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In 2012, an ordinary family in Hunan Province was enveloped by a sudden tragedy. Huang Huaiyuan died of severe cancer at the age of 45. According to traditional customs, children should go to the solemn funeral of their father to see him off for the last time.
However, when Mr. Huang's relatives arrived at the homes of his two daughters, the scene was jaw-dropping. Initially, the two sisters saw the arrival of their relatives with a cold expression on their faces, and their eyes were full of disdain and disgust.
Then, when relatives tried to convince them to see their father off, the two reacted even more violently.
"Please leave! he doesn't deserve to see him off!" Huang Yinhong clenched his teeth, his eyes burning with rage, as if he was facing a hateful enemy. Despite her young age, Huang Jing also firmly refused the request of her relatives.
Such arrogant and rude words undoubtedly aroused the strong dissatisfaction of Huang Huaiyuan's relatives. The two sides immediately fell into a tense and heated dispute. While denouncing the two sisters for being "ungrateful" and "unfilial piety, there are three nos, and the queen is great", while telling about Huang Huaiyuan's various misfortunes during his lifetime.
However, Huang Huaiyuan's two daughters did not care about this and did not waver. Their eyes were filled with anger and hatred, and it seemed that they had lost all affection for their biological father.
Naturally, the relatives could not stand this rude behavior, and the quarrel between the two sides intensified, and the atmosphere was tense for a while. However, why did these two young women have such a strong anger and disgust for their biological father who had just passed away? What kind of bitter past is hidden behind this? We must start from the married life of Huang Huaiyuan and his ex-wife Huang Manjiao.
Fate is too cruel and ruthless for Huang Huaiyuan. Soon after divorcing his ex-wife Huang Manjiao, he was impatient to enter a new marriage with another woman.
The bride is beautiful and moving, and Huang Huaiyuan is full of endless longing and expectation for his future life, eager to live a happy life completely different from his ex-wife.
However, this grand wedding turned out to be a turning point in Huang Huaiyuan's life. Soon after marriage, Huang Huaiyuan's new wife became pregnant. Although the child was born early due to dystocia, Huang Huaiyuan was still full of joy, thinking that he had finally fulfilled his wish and was about to welcome a son.
However, the good times are short-lived. The newborn baby passed away after only two months on earth. Huang Huaiyuan has not fully experienced the joy of becoming a father for the first time, and tragic fate has once again taken away this joy.
His heart suffered unspeakable pain, and the emotional bond with his wife was deeply fractured.
Just when Huang Huaiyuan was deep in the abyss of life's suffering, a more cruel fate followed. Unfortunately, he was terminally ill with cancer, and doctors asserted that he had only a few years left to live.
Huang Huaiyuan, who was over half a hundred years old, thought that he still had a long time to squander, but he never imagined that the balance of life would tilt so quickly.
In the face of such a heavy blow, Huang Huaiyuan completely lost the courage and hope to survive. He began to ignore the doctor's advice, and spent his days indulging in alcohol and self-exile.
No matter how hard his family tried to persuade him, Huang Huaiyuan turned a deaf ear, as if he was desperately waiting for death to come.
To explore the misfortune of Huang Huaiyuan's life, we have to start with his marriage to Huang Manjiao. After years of long-distance love and hard work, they finally gave birth to the crystallization of marriage in the midst of difficulties.
During the days when he entered the marriage hall, Huang Huaiyuan cared for his wife Huang Manjiao. Whether it is housework or daily life, he takes care of it, and he is even more obedient and loving to his wife.
At that time, they were like a couple in love, immersed in a happy atmosphere all day long.
However, good times are always short-lived. Soon after, Huang Manjiao's abdomen gradually bulged, indicating that a new life was about to be born. Although the whole family cheered for this, when Huang Manjiao successfully gave birth to a pink and lovely daughter, Huang Huaiyuan did not show the joy he deserved.
It turned out that deep down, he desperately wanted to have a healthy and handsome son. Influenced by traditional concepts, Huang Huaiyuan was extremely indifferent to this newborn daughter and turned a blind eye.
