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My name is Liang Songping, in 1991, when I was 27 years old, I was working in a county organ, and at that time, the county party committee wanted to select 20 cadres to go to the countryside and stay in the villages, and I was one of them who was selected to help the poor and backward mountainous areas.
The leaders encouraged us to temper ourselves at the grassroots level, on the one hand, to help the local people and improve the appearance of poverty there, and on the other hand, to improve the quality of our own cadres.
I was very responsive and took the initiative to ask Ying to go.
The main thing is that I didn't have a family at that time, so even if I went to such a remote area, I didn't have to worry about the future, my parents had my brother and sister to take care of, and although they were married, my parents could live with them.
However, when I came to this backward and poor village, I found that life here is indeed not easy, the infrastructure is too backward, there is often a lack of water and electricity, and there are many mosquitoes.
I stayed in a farmer's house, and although the family was very welcoming, I was not used to it when I first arrived, because the living conditions here are still far from those in the county.
What I have to do every day is to report to the local village committee, so as to help them carry out poverty alleviation work, so that farmers can find a way to get rich and get rid of poverty as soon as possible.
At that time, every village sent a cadre stationed in the village, so I could not keep in touch with the comrades who came with me often, so I could only come out to meet on a certain day every month to exchange work experiences.
One day, our group decided to inspect the local education facilities, so we visited every rural primary school and were led by comrades from the education department.
When I came to a rural primary school, I was particularly impressed by the fact that the principal of the primary school here was a woman, and she was quite young, who looked to be about the same age as me, and was over 25 years old, but not 30 years old.
When I shook hands with her, I noticed that she looked at me in a strange way, and she looked at me for several seconds before she smiled and said hello to me.
Is she too old and unmarried? Otherwise, I don't think she would have looked at me like that.
The moment I made eye contact with her, I could feel the longing and anticipation in her heart. And I'm not like this, I want to find a life partner as soon as possible.
After all, I'm quite old, but I haven't been able to find a suitable one, so now that I suddenly see her appear, in fact, the feeling in my heart is really indescribable.
However, after all, I met her in the workplace, and I could not have known her and talked to her.
Therefore, I could only communicate with one of the comrades in the education office, chatting and chatting, and talked about her, the female principal of this rural primary school, I finally knew that her full name was Zhong Shuhui, and as I expected, she was really not married, and she did not have a partner.
But her age surprised me, she was thirty-one years old, four years older than me.
When the comrade heard me ask so much about Zhong Shuhui, he jokingly asked me if I was interested in dealing with Zhong Shuhui, and he could help introduce and facilitate it.
I quickly shook my head and hid my red face, but the feeling of my face being hot and hot made me very embarrassed, and I only thought that if Zhong Shuhui saw me like this not far away, and knew that I asked a lot about her, she would definitely laugh at me secretly.
During this visit to the school, I actually looked at Chung Shuhui from time to time, and I really wanted to have a chance to talk to her and get to know each other. In addition, as one of the inspectors, it was only natural for me to talk to her and ask about some basic information about the school.
But every time I approached her, I wanted to stop talking, maybe it was the shame in my heart that worshipped, I really wanted to question myself, what is there to be ashamed of.
What I didn't expect was that just as our group was about to leave the primary school, the staff of the Education Office, because I had asked about the basic information of Zhong Shuhui, the principal of the primary school, so he actually pulled me to Zhong Shuhui all the time.
Immediately afterwards, he smiled and said: "Principal Zhong, this gay man, named Liang Songping, is a cadre from the county stationed in the village, you can get to know him well." ”
All the comrades present looked at me and Zhong Shuhui and laughed.
I just felt ashamed of myself.
And Zhong Shuhui shook hands with me again and asked me, which village am I stationed in?
When the name of the village where I was stationed was announced, she was surprised to say that it was so coincidental that she had come from that village, and that she lived in the school's dormitory as the headmaster.
But every Sunday, she would go back to her parents, which was her home.
When I heard this, I thought it was a coincidence, so I told her that I was staying at a villager's house, so if she could come back to me, especially if she needed any kind of help, I would definitely spare no effort to help her.
She said that where did she dare to trouble me, a cadre from the county, she only thought I was joking. I told her that I was just an ordinary gay man, and I just thought that it was not easy for her as a female principal, and if her parents had any difficulties, I would definitely come to help.
