When Xi Mengyao and He Youjun got married, they only got a certificate and did not hold a wedding, and netizens thought that the fourth wife didn't like Xi Mengyao, and felt that they were exchanging interests, one for money and one for color. Now, from a small follower who is despised by the fourth wife and a wrestling model who clings to a wealthy family, she has become the "Xi Guifei" in the mouth of netizens, and she has been in the C position in only 4 years...... What's going on here?
Text丨Financial gossip female author: Shu Ye
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Recently, a group photo of the gambling king's family went viral:
Liang Anqi, the fourth room of the gambling king, attended the banquet, the C position was actually Xi Mengyao, her mother-in-law was standing and she was sitting, and the gambling king's family was her foil, subtle and unusual......
Combined with the previous news from passers-by, the fourth wife has sent Xi Mengyao to study EMBA at the University of Hong Kong, and also took her to various celebrity gatherings. So some people speculated, is Xi Mengyao going to get in touch with the family business? Her status in the wealthy family has reversed?
You must know that when Xi Mengyao and He Youjun got married, they only got a certificate and did not have a wedding, and netizens thought that the fourth wife didn't like Xi Mengyao, and they also felt that they were exchanging interests, one for money and one for color.
Now, from a small follower who is despised by the fourth wife and a wrestling model who clings to a wealthy family, she has become the "Xi Guifei" in the mouth of netizens, and she has been in the C position in only 4 years...... What's going on here?
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/ The status of the giants has skyrocketed:
Mother-in-law asked her to stand in the C position, and her husband became a "strict wife" /
Do you dare to believe it, Xi Mengyao is already a proper wealthy C-position, and her status is rising gradually.
Let's just say that in March this year, the new ship of the Sitaijia Steamship Company was launched, and on such an important occasion, Xi Mengyao and He Youjun, a young couple, were actually allowed to preside, and Xi Mengyao was still standing in the C position when the group photo was taken.
You know, the launch of a new ship is very particular, and it is up to the important person to do the "bottle throwing ceremony", throwing a bottle of champagne on the bow of the ship and smashing it. This is a major event related to whether the new ship will go smoothly in the future, which shows how much the fourth wife attaches importance to Xi Mengyao.
This is nothing, before the fourth wife and second son held an event in the hotel, Xi Mengyao was directly on an equal footing with her mother-in-law, and the two sons had to step aside, and there was no one else for this treatment.
At that time, who would have thought that Xi Mengyao was once just a small "follower"?
In the past, although she had the opportunity to participate in various gatherings in the fourth room, she could usually only stand in the back row or corner, and rarely stood next to the fourth wife.
Now that the 180-degree reversal is taking place, with the support of her mother-in-law, Xi Mengyao's status in the wealthy family has skyrocketed, and it seems to be getting tougher and tougher.
Not long ago, the video of Xi Mengyao reprimanding her husband He Youjun on the street was exploded by the paparazzi.
In the video, Xi Mengyao and He Youjun are arguing on the street, Xi Mengyao is aggressive, and He Youjun is submissive. After seeing his wife angry, He Youjun was stunned and lowered his head and didn't say a word, and he didn't even open his mouth, like a child who did something wrong.
When Xi Mengyao finished venting her emotions, He Youjun raised his head and reached out to pat his shoulder with an aggrieved face to appease his wife's emotions.
Seeing this, many netizens said that the son of a wealthy family can't escape the "strict wife control"?
In fact, as an upright girl, Xi Mengyao has complained about He Youjun not once or twice.
She complained in the reality show "The Man Who Did Housework 4" that she was proposed to that year, saying that the marriage proposal ceremony planned by He Youjun was particularly bad......
also complained that He Youjun was lazy, didn't cook, could only order takeout, and couldn't take care of himself in various lives, and his expression was also unbelievable......
In the face of his wife's complaints, He Youjun, a wealthy man, accepted all the orders almost every time, like a "wife slave".
