Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
A good relationship is like a balance. The weights on both sides are the same and are balanced.
If a man always provides you with low-cost "love" and does something that looks touching, but will ask for greater benefits for you, such a man does not really love you.
A man who doesn't love you enough is more likely to betray you.
Whether a man will betray you or not, in fact, you can see it before you get married.
The man who will betray you, before getting married, when two people get along, the balance is unbalanced.
02. Be attentive before marriage, but it is difficult to keep your heart after marriage
I have a reader who left a message in the background saying:
She and her husband met on a blind date. The man's family conditions are okay, and his impression of him is also very good, and after more than two months of dating, he got a marriage certificate.
Not long after getting married, the man "revealed his true form" and betrayed the marriage.
She realized that before he got married, he was very attentive. She regretted it so much, before getting married, she didn't ask much about what his previous love life was.
She just wants to end this ridiculous marriage early while she has no children.
If a man is very attentive before marriage, it is difficult to keep his heart after marriage.
You must know that after entering marriage, the heat of love will quietly fade. Living in a bland life of firewood, rice, oil and salt, the sweetness will gradually decline.
In this way, when there is temptation outside of marriage, it is more difficult for a man to keep his heart and keep his marriage.
Flower heart is a habit that penetrates into the bones.
For feelings, they will not be dedicated, and they will not be affectionate for a person. Women, never love a man who is devoted to marriage because you will never be the last woman in his life.
03, it is difficult for a man who flatters you in exchange for benefits to go to the end of the day
In "Perfect Relationship", Cui Yingjun flatters his wife Stella in every possible way.
At home, like a nanny, she waits for her. For the sake of his own career, he said all the good things in front of her, just to let his wife help him improve his performance.
Although Cui Yingjun is obedient to his wife, in fact, it is all an illusion.
He had already betrayed his marriage and had a relationship with an extramarital woman with a child.
If a man is only bound to your interests, he will not treat you sincerely.
When you have no value for profit, or if he doesn't get what he wants from you, he may betray you or end the marriage.
Men who exchange favoring you for benefits are too utilitarian and will confuse feelings and interests.
His kindness to you and his dedication to you is not simply to love you, but to make you happy in exchange for some kind of benefit.
It is difficult for couples who only have interests to get to the end of the day. Because, when a woman outside of marriage gives him more benefits and needs, he betrays the marriage.
04. Before marriage, he told you that the person he loves is not you
In "Mischievous Kiss", Jiang Naoki was with the investor's granddaughter Huilan in order to save the company, and they reached the point of getting engaged.
However, Jiang Zhishu loves Yuan Xiangqin in his heart, and only when he is with Yuan Xiangqin will he lose control of his emotions and feel that he has come back to life.
He travels with Huilan and is often absent-minded. Choosing jewelry for engagement is also a lack of interest.
Only when I think of Yuan Xiangqin can I not help laughing.
Huilan loves Jiang Naoki very much, but she chooses to give up being with him. Because she knows that marrying someone who doesn't love her will definitely not end well.
Before marriage, tell you that the person he loves is not your man and cannot go through your life.
Because, his heart has long been occupied by another person.
Sigmund Freud said, "At the beginning of a marriage, two parties cannot love each other with body and heart, and once it breaks down, it will be faster than anything else." ”
If a man, with other women living in his heart, chooses to be with you for some unavoidable reason, then the marriage is not strong from the beginning.
There is a big gap between the two people, a lack of trust, and a fragile marriage.
If "true love" appears again, he will definitely not be able to hold on to it, and he will return to the person he loves in his heart.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
Women, don't go down with someone who doesn't love you.
Especially, the man who spends his heart before marriage, or uses his interests to date you, in the future, he will not be able to keep his heart.
On the road in the future, he may meet one and love another, and marriage does not have any binding force for him.
If the person you love doesn't love you, then fulfill him and the person he loves, and let yourself go, which is the best result.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.