Because more and more celebrities, whether male or female, marry wealthy families, and in the end they all fail and suffer losses, so many people feel that when they get married, they must talk about money. Don't think that because the other party's family background is better than yours, you feel that if you marry the other party and marry the other party, you will not be calculated and guarded against money, but you will be easy to take advantage of yourself.
I saw a very interesting point of view today, saying that Dou Xiao is actually the same as Da S, both of whom are stars who like to paint cakes for themselves. To put it bluntly, Dou Xiao married He Chaolian by himself, and the woman would not say what resources and connections I can give you, but Dou Xiao now feels that he has suffered a loss, which makes people feel that he once painted cakes for himself, and he thinks that he will get something by marrying He Chaolian.
Big S's first marriage also makes people feel that they overestimate the benefits brought to themselves by the so-called wealthy family, and after knowing each other for 21 days, they quickly got married, caught the man, and finally used their popularity by the other party for free in the marriage, and lent money to each other, and after the divorce, their popularity was also used by the other party all the time, which was very bad.
Let's take a detailed look at why everyone thinks that Dou Xiao and Big S are the same kind, maybe you don't need to be inferior in the future when you face a partner with a better family background than you, but you really need to talk about money to avoid investing too much of your money, and finally stop the bleeding at a loss.
First, Dou Xiao painted a big pie for himself before marriage, thinking that Gao Pan's marriage would be beneficial, and he still made money to support himself after a year of marriage
In fact, there are many men now, who have a kind of climbing mentality, feeling that finding a girl with a good family background and rich will need to struggle for the rest of their lives. Dou Xiao has always been in love with Bai Fumei at the beginning, and he feels that this is also the psychology. It's Dou Xiao who thinks that if he marries Bai Fumei, his father-in-law and mother-in-law will arrange a way out for him, and their money will be their own in the end.
But what about Dou Xiao's state now, it's quite bad. On April 18, 2023, I spent 50 million for a wedding and 30 million for a diamond ring, and I was willing to spend money. On April 18, 2024, the first anniversary of his marriage, Dou Xiao gave people the feeling that he didn't even want to pay for a bouquet of flowers, or the anniversary was over.
The main reason, the outside world speculates that after He Chaolian got married, she basically did not pay for the small family, and Chen Wanzhen was not willing to give her son-in-law money and son-in-law's industry. He Chaolian herself is not willing to get pregnant and have children. It is equivalent to saying that the pie that Dou Xiao painted for himself before marriage failed.
Second, Big S painted a big pie for himself in his first marriage, thinking that marrying a rich man had many benefits, but in the end, he was ruined and discredited, and he couldn't get what he deserved in the divorce
Before Da S got married, he was actually very rich, and his house in Taiwan was 40 million yuan, and he could also make money. What she meant at the time was that she felt that she was so rich that she couldn't find someone who ate herself, or who was poorer than herself, and she had to find someone richer than herself.
So Da S knew her first husband for 21 days and immediately got married, for fear that he would be snatched away by others. But Big S got the so-called rich man to know that the rich family was in debt, or it was already a family that owed debts and did not pay them, and it was impossible to be decent in face. During the marriage, the popularity of Big S should be given to the other party for free. When the other party needs capital turnover, he also has to borrow 26 million.
After the divorce, Da S still couldn't get rid of squeezing his ex-husband and ex-mother-in-law. Big S's own reputation was ruined, he lost his ability to make money, and the other party did not give alimony, mortgage, and child support, which is really a blood loss. If Da S didn't want to draw a big pie for himself at the beginning, he felt that he would not lose money if he married a wealthy family, and he would find an ordinary person who did his duty, and his life might be better now.
Third, most of the money of rich people is not used for seeing, don't be stupid to pay for everything, you don't rely on each other to live, there is no need to pay money to help each other and please each other
In fact, Dou Xiao's marriage may tell everyone that in the face of the other half whose family background is better than yours, and the other half who is not as strong as you, don't think that you are taking advantage, don't let the other party not say what you can get in marriage, you will draw a pie for yourself. You must know that the money of rich people is not used, even if you go in, other people's premarital property is still someone else's.
Moreover, most of people's inheritances are signed in this way, and the inheritance is inherited by biological children, and spouses cannot divide it. There are rich people, in fact, they know how to guard against people and calculate people. You marry a rich man with a big grin, draw a big pie for yourself, and finally find that you don't suffer so much when you choose ordinary people, and you choose a rich person to marry you, but you are eaten very badly.
It can only be said that people are equal, you don't rely on others to eat, there is no need to spend your own money to help each other and please each other before getting married. Be an upright person, don't paint cakes for yourself before getting married, and don't believe the other party's cakes.