Some time ago, when the two participated in the reality show "Love's Study Trip" together, He Youjun mentioned in the show that He Youjun said that he learned a sentence from his father: "Listening to his wife will develop." ”
At first, everyone only thought that he was a little sarcastic when he said this, the four wives of the gambling king, who did they listen to?
Unexpectedly, this kid was serious. He listens to everything Xi Mengyao says, it can be said that he responds to requests, implements it immediately, and properly "strictly manages his wife".
When He Youjun was asked "Are you afraid of your wife", he didn't have time to answer, as soon as he heard Xi Mengyao's whispered reminder "stand up", he reflexively stood up. Needless to say, the body's reaction is already the best answer.
In the past, everyone thought that it was Xi Mengyao who climbed a wealthy family, but now they know that it was He Youjun who chased after him. So, where did Xi Mengyao attract the son of the gambling king?
In fact, although it is not as rich and expensive as the gambling Wang family, Xi Mengyao is also one of the few people who became famous at a young age and can break out in the supermodel circle.
In 2009, when Xi Mengyao was still studying at Donghua University, she participated in Dragon TV's "Come on! Oriental Angel" talent show and won the top five in the Shanghai Division. In October of the same year, she participated in the World Elite Model Contest and successfully signed a contract with Elite Paris, the world's largest modeling agency.
This means that at the age of 20, Xi Mengyao has realized the lifelong dream of countless models.
After that, Xi Mengyao's modeling career went smoothly. The following year, she became the first and only Asian model to be on the Givenchy show at Paris Haute Couture Fashion Week.
Less than two years after her debut, she appeared on the covers of magazines such as "VOGUE", "Fashion Magazine", and "Maifesto", and was also favored by Karl Lagerfeld, becoming Chanel's queen model, and quickly ranked among the top 50 global supermodels.
In 2013, Xi Mengyao officially appeared on the Victoria's Secret show, becoming the fourth Asian model to walk on the Victoria's Secret stage. With her iconic oriental face and confident steps, she has conquered countless audiences.
Later, after He Youjun fell in love with Xi Mengyao at first sight at the show, he instigated his sister He Chaoying to be friends with Xi Mengyao, and then got the moon first near the water and launched a fierce pursuit.
At that time, He Youjun was busy participating in the recording of "The Strongest Brain", and finally got the promotion place.
heard from a friend that Xi Mengyao was going to go on "Jet Lag of Love" and date other men, so he was so anxious that he hurried to "chase", decisively gave up the "strongest brain", and used the bad excuse of "falling into the brain when he went to the toilet", which made people cry and laugh.
With He Youjun's perseverance, he finally got his wish to hold the beauty. In July 2019, Xi Mengyao married He Youjun, and then gave birth to her first child, He Guangshen, in October, which attracted attention.
Today, Xi Mengyao has both children and daughters, her husband loves her, her mother-in-law recognizes her, and she has also gained a lot of passers-by through variety shows, and is considered by many people to be a "winner in life".
However, who would have thought that her life in the gambling king's family was not very good?
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/ The road to the advancement of wealthy daughters-in-law:
From being disgusted to "Xi Guifei",
Relying on emotional intelligence to control the gambling king's family? /
Before Xi Mengyao married into a wealthy family, it was rumored many times that the fourth wife of the "prospective mother-in-law" was not satisfied with her. The changes in the relationship between the two can be regarded as experiencing some back-and-forth and twists and turns.
Back then, when the scandal between Xi Mengyao and He Youjun came out, the reporter asked the fourth wife what she thought of her son's scandalous girlfriend, and the fourth wife directly said: "I don't know her, and I haven't heard of her."
At that time, He Youjun's sister He Chaoying was also present and immediately asked the reporter to skip the topic.
Not long after, Xi Mengyao posted a photo of the building, which is a property under the name of the fourth wife, and there are heart-shaped lights on it, and He Youjun came to praise it. The fourth wife still refused: she never asked about these things.
Of course, maybe the fourth wife is not specifically targeting Xi Mengyao. After all, He Youjun revealed on the show that each of his girlfriends is regarded as a transparent person.