From then on, his attitude towards his wife and daughter gradually became cold and even indifferent.
Huang Manjiao took on the responsibility of the family alone and worked hard to manage this warm family of three. And Huang Huaiyuan looked at his wife and daughter coldly, and sometimes scolded angrily, which made Huang Manjiao difficult.
For a while, Huang Huaiyuan had the idea of betraying his family and was entangled with other women outside. This turmoil is snowballing, and family conflicts are becoming more and more prominent.
Huang Manjiao's painstaking persuasion was ineffective, and in the end she could only endure her husband's behavior with tears, and at the same time, Huang Huaiyuan's attitude towards her two daughters became even harsh and ruthless, which can be said to be a true portrayal of domestic violence.
The eldest daughter, Huang Yinhong, has endured the ravages of domestic violence since she was a child. Whenever Huang Huaiyuan encountered something unsatisfactory or was depressed, he would vent his inner dissatisfaction by punching and kicking.
Huang Yinhong knows that the only way out to get rid of the torture of domestic violence is to obediently obey her father's words, but even so, her father's fists still fall on her from time to time.
Whenever this happens, Huang Manjiao always does not hesitate to step forward and protect her daughter with her body. Huang Huaiyuan's violence against his wife was also frequent, and the couple spent almost every day fighting each other.
The poor little daughter Huang Jing, although she is still young, has also suffered from her father's cold violence and has never felt the warmth of her father's love.
Faced with the trouble of domestic violence, Huang Manjiao and her two daughters have shed tears many times, begging Huang Huaiyuan to turn back, but even if Huang Manjiao put down his dignity to beg him, Huang Huaiyuan still turned a deaf ear and continued to go his own way.
This was undoubtedly a malicious attack on his wife, a serious abuse of his daughter, and since then, Huang Manjiao has completely fallen into despair, and she can no longer bear the pain of this family, because she clearly knows that she and her two daughters will never be able to get Huang Huaiyuan's love.
In this way, the family, which was originally full of laughter, was torn apart and fragmented by the lack of male members. The complete breakdown of the marriage made Huang Manjiao lose the last glimmer of hope.
In order to create a complete home for her daughters, she could only endure her grief and choose to divorce Huang Huaiyuan and escape from the nightmare home with her two young daughters.
After the divorce, Huang Manjiao moved into a modest rental house in the city with her meager property and Huang Yinhong and Huang Jing's two daughters. She had to take on the burden of raising her children on her own, relying on odd jobs to barely make ends meet for her family of three.
Despite the embarrassment of life, at least the shadow of domestic violence is no longer loomed.
After Huang Huaiyuan divorced his wife, he quickly entered the marriage hall hand in hand with his lover, and since then he has cut off the family concerns. The bride is beautiful and charming, and he is full of hope for this new marriage, and he hopes to embark on a very different path of happiness than before.
However, this man, who once brought great pain to his wife and daughter, does not seem to have really let go of his past grievances. Even after ending his marriage to his ex-wife, he still visits frequently to try to get his two daughters to break off their father-daughter relationship with him.
Whenever this happens, the older Huang Yinhong always turns a blind eye with a blank face, not caring about her father's arrival. In contrast, the younger citrine was more agitated, often tearing down tears and grief-stricken.
Once, Huang Huaiyuan actually attended with a new love and dressed up, and he was proud in front of his daughters. Completely ignoring the feelings of his daughters, he took out a legal document directly from his arms and asked them to sign it to officially declare the severance of father-daughter relationship with him.
At that time, Huang Yinhong was only 16 years old and was still in the stage of studying. Although she has long been disheartened by what her father has done, when faced with the signing of this agreement to sever family affection, she still can't cry and can't let go.
Huang Jing was younger, and in the face of this cruel reality, she snuggled tightly into her mother's arms and cried loudly.