Her eyes immediately lit up, as if she felt something, and finally she nodded, and said that when she went back to the village, she would look for me.
In the end, our group got into the car and was about to leave.
When Zhong Shuhui waved goodbye to us, I only felt that her eyes were focused on me, and she kept looking at me.
In the next few days, I had been looking forward to Zhong Shuhui coming to me, thinking that if she was from this village, it would be natural for her to come to me when she came back to visit her parents, if she really wanted to deal with me.
But the final result made me feel very disappointed, on the first Sunday, I couldn't wait for Zhong Shuhui to appear, and on the Sunday of the second week, I still didn't see her appear.
How I longed for her graceful and well-defined figure to suddenly appear in front of my eyes.
But I waited and waited, but I waited for a disappointment.
Thinking of this, I couldn't help but smile in my heart and sigh, this was just her polite speech at that time, but I took it seriously?
In the end, I restrained my wisps of love, tried not to miss Zhong Shuhui, and only hoped that my heart would be filled with work, so as to slowly forget the headmistress of the elementary school I had loved.
However, one morning, when I was about to wake up, I slowly opened my eyes and smelled a burst of aroma, this is mung bean paste!
I haven't smelled such food for a long time, and I thought to myself, in this rural area, there should be very few people who know how to make this thing, why do I smell such a food aroma?
The head of the farmhouse where I live is named Li Jie, who is in his fifties and usually respects me very much.
I walked out of the room and saw Li Jie smoking shisha in the yard, so I asked him, Uncle Li, your family usually doesn't make mung bean paste, why does it have this aroma this day.
As soon as he saw me wake up, he seemed to have something important to tell me, and with a smile on his face, he said to me: "Comrade Liang, today the lady from our village came to look for you, and knows that you are from the south and like to drink this mung bean soup." ”
When I heard this, I thought, who is Miss A?
In the end, I continued to inquire and was surprised to learn that the girl Ah Shu in Li Jie's mouth turned out to be the famous principal of the eldest unmarried beauty primary school in their village, Zhong Shuhui.
I thought to myself, Zhong Shuhui really found this place? So, what about her now? I just walked out and looked at all the houses at a glance, but I didn't see her.
Li Jie told me that Miss Ah knew that there was a lack of firewood in the house, so she ran to the bamboo forest on the side of the mountain behind the house and chopped some bamboo to burn.
When I heard this, I immediately rushed to the bamboo forest behind the house.
I can't imagine in my heart that the usually gentle and elegant principal of a beautiful elementary school is now going to become a village girl and go outside to chop wood?
When I kept walking towards this bamboo forest, I saw a young and curvaceous figure, which really made my heart beat faster from a distance.
At this time, Zhong Shuhui did not wear the usual teaching clothes, so she put on some clothes and pants made of coarse cloth, but made her delicate and good-looking figure more attractive.
However, I had to control my heartbeat, so I stepped forward, thinking that she was chopping wood here, in fact, it was very dangerous, and if any male villagers appeared in this bamboo forest, they might not be able to hold it, not necessarily.
Zhong Shuhui heard my footsteps and turned around suddenly, obviously she was also panicked, but when she recognized me, she immediately laughed.
I said to her, "Principal Zhong, I really didn't expect that you would be here and chopping wood, this kind of work should be done by us men!"
As I spoke, I walked up behind her, just wanting to take the knife from her hand and help her chop wood.
But she didn't give me the firewood knife, and insisted on chopping the firewood herself, because she was born and raised in this rural area, so she did a lot of this kind of farm work when she was a child, and I am not a rural person, but I am not suitable for this kind of farm work.
I had no choice but to give up, and at this moment I approached her, only to feel the heat of her body passing on to my side, so I had to take a few steps back and try to control my breathing so that she could not hear it.
I watched as she finished chopping the wood before I helped her clean it up.
In this process, I don't think she looks like a rural girl at all, but like a female college student or intellectual, wearing glasses to do farm work here, because her temperament is so elegant and intellectual.
When I walked out of the small bamboo forest with her, she told me that she had actually thought about coming back to the village to find me two weeks ago, but she was too busy with her work at school.
The teaching tasks are quite tight, and you have to manage the teaching work of the teachers, so you can't walk away.