However, seeing that her son was serious this time, before the fourth wife saw Xi Mengyao, she also deliberately made a back adjustment, and the first time the two met, they played mahjong all night, and then the fourth wife deduced: Xi Mengyao is patient, has high emotional intelligence, and understands communication. Therefore, the fourth wife is willing to continue to observe and understand her.
Seeing this, Xi Mengyao gave full play to her own advantages to the extreme to please the fourth wife.
In 2018, Xi Mengyao followed Si Tai and He Youjun to Thailand. During the period, he always followed behind, and carefully helped pull the chair, and did not hold hands with He Youjun, not only careful throughout the whole process, but also took care of the fourth wife's emotions very much.
After the trip to Thailand, the attitude of the fourth wife and others towards Xi Mengyao also changed. Hong Kong media broke the news that the fourth wife said that the trip was very fun after the trip, and when asked about her impression of Xi Mengyao, she was also full of praise:
She is a good girl, very self-motivated, and careful.
After that, Xi Mengyao was like getting a "pass" for the daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, she was photographed taking the fourth wife's special car to the airport, and the driver who drove it was still exclusive to the fourth wife's daily life.
Later, on the day He Youjun successfully proposed to Xi Mengyao, the fourth wife also appeared, wearing a red dress that looked festive, and holding the hands of her son and prospective daughter-in-law, it seemed that she had already approved.
Although the fourth wife praised Xi Mengyao in front of reporters, in fact, the relationship between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still a bit delicate.
First of all, Xi Mengyao and He Youjun have never had a wedding. And often wealthy families hold weddings and feast a large number of guests, which can be regarded as recognized by the wealthy circle.
In this regard, He Youjun said to the outside world that the reason why he didn't hold a wedding was because the gambling king died, and he was in the filial piety period, and other people's filial piety period may be one year, but his is three years.
Later, when Xi Mengyao gave birth to a child, the fourth wife announced that she would "reward" her with a mansion worth more than 100 million yuan, but it was picked up, and only He Youjun's name was on the real estate certificate, so this "reward" is also a bit empty.
In addition, Xi Mengyao and He Youjun have been renting a house outside. He Youjun said before that he didn't want to be a "gnawing old man" and wanted to work hard with Xi Mengyao, so after giving birth to a child, they moved out to live. Later, she gave birth to a second child and moved again.
The reporter asked the fourth wife why the young couple wanted to rent a house, and the fourth wife said that their house was being renovated, and young people did not like to live with them.
From this point of view, Xi Mengyao is probably the only "Kuotai" who rents a house. Before, Xi Mengyao posted yoga photos, and was picked up by netizens to live in an apartment in Shanghai that is only rented but not sold, with a monthly rent of more than 100,000 yuan, which is enough for ordinary people to buy a suite.
However, Xi Mengyao didn't care much about these performances. She is still respectful to her mother-in-law, and is often photographed shopping with the fourth wife, taking care of her intimately, more intimate than her daughter, and the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems to be getting closer and closer.
Not only that, Xi Mengyao and the fourth wife's daughters have also become best friends. And Xi Mengyao's good relationship with the He family sisters may also be one of the important factors for her to smoothly integrate into the wealthy family.
As we mentioned earlier, before meeting He Youjun, Xi Mengyao first met her sister-in-law He Chaoying, and the relationship between the two has long been like best friends.
Later, Xi Mengyao and her sister-in-law He Chaoxin kept closing the distance. The two were invited to a friend's wedding together and took intimate selfies together.
Therefore, from being ignored at the beginning to being promoted to the C position now, Xi Mengyao's family status has indeed undergone a lot of changes. And in the Shura field of a wealthy family, Xi Mengyao is not enough to rely on emotional intelligence, she has to fight for her children and career.....
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/ Baby, comeback, HKU morning eight,
The daughter-in-law of a wealthy family is cultivated as an heir? /
In fact, since Xi Mengyao married into the gambling king's family, she has not been idle for a moment, giving birth to a baby, making a comeback, and going to the eighth morning of the University of Hong Kong, all of which have been arranged.