Under the relentless pressure of her father, Huang Yinhong had to sign the agreement with tears. Huang Huaiyuan didn't care about this, his face was expressionless, as if this was just an ordinary legal document signed.
And Huang Manjiao hugged her two daughters tightly and promised them that she would spend the rest of her life caring for them and making up for her father's absence.
Since then, the mother and daughter have begun to live dependent on each other, living in a rented house. Huang Manjiao was almost penniless, and her life was difficult. The mother and daughter can often only eat simple and coarse food, but despite this, Huang Manjiao never complained about her difficulties in front of her daughter, but just paid silently to support this broken family.
For Huang Manjiao and her two daughters, that period undoubtedly became the most difficult and heart-wrenching time in their lives. As a wife and mother, she has done her best to maintain the integrity of the family on several occasions and to save the marriage that is already in danger.
However, Huang Huaiyuan's extremely arrogant and selfish nature, as well as his ruthless determination, finally shattered this family that was originally full of laughter and warmth, and changed beyond recognition.
Huang Huaiyuan's death is undoubtedly fate's last ridicule and severe punishment for him. All kinds of injuries and betrayals to his wife and daughter before his death, when he was dying, he finally tasted the pain of loneliness and helplessness.
However, just as the family was about to get out of its predicament and usher in a new life, a breath of disharmony swept over again.
The source of all this began after Huang Huaiyuan's death. Although the husband and wife had long been strangers before his death, Huang Manjiao, as his former wife, still decided to let his two daughters go to see him off.
However, to everyone's surprise, when her relatives and friends came to persuade her, she was resolutely resisted and ridiculed by the two nieces.
"Please leave!, he doesn't deserve to die for him!" Huang Yinhong bit her lip tightly, her eyes flashing with resentment, as if she was facing a person with a deep hatred. Although Huang Jing was young, she was equally firm and resolute in refusing their request.
The two sides immediately fell into a heated quarrel. On the one hand, Huang Huaiyuan's relatives and friends accused the two nieces of being "ungrateful" and "unfilial piety", and on the other hand, they told about Huang Huaiyuan's tragic situation before his death, trying to arouse the compassion of the two sisters.
However, no matter how hard the relatives and friends tried to persuade them, the two sisters remained indifferent, and their hearts were full of anger and hatred, and they were not affected in the slightest. The arguments between the two sides intensified, and the situation gradually spiraled out of control.
Relatives and friends naturally couldn't bear this rude behavior, and they fought back, blaming them for "forgetting the kindness that your father gave you life", but in the eyes of the two sisters, Huang Huaiyuan not only failed to fulfill the responsibilities of a father, but brought endless pain to the mother and daughter.
Soon after, the argument spread from the door to the house. There was even a relative and friend of Huang Huaiyuan, who threatened to have a "duel" with the two sisters in order to solve the problem once and for all.
Huang Jing trembled with fright from the noise of the quarrel, wept and begged them to leave, and said that she would never set foot in this house again.
In the face of the rapidly deteriorating situation, Ms. Huang Yinhong resolutely decided to request a private interview with the reporters present, in order to convey her father's true actions in a fair and just manner.
However, this move once again aroused strong resentment among Huang's relatives, one of whom even wanted to take violent action, but fortunately, the reporters decisively stopped his impulsive behavior.
At this moment, Ms. Huang Manjiao returned home in the dust, and immediately stood up after seeing the scene and bravely protected her two daughters from violation. She carried out the dishes that had been wantonly destroyed by her relatives and condemned them with deplorment for their rudeness and the harm they had done to others.
After the patient mediation of the reporters, the two sides finally calmed down their anger for the time being. However, the anger in Ms. Huang Manjiao's heart did not dissipate.
In the face of the firm stance of his wife and daughters, even in the last moments of his life, Mr. Huang Huaiyuan was destined to be unforgivable. The sins he had committed in his life were too heavy for the family to be easily erased.
It is gratifying that Ms. Huang Manjiao finally managed to support the whole family with the strength of love and tenacity, and helped her two daughters through the difficult times in their lives.