Immediately afterward, she told some of her past information.
She actually graduated from a normal university and had the opportunity to be a teacher in a big city, but in the end she chose to return to the countryside and became a Chinese teacher in this primary school.
And the reason why she is unmarried in her thirties is because she is too busy with education work, so that her love and marriage have been delayed, not to mention that the environment at home is not very good, her parents were born in farmers, and now they are sick and have difficulty moving, so they can only maintain family expenses with her salary.
She became the principal of this rural primary school, but her salary was not high.
She even told me about her salary income and annual teaching bonus, letting me know that her family's economic conditions are not good, because she is an only daughter, and the whole family depends on her income.
I didn't expect her to be so honest, and I thought that she really wanted to have a relationship with me, so she would tell me so directly about her family situation and economic income.
I also said frankly that my income is not high, and my position is average, and now I am a cadre stationed in the village, when I can be transferred back, and after I am transferred back, I don't know what kind of work I can engage in and what kind of arrangements I will get.
And my love experience is also quite simple, I used to fall in love once when I was in college, and finally broke up, and then I didn't fall in love until I was twenty-seven years old.
When she heard me tell me all this, her face flushed and she smiled shyly.
At this time, she and I actually knew that what was actually in each other's hearts was thinking, and we both wanted to develop a relationship with each other, hoping to fall in love and have a result.
When she and I returned to Li Kit's house, the pot of mung bean paste had been boiling for more than an hour, so the whole house was filled with the aroma of this mung bean paste.
Zhong Shuhui not only knew that I, a southerner, liked to eat mung bean paste, but she also knew that adding a kind of herb to mung bean paste could greatly enhance the taste of mung bean paste.
As a result, I ate the fragrant mung bean paste that I hadn't eaten for a long time on this day, and I just felt that this was the enjoyment that Zhong Shuhui brought me, and it was really a rare delicacy in such a poor rural place.
It was also the happiest day I have been in the village for a few months.
When I saw Zhong Shuhui leave, I told her that she came here this time and cooked such a pot of mung bean paste, which made me very happy, and I was actually very grateful to her, so I just wanted to repay her, go to her house, visit her parents, and by the way, see what I can help in the future, such as cleaning her house.
But she shook her head, saying that the environment of her home was too bad, so she did not want me to go to her house, and she would gradually improve the environment at home in the future, and maybe at a suitable time in the future, she would take me back.
In the end, I had to send her for more than ten meters, and then watch her walk to the other side of the village until I couldn't see her.
Although I didn't have a relationship with her this time, I guess she already sees me as a potential partner in her heart, and if I continue to date her, I will become a lover sooner or later.
I was quite excited and excited this night, and all I thought about was her, the headmistress of the elementary school, and I just felt that she was completely in my heart.
Maybe it's because of the love she gave me that I was extra positive and motivated at work.
I often pedal my bicycle and visit everywhere with the village cadres to relieve the worries of the farmers, sympathize with their difficulties, and report the situation to the superiors.
And every Sunday, if Zhong Shuhui doesn't have any busy work, she will come back to the village from the primary school where she works, and will come to me and do all kinds of meaningful things with me, such as helping some poor households in the village to clean up, going to the mountains to cut some firewood, and giving these poor households.
Later, at my insistence, Chung Shuhui took me to her home, met her parents, and had a meal in her family's small house.
I didn't expect that she, the principal of the primary school, really didn't have such a good family situation, and the house actually needed to be rebuilt, but because her salary was not high, she could only let her parents live reluctantly, and when she came back every week, she would clean it inside and out.
Her parents were quite happy in the face of my appearance, after all, Zhong Shuhui was already an older leftover girl who couldn't marry in the eyes of rural people, although she was quite beautiful, but her parents were still quite worried about her marriage.
I sensed that her parents wanted me to be really good with her and take care of her for the rest of her life.
But whenever her parents said something, she seemed very shy, and tried her best to explain to her that my relationship with her was just a good friend, so her parents should not make too many guesses, let alone say so absolutely, as if she and I were going to get married at any time.
And she also apologized to me privately, saying that her parents were in too much of a hurry, so some of the words might make me unhappy.
I shook my head and said it wasn't anything.
In fact, I already regard her as my future life partner in my heart, but I am not mentally prepared and have the courage to confess.