If you want to gain a firm foothold in a wealthy family, having children is definitely the top priority, which is related to family inheritance, and "mothers are expensive by their children" is not just talking.
In October 2019, Xi Mengyao gave birth to a son, which was considered a C-position debut at that time. The whole family came to accompany her and surrounded her. He Youjun excitedly posted a long article, announcing that the gambling king personally named the child "He Guangshen", and also said that this is the "eldest grandson" of the gambling king.
Not to mention the fourth wife, when Xi Mengyao gave birth to this child, she was photographed and hurried to the hospital. At that time, she was interviewed by Hong Kong media, with a happy and joyful face, and said that she hoped that Xi Mengyao could give birth to a football team.
When giving birth to the second child, the fourth wife flew from Hong Kong to Shanghai to visit, a boy and a girl, and the fourth wife happily said that the family had made up a good word, and her face was still full of joy.
After giving birth to a baby, Xi Mengyao was not idle, and immediately started the road to comeback. Although she didn't walk the runway again, she was active on major social media, and her painting style was mainly based on hard photos of supermodels and platforms, interspersed with a few life photos.
She can be seen in various brand-name activities, like a "career-oriented strong woman". Shooting magazines, attending events, and endorsing brands are not left behind, and they are still the darlings of the fashion circle.
Furthermore. Xi Mengyao is also keen to appear in variety shows with He Youjun. When I was in love, I went on "The Jet Lag of Love", and after marriage, I recorded "Happiness Trio", "The Man Who Did Housework 4" and "Love's Study Trip", and the two of them bundled consumption and gained a lot of CP fans.
Especially the recent "School Trip of Love" helped the two reverse a lot of word of mouth, and also took business resources with them.
In the show, "I love you" is He Youjun's mantra, and he can't wait to stick to Xi Mengyao 24 hours a day, and he has to rely on her even when he is tired. He said that he participated in the show just to be able to accompany his wife more.....
After getting married, He Youjun insisted on putting Xi Mengyao in the first place, promising that "the small family is given priority to everyone" and "loves her more than her son and daughter".
There is also a hot discussion clip on the Internet, once, the two chatted in the desert and talked about the ruggedness and ups and downs they have experienced over the years. He Youjun said to Xi Mengyao:
"It's hard work, my life is so complicated, and my family is so complicated. ”
When Xi Mengyao heard this, she was so moved that she cried. Seeing this, He Youjun immediately changed from leaning on her shoulder to holding her in his arms and comforting her.
When she first got married, Xi Mengyao said: "I am married to love, if there is no love, I don't want to enter any wealthy family", but no one believed it.
It wasn't until after this variety show was broadcast that many netizens changed their words and said: "It turns out that she is really married to love." ”
What's even more surprising is that after Xi Mengyao gave birth to a child, she actually went to the eighth class in the morning.
At that time, He Youjun and his sister went to see Wang Jiaer's concert, but Xi Mengyao was photographed wearing a school uniform to class, and netizens were stunned. The wives of wealthy families also have to study, which is too hard!
Soon, Xi Mengyao personally reposted He Youjun's Weibo, and ridiculed:
Your happiness is so noisy that I learn.
According to netizens, Xi Mengyao enrolled in the EMBA program of the University of Hong Kong, with a tuition fee of nearly 1 million Hong Kong dollars, and the study time was two years.
This is not an ordinary "Kuotai training class", but a real business school course. Previously, someone also photographed that the fourth wife personally took Xi Mengyao to inspect the hotel under her name.
So some people say that this is Mrs. Si's intention to train Xi Mengyao to take over the family business, and she is going to transform from a "wealthy daughter-in-law" to a "strong business woman".
After all, Si Tai is a notoriously strong woman with a huge business empire in her hands. If Xi Mengyao can get her true biography, it will also be a promising future.
So, without two brushes, how can you survive in a complex wealthy family?
You think she is just clinging to her beauty, but in fact, she is secretly cultivating behind her back, and she is still rolling up after marrying into a wealthy family, either taking classes or going to work. So no matter what, women still have to live as adults and sober as adults.
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