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"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

author:Jing Ma Parenting

Text: Jing Ma

"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

Some time ago, when I took the subway, I just happened to meet the rush hour before the holiday, and saw a pregnant woman with a big belly squeezed on the subway, this pregnant mother estimated that she was pregnant for more than 8 months, and it looked like her belly was quite big, and the station was unstable, especially when the subway was ready to stop and shake at the station, the pregnant mother stumbled and almost fell.

"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

I couldn't bear to see a row of stools in front of me, 5 people sat down, 5 of them were relatively big, and they couldn't squeeze anymore, 4 of them were older aunts and uncles, and there was a handsome guy who looked like he was in his 20s, holding a mobile phone and playing, and he was still very happy while playing, hehe laughed, he should be watching some interesting short videos.

So I waved my hand in front of the handsome guy and said to him: Hey handsome guy, there is a pregnant mother here, there is no place to sit with a big belly, you give her a seat......

This handsome guy rolled his eyes and glared at me, saying that I was nosy, and then said: It's really selfish to be so poor that you have to get pregnant and have a baby on the subway, and you want to have a spacious seat to sit and take a taxi by yourself......

"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

This remark caused public anger, and there were a few aunts in their 40s standing next to me who heard this handsome guy say this, and immediately said angrily: You are really uneducated, let you sit down, it would be good if you didn't let it, and it was weird.

Don't you know that it's very uncomfortable when you're pregnant? Do you think that every family is full of rich second generations, and they all have gold and silver mountains to take a taxi every day!

Another aunt said: When I was pregnant, I didn't want to sit in a car at home, and I wanted to vomit when I smelled it, so it was more convenient to take the subway, and there would be no traffic jams, and the smell was also comfortable......

"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

The handsome guy was so squeezed by these aunts that he couldn't stand up quickly, and when he got off the bus at the station, I let the pregnant woman sit down, and the pregnant woman apologized to me.

In fact, many handsome guys or beauties who have never given birth to children are very incomprehensible about taking the subway while pregnant.

I remember when I was pregnant, there was often no one to give up the seat when I squeezed the subway, and I was squeezed out of the subway, and a kind person next to me said: Don't squeeze don't squeeze, there is a pregnant woman in front.

As a result, there was a beautiful woman in the back who said in a weird way: Everyone is in a hurry to go to work, if you are pregnant, then you will take a taxi, what kind of subway squeeze......

"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

In fact, the reason why pregnant women choose to take the subway is mainly due to the following 4 reasons, which are very realistic and heart-wrenching

The first reason: economic considerations

You must know that most of the women who are pregnant and have children are women in their 20s, who have just been married for a long time, and are likely to have bought a house.

The subway is a lot more economical, 4 yuan can sit for dozens of kilometers, plus there is a discount card, it is indeed better to take the subway from the economic aspect.

"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

The second reason: consider it from the perspective of time

If you take a taxi and encounter a traffic jam, it will be very uncomfortable, and a pregnant woman will actually be uncomfortable if she sits in the car for a long time, even if she sits in the car with a big stomach, it will be even more uncomfortable, and it will be even more uncomfortable if you are stuck in traffic.

However, you can avoid the risk of traffic jams by taking the subway, and it will be more comfortable to sit on the subway.

Reason 3: Consider motion sickness

Some pregnant mothers will get motion sickness when they are pregnant, but they will not get dizzy when they take the subway, because the smell of the subway is not so weird, and the subway is relatively stable, and some subways do not have the gasoline smell of cars, but many pregnant mothers will get motion sickness when they take the car, and they will vomit after motion sickness.

"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

The fourth reason: the temperature is more suitable for taking the subway

In the summer, many people like to take the subway, because the weather is too hot outside, and the subway has central air conditioning will be much more comfortable, this kind of air conditioning will be more comfortable than taking the bus and taking the air conditioning of private cars.

Therefore, it is actually a good choice for pregnant mothers to take the subway when they are pregnant.

"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

However, pregnant women also have precautions when taking the subway, and pregnant mothers should be clear about these points

The first point: it is best for pregnant mothers to choose the carriage of the old, weak, sick and disabled

After all, that carriage is mainly for the elderly, children, sick, disabled and pregnant, so the probability of giving up seats will be higher.

The second point: it is best for pregnant mothers to stagger the peak when traveling

Sometimes it is very uncomfortable to just have a place to sit on the bus, and when you get off the bus, it is not crowded.

"It's so poor that you squeeze the subway and have a baby, it's selfish!" The handsome guy's ignorant words caused public outrage: There is no education

The third point: pregnant mothers should be calm

When taking the subway, if someone is willing to give up their seat, then thank you, if no one gives up your seat, there is no need for moral kidnapping, after all, you have to balance your mind when you are pregnant.

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