After all, the union of two people is a lifelong thing.
In the past six months, Zhong Shuhui and I have understood each other quite well, and our relationship has gradually deepened.
And she seemed to be waiting for me to say the most crucial words to her, so that she and I could really be together.
I finally decided that the following Sunday, when she came to me, I would have the courage to show her love and even propose.
However, to my great surprise, I received a notice at this time that I was going to be transferred back to the county party committee, that is, I was going to leave the village.
And the one who knew about this earlier than me turned out to be my brother, who worked in the provincial capital, and said that he had been waiting for this day for a long time, and when I officially accepted the transfer and returned to the county party committee, he arranged a blind date for me, and the blind date was the daughter of a cadre in the county town.
I listened to my brother on the phone and couldn't answer for a long time because I didn't know how to tell him that I was in love with someone here.
In the end, I just perfunctory him, said a few words, and hung up.
Immediately afterward, I was caught up in a whole night of mental struggles and entanglement of thoughts, quite painful.
I thought to myself, haven't I been waiting for the day when I will be transferred back? Now that I've finally arrived, why am I in such pain?
This is because I am in love with Zhong Shuhui, and if I go back to the county, then I will have very few opportunities to meet Zhong Shuhui.
And my brother won't agree to marry the rural girl here, even though Zhong Shuhui is the female principal of a rural primary school.
But after three days of careful consideration, I finally made my decision.
I just thought that since I really love Zhong Shuhui, then I must give Zhong Shuhui a real happiness, even if I am transferred to the county, I can continue to love her and give her happiness.
It's Sunday again, and I finally waited for Chung Shu-hui to appear, and she came back.
I pedaled my bicycle with her to a nearby town, walked around all day, and then returned to the village in the evening.
At the moment when I was facing her, Zhong Shuhui noticed that my heart was heavy, as if I had something important to say to her.
So she looked at me carefully and asked me with a serious expression, "What's the matter?" Ping, do you have anything to tell me?"
I nodded, and then slowly said to her that I was going to be transferred back to the county, and the opportunity to meet her in the future may be rare.
When she heard me say such news, the whole person froze, and the tears in her eyes seemed to be completely out of control and about to fall out at any time.
But in the end, she smiled and said to me, she wanted to congratulate me, because I could go there to do a better job, the organization needed me, and I had to be more motivated than before.
However, when she turned around, she couldn't control her emotions like a bank and sobbed.
I immediately stepped forward and hugged her, and said firmly in her ear: "No matter where I go, you are the most important person in my life, I want you to be my lover, I want to marry you!"
At that moment, Zhong Shuhui was stunned again, she turned around, as if to see, am I serious, or do I want to coax her?
My steely face, quite serious, nodded and said to her that I was serious, and had thought it through.
But after thinking about it again and again, she shook her head helplessly, saying that she was just an old girl from the countryside here, just a female principal of a rural primary school, and she asked herself if she was worthy of me, I would definitely regret it, and my family would not agree.
But once again I threw my arms around her, and whispered in her ear, "Since I have made up my mind, I will overcome all resistance, so that I must marry her and take her back to my house to see her parents and the rest of my family."
Eventually, I accepted the transfer and returned to the county, and after the job was confirmed, I went back to the village where I had been stationed.
I asked Chung to take a leave of absence with me so that I could set a time to see my parents and other family members.
My parents and my brother live in the provincial capital, and when I arrived, I immediately called my brother to see what kind of life decisions I had made.
My brother learned that I was going to marry a female principal of a rural elementary school, and I was a few years older, he really didn't understand, he just thought that I was confused by Zhong Shuhui?
And the blind date he wants to introduce to me is really a big boost to my future development, but I don't even want to see it?
But I said to my brother that in my life, Zhong Shuhui would not marry, and I only felt that my future was in my own hands and was obtained by my own efforts, not by anyone or by any relationship.
Eventually, my brother didn't say anything more.
After I married Zhong Shuhui, although we experienced a long period of time, we were still able to be together in the end, she applied to be transferred to a school in the county, and it was approved, and we lived together in that county, and she gave birth to a lovely daughter for me.
Now, she and I have become old husbands and wives, and our love is as good as ever, and I only sigh that we have overcome all difficulties for love to have today's happiness, and we really have no regrets.
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