom was shocked when she heard this, because she had been giving 2,000 a month, how could it become 1,000?
Later, the college student learned that since his sophomore year, his mother had given him 2,000 yuan every month, but he didn't expect to be secretly "devoured" by his father. Many netizens said that they would go back and ask their mothers to see if their father had also embezzled their living expenses.
Official criticism is the harshest
Generally speaking, the father considers his daughter to be his little lover in his previous life, and in his eyes, the daughter is the most outstanding, both in appearance and in other aspects, it is incomparable. This view is generally irrefutable.
It seems that this female college student is either not the reincarnation of her father's little lover in her father's previous life, or her boss's mind has changed. One day, a female college student made a video call to her father, but her father hung up after answering.
The daughter looked confused and didn't know why. Subsequently, the father gave an explanation, "If you don't wear makeup, you look ugly", and when the female college student tried the video call again, the father actually refused.
Whether the father is too straight or to tell the truth, netizens have ridiculed the official criticism as the harshest. Some netizens even said that they finally understood why their father didn't pick up their videos, and every time they asked him the reason, they got a hesitant answer.
Although gifts can be left unbought, you must get married
The process of raising us by our parents is very difficult, and it is our responsibility as a child to buy some gifts for our parents during the Chinese New Year. The female college student asked her father what kind of gift she wanted.
The father said that he hoped that his daughter could bring a boyfriend home, which really embarrassed her for the female college student. can only play the emotional card and ask her father if he wants her to marry so much.
Dad's answer was surprisingly frank, and the reason was that he was dissatisfied with the waste of food by the female college students. Netizens expressed their sympathy for the female college student, and some commented that this look was biological, otherwise they would not have said such a piercing thing.
Studying hard and becoming a productive person is the best reward for parents. Although sometimes the parents' words are not gentle enough, they are often typical of knife-mouthed tofu hearts, with a tight mouth of blame, but in their hearts they sincerely hope that their children can have a bright future.
What they want most is for their children to be able to achieve something and live a better life, so the only requirement when they enter college is not to indulge in indulgence because of lax management.
The employment prospects of college students are worrying, so it is important to constantly improve themselves during their time in school to strive for better employment opportunities. In addition, college students who are studying abroad should also keep in regular contact with their parents, not only when the economy is tight, but also because they miss you very much and are just worried about disturbing you or being disliked.
Therefore, college students should take the initiative to express their feelings of longing, so that their parents can feel the deep love in both directions, which is the most gratifying.
In addition, in the face of insufficient living expenses, college students can have the following solutions. No matter how much their parents provide for their monthly living expenses, college students often feel that they are not enough, however, this money is not easy to come by. College students should learn to understand their parents and not squander money.
For college students who do not have enough living expenses, they can consider applying for scholarships. The higher the level of the scholarship, the greater the amount. This will not only solve the problem of personal living expenses, but also reduce the financial pressure on parents.
However, in order to get a scholarship, college students should not have the mentality of scoring easily, but should dispel this idea as early as possible, work hard to learn professional knowledge, and achieve excellent results. This is the most costly and rewarding way for college students to make money.
In addition, college students can also make full use of their spare time to engage in some part-time jobs, such as normal students can work as tutors, or participate in other part-time jobs. In this way, you can not only earn extra pocket money, but also train yourself and accumulate valuable experience for future employment.
Discussion: How do you communicate with your parents?